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yes, i think some can be taken literal [2008-05-08]
and some symbolic, ie, do snakes maybe represent danger to your daughter? Of course most my dreams have no apparent meaning. but i have had a few that were helpful. once my horse had gotten loose and we couldn then i remembered what i was dreaming when my dad had woke me up -- and i told him the precise place to go, and sure enough, there was my horse. Another, after a person very close to me died, was one that gave me reasons to 'hang on' and live my life out, helping me significantly. I do think it would be more difficult to tell the significance of your child's dream vs your own.
Behavior changes in husband [2008-01-08]
I have searched the internet for some clues to what is described below but not even sure what key words to enter in a search.
Anyway, husband is 46 and exceedingly fit and athletic his whole life. Behaviorally and genetically he is prone to accentuated mood highs and lows, not quite bipolar probably but close. Runs heavily in his family. He tends toward aggression, bullying and denial at times. Childish at times, even naive, very literal even though highly educated. All the above has been increased by about double (particularly the childishness in behavior and decision-making) in the past year and it is nearly intolerable. He often doesn I have to repeat things over and over and worst of all, he makes poor decisions about things and I often feel like I I am stressed on an almost constant basis. Alzheimer Is there the possibility of mental illness manifesting itself at this age?
Husband gets mad and calls me a *itch.... [2007-12-05]
We have been married for 10 years. Lately when he gets mad I am reduced to being called a *itch. WhenwedonDoes not matter what I might do, not cook for him, not turn on the heater this morning when I am supposed to be working.
I am an MT working at home. I have to work a schedule, which I fail to do, so I have to be more stern about what I can and cannot do because I want my job. Being called a *itch---what does that really mean. I do not view myself as a *itch but then no one does. Ihave read that it is a woman who is extremely disliked, spiteful, overbearing, and I am reduced to this name calling because it is something he wants to call me only because I did not do what he wanted and it made him mad.
He says that he is not in the mental state he should be regarding me working as at home as it is --just not working-- Yes, for years it seems I always work as I try to be with the family and as a result I get behind and have to work every spare moment I get and even then do not make my commitment. Okay, I do get fatigued, maybe depressed, but I love working at home and I know that I have to stick to my schedule. maybe 70% of that is my fault but a lot is from him as well wanting me to do things for him that he can do for himself. like wash his clothes for work, sometimes he does and sometimes he doesn
Well the reason for all that is to ask.... does my husband really hate me so much to call me a *itch. What really does he mean? I am not overbearing. I let him do whatever he wants. He did not have to work for years. Now he finally gets a job and he is all high and mighty about me and what I do and don He can improve on things just as much as I can. does that mean you have to yell, scream, rant, and rave because he don
He says the way to a man Yeah, I have heard all that but does that mean you have to take it so literal. If we don I am a man. My testerone levels get too high! he start punching the wall! okay, maybe we don
Yes, I am reduced to yelling right back at him. Everyday I think I am not going to yell, but I do anyway.
Sorry, any advice. I feel we havea shallow relationship now. He gets mad and then I am a *itch. I try to get along with him and watch our shows together, then, later I get yelled at because I made time to watch TV. We make love, I think we are getting closer, and something else sets him off. I realize we have deep issues we have to work out, but I also think getting mad making the other person miserable is not the answer.
What does he really mean when he says I am a *itch now. helpless....
This may be the wrong to thing about it, but sm [2007-03-13]
if you consider middle age 50 or 60, to me, that is assuming that person is going to live to be 100 or 120. Of course, that is a very literal interpretation, but that has always been my thought. Probably not the norm, but hey, that's me sometimes on a whole different page.
Interesting question, though. It will be interesting to see what others think.
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