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Yes, true, the daily lifestyle does not differ, but the nightly does,nm

Posted By: , on 2009-05-14
In Reply to: Gay Lifestyle - not an issue, just a rant

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I can't sleep either. Take Tylenol PM nightly. SM
Exercise does help. When I exercised 45 minutes a day, slept like a baby, but I have felt too much stress to exercise! LOL!
Gay Lifestyle

I'm calling this "off topic" because it's really not an issue, just a rant. No one need reply, I'm just bored and this has been on my mind.


I really have a problem with the term "gay lifestyle". It's just one of those things that bugs the crap out of me. What exactly is the "gay lifestyle"? I'm gay and should know but I don't. My lifestyle is no different than anyone elses. We get up in the morning and go to work and earn a living. We come home have dinner, maybe watch some TV or not. This time of year we may just hang out around the pool in the evening.


More and more other same sex couples are raising children and dealing with homework and getting the kids in bed.


There's yardwork to be done, housework too. The laundry doesn't do itself!


I've never heard anyone mention the "straight lifestyle". Is "gay lifestyle" a code word for something more sinister? I do notice that the people that use the term are generally not very open minded about homosexuality.


OK I'm done. Like I said I'm bored and just killing time.


first day of new lifestyle change....Ugh!!! sm

No diet sodas, regular sodas, refined sugars, bad carbs.....I snuck in a little orange juice this morning. I'm reading and following "Body by God" and trying to eliminate most man-made foods (which are obvious) and replacing them with God-made foods which are the obvious, too (fruits, veggies, beans, lean meats, chicken, etc.). No cheese, either.


I didn't realize (well, I sorta did) how much I rely on my Diet Dr. Pepper EVERY morning. Yes, I'm grouchy. I'm drinking water this morning (yuck) - actually, I don't mind water, but I'm dying for my PEPPER!!!!


What's gotten me to this point? My hormones, thyroid, everything is getting out of balance due to obesity. yes, I admit it! This has been a struggle of mine for years. I cannot even tell you how many times I've failed trying to change my lifestyle. I have young children, too, and we went to like McDonald's and Burger King quite a bit.....That will have to stop too :(


It's not ALL bad, though. I do get one "vacation" day a week to eat pretty much whatever I want. Doc says that even 1 to 2 days of this Body by God will yield results. 3 to 4 days of Body by God will yield great results, and all 7 days of this regime will yield the BEST results for you and your body. I'm tired of the swelling. I'm tired of trying to cover up my belly fat. Hey, I'm just being brutally honest.


Is there a diet board? I need fill-in ideas for snacks that are healthy. I've never, ever eaten healthy before..... = My emotions right now!~


Why is the lifestyle more important?
He is a me type person. I have a grown daughter just like that. He is only thinking of himself and what he wants. This is the difference in my martial situation- if my husband wanted to move somewhere else I would go with him in a minute, no question. I love my home but I love him more. The statement about the other woman would probably make me feel a little uneasy because I feel if you are saying things like that, how do I know you are not acting on them? I have a cousin spent loads of time hunting, going to all kinds of meetings of things he was involved with, had 2 almost grown sons, left his wife of 30+ years, had met another woman and gave up a paid for 4 bedroom brick home to live with this woman in a trailer… It happens.
For my lifestyle change, I had lapband
Can't think of a better Christmas and New Year gift to myself. I absolutely love it. Have lost 20 pounds so far.
the best plan is lifestyle change, not some dangerous
like the previous poster said, the weight will come back when you stop. I have kept a food diary and counted calories and now am down to 108 lbs. Creating a calorie deficit is the only safe way to lose weight.
Convict, judge. I don't do that. I don't agree with the lifestyle based on
homosexuality to be a sin.  If you read my posts completely, you would have seen in my example of running into each other in the mall, that I would be respectful to you, but that did not mean that I agreed with your lifestyle.  In the end, God with judge us all.  That's not my job.
I agree. I have to lose 80 pounds. Changed lifestyle, exercising now, sm
drinking more water instead of diet soda, life is good. I feel better now than ever before. Oh yea, I just quit smoking too... last cigarette was June 12th, the same diet I started my healthy way of living and lost 10 pounds so far.


but I differ on some (sm)
Brad is getting on my  nerves following Victoria around.  He should get with Sharon and be done with it.  I love Nick and Phyllis together (especiallly Nick with a beard - now that's HOT).  Victoria and JT I like together.  Jack and who knows who?  I like Lily and Daniel together.  Couldn't stand Dru. I hope she NEVER comes back.  Yes, it's always good to have someone to chat with and figure out what's going to happen.   - LOL
Ok, this is where we differ
I moved into my new home in 2004, at my previous one had been on the budget bill for electricity like you. I was told if I wanted the budget for this home, I would have to accept the old homeowners budget bill moving out- or else pay for 12 month straight before I could get on my own budget. Mind you, same company, just 30 miles down the road some. The woman said this was a different home from mine and I said yeh, and different family. Long story short- the previous owners were paying in excess of 200-300$ per month. I just had my bill reduced once again from 80 (wound up with credit paying that each month) and for the next 12 months $76.00. I tried to tell her- different family!! I would never accept their price because knew I did not use that much.
I beg to differ on this (sm)

My mom was in a health care plan supposedly run by doctors. Well, they would NOT cover a hospitalization or doctor because,even though I had prior consent to use this hospital and doctor ahead of time, they refused to pay the bill! I had to beg the doctor to release her ahead of time as Mom did not have that kind of money to pay out only living on $500 a month.


I took them through the appeal process and did win. They had to pay...but found out,in talking to others, that they were even worse than a regular insurance company! I dropped that insurance fast and got her signed up with regular insurance!!! No more headaches.


 


Beg to differ
First of all, this forum is called GAB - it means we express our opinions. SO, stay off this board and keep your judgments to yourself. Your're judging us just as you're complaining about how we are judging the Spears kid.

Secondly, this does concern all us. Not only because it affects the young people in our lives, who will be talking about this among themselves, but also because this 16-year-old child Jamie Lynn is having a baby who will be going to school and living in this country. So, that child will indeed be affecting my tax dollars. I may not pay for the delivery of the kid, but everything that impacts that child's life is paid for by our tax dollars.

You would have to an @diot to be happy about this kid having a kid. There is nothing nice to say about it unless you just have no clue.
I beg to differ . . .
nobody's trying to shove any agenda down anyone's throat.  Just because you personally don't like homosexuals, doesn't mean they don't deserve the same rights as anyone else.  Otherwise, we would still have slaves and women would still be considered inferior beings!!
I beg to differ
I have met quite a nasty handful of man hating mothers lately who have raised a bunch of foul mouthed daughters who hate men. My son deserves better!
I beg to differ.....going by who she hangs around with.
Jay-Z attended George Westinghouse High School in Downtown Brooklyn and Trenton Central High School in Trenton, New Jersey but did not graduate. He claims to have been caught up in selling drugs, which he refers to in his music.

Jay-Z was accused of stabbing record executive Lance "Un" Riviera for what he perceived was Riviera's bootlegging of Vol. 3... Life and Times of S. Carter. The stabbing allegedly occurred at the record release party for Q-Tip's debut solo album Amplified at the Kit Kat Klub, a now defunct night club in Times Square, New York City, on December 9, 1999.

Jay-Z's associates at the party were accused of causing a commotion within the club, which Jay-Z allegedly used as cover when he supposedly stabbed Riviera in the stomach with a five-inch blade.

Nice role model, huh?

LOL
I beg to differ - Carpetbagger ! sm
New York State does NOT bring you Hillary Clinton! She is, was and always will be a carpetbagger - the only reason she came here was to set herself up to run for President! She swore back then she would not do that. See how honest she is? I'm ashamed of anyone who voted her into office!
I differ in my opinions - sm




Everyone has limitations and personal problems, including those with high IQ.  When we examine those on the other end of the scale, the mentally challenged, many of them seem very happy, and easily contented with the simple things in life.  Its because they are able to concentrate on that one thing and enjoy it.  Often the rest of us are too distracted by what's going on in our head to enjoy the here and now.  The smarter one is, the more easily they can identify what is wrong with a situation, so perhaps the more problems they see the more they tend to be distracted by worries, etc. and cannot enjoy the simple things in life.


Alcoholism?  The tendency to that type of escapism is inheritable.  Wise people that know it runs in their family will never indulge at all.  But smart doesn't necessarily equal wise.  In fact, smart often leads to arrogance, which leads to risk taking.  You can also wonder how smart people can smoke, gamble, vote the way they do, whatever.  These behaviors may be unwise, but they don't make them any less smart (except when the activity actually kills their brain cells).  Guess what my ex said to me - "I have so many more brain cells than most people, I can afford to kill half of them off and STILL be smarter than you".  Gee, I wonder why I divorced him...


I knew a brilliant guy (not my ex) that I posed your question regarding self-destruction.  He claimed it was his brain, and his right to waste it, or not, as he saw fit.  I suppose it will be between him and his maker to discuss whether or not it is a sin to do so.  I don't think anyone blamed his mother.  Nobody blames my ex's mother (indeed she has tried very hard to make him see the error of his ways).  They lose the respect of people that had high hopes for them, yes, the definitely do.  Their future looks really dismal.  But they can still run rings around us in calculus, even three-sheets-to-the-wind.  Aggravating as heck, but oh well,


I am one that believes that if a person wants to trash their life, its between them and God.  But as I told my ex, when judgement day comes, he'll have some explaining to do, and I wouldn't want to be his his shoes.


Begging to differ. sm
If I had Michelle's figure, the world wouldn't be ready for me! I've been short, stocky and usually overweight from day one, and even at my age, I'd love to have a figure like that! :D :D
I think different states may differ in rules...
but the answer was yes in my case. He "quit claim" deeded the house to me, but the mortgage was still in both names. No way is a bank or mortgage company going to let one off the hook in case the other defaults.

Hope this helps.
I beg to differ; NOT just the *rich and famous*..sm
this problem crosses every socioeconomical level.........it's not just involving the rich and famous.........
i beg to differ. I wish i had freedom FROM religion
I get treated by a leper because I am athiest.

I beg to differ -- Our menstrual cycles
are designed to repeat approximately every 28 days, therefore allowing us the opportunity to avoid pregnancy or seek it.  Of course, I know not everyone is regular enough to rely on the rhythm method, but it certainly seems that Mother Nature designed it that way on purpose.  A little bit archaic though, I think, to say that we shouldn't be deciding whether we want children or not.  Planned parenthood has been around for decades.
I beg to differ. Forgiveness, even Biblical terms, can
only genuinely happen AFTER the offender repents for having hurt/offended you. Forgive and forget is just a wimpy nonconfrontational thing. The only way one can feel true forgiveness is if the other party repents. One can make informed decisions and move on, but forgiveness is not one-sided, though it sounds all warm and fuzzy.
I beg to differ - chocolate tastes better than "skinny." LOL. NM
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That's our daily routine...
My BF does all of the cooking, cleaning, shopping, errand-running, etc.

Maybe I should have been the one to cook dinner last night, huh?

Hmmmmm.....
Your idea of details and mine differ greatly.
Details would be a blow by blow.  Simply stating I conceived my child 9 years ago on this night is not detailed.  Saying I did or didn't have a BM today is not detailed giving you a play by play explanation of said BM would be detailed.  We all have sex and we all have BM -- saying so isn't gross.  Doing it in front of you would be gross.  Showing home movies would be gross.
Have at it. You are limiting yourself to options daily.
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I pray consistently daily cuz I believe
in the power of prayer.
Tyne Daily, Judging Amy, NM
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Eat yogurt daily, helped me....nm
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Take OTC Estroven daily and Benadryl 25-50 mg each night
Works like a charm for me - plus the Benadryl helps with my allergies and my migraines. I hit meno early (early 40s) and it sucks! Can't sleep, wicked hot flashes, restless leg, weight gain, yadda yadda... but since i've been on Estroven Plus (actually, Eckerd Drug's generic, called Estroplus) taking it daily for about a month, the symptoms are SOOOOO much better!!
Been married 1-1/2 years...still 2-3 times DAILY and still very hot for us...
I dunno....started off just as intense physical attraction, moved to serious feelings, living together, marriage, and we still both want each other 2-3 times a day.

I don't know if we're just really lucky or really just freaks, lol!!!
I have a my space and use it daily to monitor my daughter and her friends
Yep thats me nosy mom but I have a few moms on my friends list lol
Oh my God. I read People.com daily. I was warned today sm

that one shouldn't read too much or watch t.v. when it comes to the VT shootings. Well, curiosity got the best of me and I read (with great regret) first accounts on 4 students who survived, played dead, jumped out windows, etc. The first student who emailed his story to People.com puts you right there with him. He played dead.  Everyone in his class died except for him and this other girl and she was wounded. I have 3 sons. My heart just broke, literally, for the first time since hearing about the tragedy. I've been sad for them, but not like this. How absolutely horrifying and terrible what has happened there. I am cringing over here at what it must have been like, the loved ones left behind, and the healing that must now take place..


I will pray extra hard tonight for everyone involved. 


not a quick fix, but get some progesterone cream and use it daily; will help PMS in the long run. n
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Someone suggested trying spraying Clorox on toes daily
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Learn how to socialize again and would have to take daily showers - yuck!! nm
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Got a soup kitchen or church mission that serves lunch daily?
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Anyone ever exerpience hair thinning/breakage with taking Benadryl daily
I have been taking one store brand Benadryl-type tablet every night before bed to help me with my allergies and to help me sleep for the past few of months. Ever since I started taking it, I have noticed that my hair is thinning and breaking very easily and is just very weak. I usually have very, very thick and full hair, but not anymore since taking it. In fact, my hair is usually so thick and heavy that I always had to go and get it thinned once a month because it made my head so hot! I stopped taking the antihistamine last night because I finally realized that may be what is causing my problem. Anyone else heard of this or had it happen?
Some daily exercise does wonders for mood, self-esteem, and changing your shape. Start off with
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Rain, rain, RAIN daily, flooding, 'nados, never above 78, not since last Sept. Is winter over yet
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Hugs with my daughter and son!! Can't go without daily hugs!!! nm
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No way this is true... sm
my husband is Aries and has never had an accident in his 34 years of driving. My brother-in-law is also an Aries and he's never had a wreck in 28 years of driving.
Very true,
I just do not want to hurt my husband or hurt our marriage. I have been doing a lot of praying about the situation and I am not going to let him ruin our holiday. If I have to not go around him I will just not go around him. Thanks again for all the replies, God Bless and Merry Christmas
very true
But if you limit to under 20 gm for 2 weeks you will loose those bread cravings and sugar cravings. After that you have to slowly put them back in (the right ones fruits and veggies)and test at what level you will still loose weight. Adkins...But it you go overboard and cut them out for good will end ya in the hospital with kidney failure. Otherwise Adkins is a great program...2 weeks and the cravings end, amazing. I mark a start and end point for the 2 weeks on the calander and x out each day because to start it is brutal. As long as I can seen an end in site I'm ok. I lost 40 pounds on it 2 years ago and they put me back on meds to manage chronic pain and it went right back on, now I am learning to manage both. Bad back and extra weight are not a good combination.
according to what or who is this true?
reincarnation maybe?