Exactly!

Posted By: NightOwl on 2009-05-09
In Reply to: I'd leave him and get HIV-tested ASAP. sm - Ella (retired)

I read a magazine article not too long ago. I think the lady being interviewed was Kathie Lee Gifford? Maybe? Anyway, she was talking about how people always seem to blame the woman, when in fact, it's the man they should be blaming (and also feeling pity for). The person being cheated upon is not the one to be blaming. It's the ignoramus who can't be happy with what he/she already has that needs to be blamed.

And yes, in this era of STDs, the victim definitely needs to be tested!

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Those cheating men - SallySue
- I'd leave him and get HIV-tested ASAP. sm - Ella (retired)
  - Exactly! - NightOwl
- Cheating men - hmmm
  - Genetics? All excuses! It started - a
- First of all I would definitely get mad, mad, mad. - ==
- Since they are in the public eye, they must do it. John Edwards is lower - than low.
- Nothing makes it the woman's fault - not even if she also cheats. sm - deb
  - Wow! That's a little harsh, don't you think? - ==
    - No, NOTHING makes it the woman's fault, BUT.... - A Woman Scorned
      - I also disagree that it is never the woman's fault. - ==
      - Don't forget that Princess Diana cheated even more than - ==
        Very true - A Woman Scorned
        Right, I posted in my 1st comment that the biggest mistake - ==
- I definitely would not defend him..... women are too - quick to blame themselves..... nm
  - Because men blames their wives, that's why. sm - Ella (retired)
  - Exactly - A Woman Scorned
    - Well, he sure wouldn't....sm - Ella (retired)

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