I am so sorry
Posted By: siren on 2007-07-02
In Reply to: See message.. - Sorry to hear that
to hear this about your marriage! I have been married for 33 years. My husband has cheated on me twice. The first time was 26 years ago. We were married for only seven years. He said it was just a "one nightstand", and I forgave him and moved on. The only reason I found out about this is he developed a "disease", and he was afraid he would give it to me, so he confessed. We then moved out of state, and I thought we were happy. Then five years ago my world came crashing down again! This time it was not a one nightstand. He said he fell in love with this woman, and they had an affair for approximately 18 months. She knew he was married. Unbelievable isn't it? Anyway, I again "forgave" him, but I have a lot of trust issues. This one really hurt! I told him never, ever again. Three strikes he's out!
Please follow your heart! Do what is best for you and the children. Mine are grown and on their own. I think the main reason I have stayed is I have never been alone. I married when I just turned 16. Believe me I am not truly happy! Maybe one of these days I will get the guts to tell my husband hit the road, but right now I just cannot. I believe he is trying, but I am always wondering if down the road he will do it again.
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