I think you need to
Posted By: Liv on 2009-03-12
In Reply to: is it abnormal not to enjoy sex? - frustrated
figure out what makes you hot (thoughts, talk, whatever) and incorporate it into your sex life.
If you are comfortable enough with your partner, you can play around with it until you find what works for both of you. (And, it will never be totally on ALL the time.)
It's also important to have the attitude that sex is a treat you get to do together ... like two good friends in a sandbox!
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