Me too.

Posted By: Feeling your pain... on 2007-07-18
In Reply to: Anyone ever dealt with (especially married to) a true narcissist? (sm) - Just me

I have been married to a narcissist for the past 9 years. My only advice is get out however you can before you have children together. (Hoping you don't)If you do, get out anyways. It can greatly effect your children too.

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Anyone ever dealt with (especially married to) a true narcissist? (sm) - Just me
- I was married to one for twelve years! - Lee
  - sounds not like narcissism, rather.... - passive-aggressive........sm
  - Were you afraid he would (sm) - OP
    - As a matter of fact, he did. - Lee
      - But that was something you agreed to (sm) - OP
        Minor regrets - Lee
- I found a definition of what I feel - I'm very happy to know I wasn't imagining it (sm) - OP
  - LOL - sounds like medical transcription in nutshell! nm - Flibertygibbit
- Thanks everyone - would love to get out (sm) - Just me
  - My mother once said and she was right...sm - passive-aggressive........sm
    - You are so right - sm
    - I want to believe that would be the case (sm) - OP
      - You still don't understand. (sm) - Me
      - ooh, I never said he and I were friends... - passive-aggressive........sm
  - You poor dear. I know exactly what you are saying. - too far in to get out
- Only my mother. Great books about subject out there thankfully. - nm
- Hope you are starting to feel better Just me seeing that you are not alone - Ortho MT
- My sister is one - sm
  - I don't think being 53 and still fixated on what happened to you at 5 - makes you a narcissist.
    - I know - sm
- But not for long - Dated one once
- My sister-in-law is a true narcissist and almost tore our marriage apart. sm - MQer
  - How very, very true! - Lee
  - Yep, that described that manager - Me
    - Yes the sneaky part! You start to think something really is wrong with you (sm) - Just me
  - Thanks so much for the info!! - too far in to get out
- Me too. - Feeling your pain...
- Oh heavens no, just the opposite - 2good2Btrue
  - Ah, so you have the other disorder, you know, the one where you are delusional? LOL - nm
- No, but my last manager was one - Me

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