My ex too

Mine also lied about money - snuck money out of the checking account, my purse, even took money belonging to my child, or any change anyone left lying on the table.

Talking to him did nothing.  I insisted we go to counseling.  While there we discussed why he would be so stupid as to steal money out of our account - did he think I wouldn't see on the bank statement?  Didn't he realize he might cause me to bounce a check?  Finally he admitted he was doing it for the "adrenaline rush" and also to defy me.

He couldn't/wouldn't change.  We divorced.  During the past few years he moved in with friends and guess what - he stole any money he could find from them too, even their coin collection.

• Husband lying and I am going carzy - am I going crazy???
  • So you all have left your husband over sm - am I going crazy???
    • Sounds like he's messing with your head - can't trust a constant liar
      • Oh, and another thing - can't trust a constant liar
    • the lying is only part of it - anon
  • My 2 cents......... - for what it's worth.....sm
  • This is a no-brainer - Suzi
  • My ex too - counseling didn't help
  • my ex - anon
  • If it were me and what I would do - sm - minnie
    • I agree with everything you said except--sm - Dee
      • what about your children? I know how hard - am I going crazy???
        • Since I do not know you or your children, sm - Dee

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