No, you are not being unreasonable. Tell her (sm)

Posted By: nm on 2007-08-14
In Reply to: Another wedding question... SM - MissouriMT

and the groom, since he is your relative, that you are not in the wedding party and are wearing the red dress, and if they consider being in charge of the guest book part of the wedding party, then they should get someone else to do it.

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Another wedding question... SM - MissouriMT
- Thanks to everyone and I am happy to report I have been demoted... SM - MissouriMT
  - Congrats on your demotion! Now you can have a good time! - Txmt
  - Programs? Man that IS a weird wedding! - sm - San Francisco
  - Congratulations on being demoted!...have.. - phillychik
  - Complete with red dress... - I hope..sm
    - This wedding, the wedding party will be releasing butterflies! - MissouriMT
      - Poor butterflies! At least they'll be free soon.... nm - San Francisco
      - WOW. Yes what a crazy wedding - ss
      - This is tthe same bride?!?! lol, the one having bridesmaids, flower girl, etc. - sm
        This wedding sounds like it's from the 'Emily Post Book - - of Weddings For The Senile" -nm
- When I got married the first time (years ago!!) sm - hvlmt
- What's the point of a guest book, anyway? They'll have the cards and - checks to see who attended. nm Weird
- No, you are not being unreasonable. Tell her (sm) - nm
- Gaaa.... what a snotty bride! Here's what I would do -sm - Flibertygibbit
- She sounds like a complete snob! - Jo
- She's mad that you'll usurp her presence in your flashy red dress! LOL..put the - book on a table w/several pens & go dance! :) NM
- I would tell her to find someone else to be in charge - of guest book (sm)
- I once was assigned guest book duty. - Miss Manners
  - This new guest book thing is dumb anyway - SM
    - Guest books are not new - PAMT~MDM
      - Well where I come from they are for funerals and not weddings. - nm
- Why do they need someone in charge of the guest book? - sm
- Tell her not to sweat the small stuff... - bb
- I have never heard of such a thing. - ss
- You are not unreasonable...the bride sounds.. - phillychik
- Ugh... - sm
  - Red dress or no dress. - pdqtrans

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you are not being unreasonable sm

to worry about this. I would advise him to stay with someone too. You cannot be too careful with a head injury. If you are worrying about being "over protective" quit worrying!

I have two "boys" in their 30s and I still worry and one is married and is a firefighter! Being a mom never ends!

You are not unreasonable...the bride sounds..

like a pain, I feel sorry for the groom! If she does not like your dress she can buy you a new one and any accessories you might need to go along with it. Or you can simply not be the keeper of the guest book, which is what I would do if I were you! Good luck and don't feel bad! If this ruins her "special day" she is pretty shallow!

No its not unreasonable and I do want them to spend time with her (sm)
I try to be as encouraging as I can and I tell them how much she loves them. But honestly when they find out they have to go, they cry every time they think about it, even if it is days away, and then cry all the way there.