really sad...
Posted By: Sue on 2008-10-11
In Reply to: Thanks, you guys. - on my own
I think it is awful that your church would be so judgmental, but I know of others this has happened to when their marriage is troubled. I do not understand why outsiders feel it is their business to judge someone else's marriage. Only the couple knows the truth, and it is up to them to decide what is best for them. It is even harder if there are children. My husband and I do not have any, which is another source of unhappiness in our marriage. My husband is Nigerian and it is very troubling in their culture when a woman cannot bear children. It is so hard and I feel your pain because I love my husband's family and I hate the thought that they will not be in my life anymore if he and I divorce. There is a chance we may reconcile, but it is still hard being apart and not agreeing on how to live together and be happy. I wish you the very best with your new independence. It can be a blessing to be on your own!
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