well it's just with the SO too

Posted By: he doesn't want to help out with the bills, etc on 2009-03-01
In Reply to: I wish I knew what to say but I am - Me

Hasn't given one dime on his share of the bills this year, gets angry with me when I bring it up. Everything is in my name but we agreed I would pay the mortgage and he would pay everything else. I keep telling myself it's better to have a little help financially and help with the kids than none at all. I just keep thinking how wonderful it would be to win Powerball, to the point of obsession. I dream about it, think about it all the time. How I would move far away with my kids. I also think about how my life would be if my first boyfriend and i had stayed together. He comitted suicide over a year ago and I never said goodbye. I am also incredibly bored workign at home, am drowning in debt and see no way out. Oh well it will get better.

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Midlife crisis - think i'm having one
- It sounds like you might have depression. - Kiki
- I wish I knew what to say but I am - Me
  - well it's just with the SO too - he doesn't want to help out with the bills, etc
    - I recommend you read the book ....sm - curious girl
    - I think you need to boot the SO out - Happy MT Robin
      - well he's a musician and says he's saving up for - when he goes on tour but
    - I will tell you and from how my life has gone - Me
      - thank you so much that means a lot to me - you will never know

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