Absatively Posalutely!

Posted By: sm on 2005-12-12
In Reply to: Married? When did you know that your mate was "the" one for you? sm - Poll lady

How did I know? Well, I have past the age of 39 and after a series of Independence, Dependence, Trials, and a few bullfrog Errors, he was on only one that I did not -- repeat, did NOT! -- get butterflies with! I fell in love with him as surely as I sit here today, but it was a warm, gradual love, and like well-mortared brick wall being built day by day. Never had the butterflies, thought that was WEIRD, kept waiting for them, but the love just grew in a different and stronger way than I ever thought possible, and .... ta-da! We are engaged to be married this summer.

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Married? When did you know that your mate was "the" one for you? sm - Poll lady
- He drew my blood for my marriage license - engaged to someone else - Leslea
- How sweet...this is my story - sm
  - and oh my - sm
- See Below. - Call Me "Stuck"
  - I knew almost right away - newlywed
- The "some day my prince will come" mentality - has launched many disappointing relationships.
  - Someday my prince will come only works if you're a princess. - romantical idealist
    - Or completely immature and out of touch with reality - nm
- Years ago, when I was 21 and he was 18, I SM - nm
- Absatively Posalutely! - sm
- Not sure exactly kind of just knew, he's the only one I have ever felt that way about - sm - Laura E.
- I don't believe in "the one" - sm
  - There is a seat for every butt, there is the - I disagree.
  - I agree with you. And I also don't believe... - SM
    - My opinion is that fate would bring - sm
      - I think fate has something to do with ... - Honeymooner
    - Bingo! - finally, a voice of reason in the wilderness!
  - Wow, that's romantical. - kismet, fate, karma
    - Yes, my husband and I have the same ideals, but are different in many ways too - sm - Laura E.
      - But do you believe this is the only person on teh planet you could have been successfully married to - nm
        Never said I felt that way, not into soul mates - that would be like winning the lottery - sm - Laura E.
    - You misunderstood my posting. - sm
- I knew in high school at the age of 16. - honeymooner
- My husband said he knew he would marry me sm - Penguin
- I'm still not sure he's the right one. LOL - Married for 12 years.
  - STILL LOOKING?? SM - txmt
- I knew him well before I asked him out, so I knew - jus me

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