Could you....

Posted By: sm on 2006-03-23
In Reply to: thanks for the advice - too busy

ask him to turn the phone off maybe after a certain time? Maybe that would help out. Maybe he could put a message on his phone stating that if it is after a ceratin time he will return their call the next day. Just a suggestion. Hope you get it worked out!

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