Hey, I get it....sm

Posted By: Casey on 2006-04-01
In Reply to: Just a dh vent... - Me

Of course, things could be worse, and life isn't so bad but....still resentful to have to work more than he does. My husband works PT for various legitimate reasons while I work 10 hours at least a day and 3-4 over the weekend. I have always made the money in the relationship. I love him dearly and he helps where he can but....I am still resentful every time I see him enjoying himself while I'm working. I don't have kids at home anymore. I know I would be much worse if I had little ones I wanted to spend time with. Unfortunately, it's just how it is, and we have to deal. There will always be someone with much worse, much bigger problems, but I do understand how you feel.

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Just a dh vent... - Me
- U think this is a problem? - madhattie
- Here I was worried about groceries. Lets worry about your stuff. Its easier. - roflmao
- The Problem Is...... - Typin' Fool
- you're KIDDING, right? - sm
- I don't know...it sound like for 2 hours a day he's not perfect?..sm - Jo V
  - Yes, I agree - jen
- and the problem would be? - msbeanctr
  - LOL, maybe so but I wouldn't have married him if he didn't do those things! ;o) - OP
- Have you tried talking to him about this? (sm) - hth
  - Not lately. The sleeping issue has always - Me
    - My husband was like you regarding me and - Try to over look this
- We all have to vent sometime - coffee girl
  - Why is he not working? You should be...(nt) - ..saving that $$ for retirement.
    - Sorry, should be under original post. (nt) - Just a question, but seriously.
      - He's in management so the interview process sm - I get your point though. OP
- Hey, I get it....sm - Casey
- Did you read Paulette's post below? - Modern Problems
  - No, I haven't had a chance yet. I wasn't asking for sympathy sm - Me
    - I appologize. It was uncalled for. - Modern Problems
      - Thank you. That is appreciated. nm - Me

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