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Honey, I am NOT the one being a FOOL

Posted By: sm on 2005-08-01
In Reply to: Then you are an absolute FOOL. Down the road, you'll wish you were never involved - with offshore. nm

You are on her ranting and raving about something you have absolutely NO control over. I am living my life with a good job and paying my bills without problems. That is not foolish, that is life.


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    acting a fool or fool? semantics. are you a bill clinton fan?

    it depends on what is is? or acting a fool or being a fool.  because we have fun with MQ.  who died and left you boss or arbitrator of what mqmts should or should not do or who is acting a fool or is a fool?  frank?


    I don't think I'd fool around with it, I'd see a doc.
    If it is your heart and you wait you could die.  If it's not your heart, you'll at least know that.  I don't think the heart is anything to fool around with.  Too many younger people are dying from heart disease. 
    not a fool, but
    how foolish would a woman feel if she found out later that they were at social gatherings where everyone knew what was going on.

    Most MATURE men don't stick to the code. They tell their wives. They want their wives to stay out of it of course, but I think they also realize that in telling their wives that it is KNOWN that the wives will probably blab it to the point that it will become public knowledge (blabbing is the female unwritten code, LOL).

    I don't really think the OP should contact this *woman*; however, I think she should ask her husband to tell his friend to inform her to not involve him AND to not give out his number or involve him in friends affairs ever again. If OPs hubby won't do that then there are already existing problems.
    You are NO fool...
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    Don't let that fool ya'...

    And, here I sit after my job was outsourced to C-Bay even though my "manager" claimed she did not want to outsource.


    You need to consider the fact that your manager probably does not make those decisions, but the higher ups that are above him/her do!  This is the very first signs of outsourcing (new system) to comply with the outsourcing company.


    The best way to get a new system set up for outsourcing is by using the staff on hand.  No, I doubt you'll get a raise, but you may get a big surprise once you set that system all up for that outsourced company. 


    It happened to me, and I had a manager just like you are stating.  If I were you, I wouldn't make any waves regarding a raise right now.  If you are hourly, then I wouldn't worry too much about the line count and when asked why your line count isn't up to par, then reiterate the fact that you've been instituting a new system.


    The hospital I worked at also asked the MTs to help because the managers had no clue.  So sad...


    Oh, and they did all of this after hiring a very older lady (partially retired) from a hospital that was outsourced so she had to quit.  That lady lost her job at the hospital I worked at about a month after I left.  I left before the outsource because I refused to help outsource the work I had done for the past 17 years. 



    P/S:  Just keep your eyes and ears open very wide!!!!!! 


     


    He's a damn fool. That's what I say. nm
    m
    You are a fool..so shut up
    Why do I work two jobs?  Do you have the need to know?  Because I like to live well and have money in my pocket.  Why dont you work two jobs?  Because you are the lazy one and most likely no other trans company would hire you except MQ, who it is well known will hire newbies and transcriptionists that other companies would not give their 2 cents to.
    Call me a fool
    but I guess I don't understand what you're saying.  I went to a hearing and just didnt receive any paperwork from my lawyer, had to go get it myself from the courthouse.  I hope that's what you mean. 
    Don't fool with Vista yet
    My son beta tests these programs and this one is not ready yet.  It conflicts with other programs at present, especially any older programs (pre XP).  Better to wait until it has been out for quite a few months and the bugs are worked out. 
    No, but then the fool doesn't have my email ads so how could he?

    You mean he has figured out a way to lower my income even more?


    Why doesn't he just send me a bill for the opportunity to sign in to type the


    junk they have now?  And it is junk.  There's not a decent hospital left.  Have you noticed how many accounts are g-o-n-e? disappeared, vamoosed, gone poof.


    I'm sitting here thinking it is way past time to leave this business.  It is too complicated.  It has not become more standardized.  If anything it is more loopy - each place has a different platform, hospital rules they want you to follow for each thing.  Used to you could turn on a typewriter, put paper in the machine, type, put a sticker on it, and you were done.  Now it takes sometimes 3 months to get up to speed - NOT because you don't know medical terminology - you have to learn a specific platform (go buy special parts to use it), figure out new expanders, get special internet thingys, get wave pedals, throw away $$$ super stations and C-phones.  It's a joke.  They want us to cover all that just for the right to make squat for money.


     


    Nope, I think it's time to pursue something else. 


     


     


    She didn't want to look like a fool on national TV
    Trust me as soon as the cameras stopped rolling she was calling him on the sly.  As for all those fake crying pretty boys,  I couldn't stop laughing , does everyone want to be an actor now?  sheesh
    He's a jerk and I'm an intermittent fool.

    When was the last time you linked to a website link and got the response "too many hits?"  It just looks all too contrived.  I have to admit that I did link there, but won't try it again.  Maybe he's just getting a big kick out of the attention this is bringing, and our resultant frustration.  Now, I will be running my Spyware and deleting any new cookies that are found.


     


    Exactly true. And you don't have to fool with new drugs and stuff, either. nm
    x
    When you play Balderdash and can fool everyone with your definitions.

    MTs at my hospital tried to say 20 cpl was average. The director is no fool.
    dd
    Working fool, Thank you for your wonderful post!

    God bless you for telling your story as it gives insight into how we all have to be our own advocates. 


    My aunt "trusted" the trusted old surgeon who told her not to worry, we'll deal with it IF it becomes an issue.  Well, it did but to late to treat and she died within 3 years. 


    That had to be hard to post this, again, thank you! 


    hold that thought. also known as fool's paradise. nm
    nm
    First name Bonita? I got ripped off. Feel like a fool. sm
    She said she had been burned before and needed the money upfront. Then she never sent the Lanier. I think was should be able to post identifiers on things like this to protect each other.
    Then you are an absolute FOOL. Down the road, you'll wish you were never involved

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    Tell 'em typing fool, because I tend to agree with you. nm

    Tell me something honey - sm

    how many times have you had to "refund" money because the post office or UPS or whatever has lost your packages?????????  How many times have you been in jail in the last year??????????  I told you before, you really suck at this scamming stuff and you should really try a legitamate line of work like the rest of us!!!!!!!   YOU SUCK!!!!!


     


     


    Whatever you say honey,
    Have you made out your christmas list yet? What do you want santa to bring you this year? Does your mommy and daddy know you're on the computer?
    Honey, you probably do not even have a job!!!

    Honey, you probably don't even have a job


     


    Honey, that ain't all that's going over there. sm
    http://www.nysscpa.org/cpajournal/2005/305/perspectives/p14.htm
    Honey, I know! I have been there twice myself..
    before I found this great one! Have had my share of frogs too! There is a good one out there for you somewhere! I will keep good thoughts for you, you deserve a good man!
    Re-read honey
    Listen up, if you read the posts from days and days and days ago, you will see I have offered my assistance or just returned a simple post to someone and THE WAR BEGINS. For example, I posted earlier about what happened to the lady that had the 3-legged dog, and if ya look really, really close, I was attacked IMMEDIATELY for asking that? Now, take the time and tell me what that is all about.
    You didn't have to do that honey
    Oh honey, no need to waste your time. I like being "live" on the spot with these type of issues.

    Keep chatting gals, I am listening to you all.
    The key word honey is R-E-S-E-A-R-C-H.

    Oh, yes, my honey without the beard
    Glad I looked.
    Honey, where do you work?

    Cuz I wanna work there too!  Sounds like heaven!


     


    (Not being a smart @$$ -- I'm serious).


    Good for you honey.

    Honey--not as weird as you think. sm
    1 or 2 tbsp pure raw honey before going to bed. It is fantastic for sleep. I haven't slept this well in years. It also does help with weight loss. Check our th Hiburnation Diet.
    I tried honey at first because the theory behind sm
    the Hiburnation Diet made sense to me. Although I have lost weight, and more importantly inches, the great sleep is what keeps me using it. I just take 1 or 2 tablespoons straight off the spoon and within 20 minutes I'm nodding off. My dreams are so vibrant and detailed now. I really enjoy sleeping again :)
    I feel for ya' honey...

    I read your entire post.  I totally feel that sometimes it is soooo easy for these MTSOs to blame us, and then they look better to the client.  An apology would have been nice.  But the old saying goes, CRAP rolls downhill.


    Definitely interview for another company and get away from this crazed MTSO while you're still sane and only "frustrated."


    As far as the mortgage company, give them a call.  Tell them your situation.  They have e-mail.  Let them know you are trying your best to get that payment to them on time, but are currently experiencing job switch syndrome and that your employer is not a reliable payer.  I would see if you could get that $75.00 fee waived as long as you send it by a specific date.  I think mortgage companies are willing to work with you in this day and age. 


    I sure hope you get away from that MTSO and find one who pays on time every time, and they are out there.  You sound like a very professional and classy MT that does not need the headaches. 


    I wish you the best of luck! 


    LOL..showing your age honey
    I absolutely loved your post and agreed a gazillion percent; however, you ARE showing your age here....LOL... with Dr. Marcus Welby and Dr. Kildare... you forgo ZORBA too!!!  LOL.  Oh......the good ol days of good programs to watch......
    I feel your pain, honey sm
    my summer has been horrible (whole 'nother story).  Be glad when school starts back, not that the kids made my summer bad, just they need something else to do besides bug me!
    Whar you frum, honey? sm
    We go to family reunions to get dates. I met some of my husbands at family get-togethers, you know, like stays of execution, parole hearings, arraignments, etc.
    honey, you don't have a very nice sister
    if she only gave you deodorant samples, that alone wouldn't condemn her, I myself am gift giving challenged but the fact that she banishes you to the basement while she drinks with her friends, thats rude-- maybe you should all come out of the basement and announce that youre all going down the the nearest soup kitchen to feed the homeless
    Honey, it is okay...you don't have to pretend anymore...
    We don't even know you so you don't have to put up a front!!
    Honey, you must not be getting enough love or appreciation!
    nm
    thass OK, honey, we all do typos.

    Honey, that's your DADDY, and you mourn in whatever way is YOURS.
    There is no real way to do it, no way around it. You could try to do some reading about the stages of grief, just so you have some knowledge of the path you are on.

    A friend of mine told me that something I'd written to her after her son passed away, really meant a lot to her. I had written in her card that she will never stop being the mom to this child, even when they get to heaven together, God will probably greet her, Oh! Hey, you must be Steve's Mom, Hi there! The relationship is forever. Just because your dad is on the other side, doesn't mean he stopped being your dad. I hope this idea of mine isn't violating any sense of your own belief system, I hope it can be uplifting to you. The relationship is forever.

    Do you talk to your dad out loud sometimes, or even just in your head? Can you imagine what he might be saying to you? You knew him so well, you would probably know what he would tell you if you were suffering like this, and he were sitting by your side, or on the phone with you.

    My local paper just ran a piece about a poet locally, whose wife died a year ago. His skill was in the poetry, and he got through every day by writing to his deceased wife, sharing his day with her, telling her about new developments in his life. He found this to be so comforting. And when he shared it with other family members, they felt it was helpful to them, just to read it.

    Talk to your dad, write to him, read up on the stages you are going through. It's a process, and be kind to yourself while you work through this.
    grill it with BBQ sauce and honey...nm
    x
    I don't do vacuuming honey bun, my maid does it for me! :) :)
      
    Are you a MT-typo error honey!!!
    Proofread before you send out. I sure hope you are not a MT????
    I use a bit of water and honey to make a paste.
    :)
    Oh, I bet oatmeal, honey and aspirin would be divine!

    Oh honey, sounds like my daily routine.

    You just gotta push through.  I've noticed that as my kids get older, it has gotten somewhat better.  I have a 9 and 11 year old and they have gotten to the point of seeing after themselves while I'm working.  They were 3 and 5 when I started and it was really tough.  Now If they make a mess, they clean it up themselves.  Unless the house is on fire, someone is dying, etc. they are to leave me alone when the headset is on.  I have had to really draw the line with them.  It didn't happen overnight, it took quite a while for them to understand.  Fortunately my husband understands all this and has really helped me work with them on this issue. 


    Friends and family on the other hand haven't been so easy to train.  I screen my calls with caller ID and let the machine get the ones I don't have time to deal with.  My machine has a message stating that "I am working at the moment and am unable to answer your call.  Please leave a message and I will return your call as soon as possible."  I have also had a put a sign on my front door stating "Please Do Not Disturb.  I am currently working and unable to visit at this time.  Please come back after 4:00 p.m., I will be available then."  I had to do this because people just couldn't seem to get it.  Just because I was at home, they thought they could just drop in.  I even have some to still ring the doorbell because they think that sign isn't for them.  But you know what...I feel that is very rude and disrespectful of them.  They can sit out there all day for all I care because until I'm finished working, I won't answer.


    Your not alone in all of this.  I believe this is what most of us who work at home go through.  Eventually it will get better but you must put some rules into place for everyone and enforce them.  I know with very young children it is hard for them to understand this but if you begin now helping them understand, then it will get easier as they grow.  Also, if you have older children that can help with the younger ones, give them an incentive to help you out.  You've just got to be creative with it and find what works for you. 


    Hope this helps!


    Take a vacation honey...life is too short to

    worry about jobs, bosses, money, etc. Believe it or not, there are other jobs out there no matter what the doom and gloomers say! Be kind to yourself and your family...you come first.  


    START paying property taxes?!?!? Honey I HAVE BEEN all since I got this place!!!
    "If you want to be treated like everyone else, then pay taxes like everyone else"

    Well thanks for ASSUMING that you knew that I didn't pay taxes. Every single person in this place that I live (300+) pay taxes. We don't own land so we don't pay taxes on that. We pay it on the home. Then our rent payments for our itty bitty pieces of land helps pay the propery taxes for the site.

    In Michigan they don't? Seems hard to believe they would do that. If they don't pay it on the home then I would think they would paying it on the land or if they are in a park I would think that the park OWNER would pay the property takes for the large site.
    Ha Ha Ha! It would be a cold day in Haiti, honey. Hope that answers your question......nm