I thank you all so much...sm

I only wish I would have posted this question a few months ago.

What makes us as humans just go stupid sometimes? I have nothing and no one to blame but myself. Please pray for me and my husband. He's willing to try to work this out. 

For ANYONE out there considering doing something you KNOW IN YOUR HEART IS WRONG, please don't do it...you will get caught...you will hurt the people you love the most...and it's NOT WORTH IT!

• Way off subject, but I need opinions... - hope this doesn't get deleted...sm
  • Cheating = anything you're doing with - sm
  • I thank you all so much...sm - OP
    • we make mistakes - aj
    • Boredom does, sometimes (sm) - MT
    • Good luck to both of you. Just be honest - honey
  • it's not only in actions - nee
  • If you wouldn't do/say it in front of your spouse, it's wrong. - Busy MT'ing
  • the easiest way to decide (sm) - my penny's worth
    • That's how I would decide also. Treat others the way you - honey
  • I'm not going to remove this thread but ask that religious discussion be moved - Administrator (sm)
    • this isn't a religious discussion...sm - in my opinion...OP
  • Even if you have a lustful thought in your mind, it is considered sinful. - nm
    • No, it is you act on that thought. nm - MT
      • Not according to my NIV bible. It says even if you have lustful thoughts, they are considered sin. - nm
  • Momma always told me that if it looks and feels wrong, - shades of grey
  • Any kind of intimacy emotional or physical - mt
  • for what its worth - my opinion
  • being faithful - sm
    • Gotta say I agree with above. I was in the same - not right
  • As far as it being wrong, well who defines right and wrong? On the - Dancinn Shoes
    • God defines right and wrong. - nm
  • Whatever you are thinking of doing, DON'T! It's not worth it. nm - Anonymous
  • Personal opinion: If it's a secret, it's probably wrong. SM - Becky
  • If it's something you wouldn't do with your spouse - or SO standing right there, it is cheating. nm
    • Absolutely right. I use this philosophy - when I am tempted to
  • emotional adultry - dls
  • No, I don't think you have to have sex to - be unfaithful. I think definitely
    • Gambling, excessive drinking, working too much, etc. - Nancy
      • Yes, but being with a spouse who does those things - sounds like my ex
  • Emotional involvement worse, sm - Love my mind
  • I think that any form of indiscretion with someone - Wannie
    • I think that while its true that most men - My 2 cents
      • Can't help being attracted to people but - sgh
    • I think Wannie is exactly right. If in doubt, - Nancy

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