I would have done exactly as you did.
Posted By: Oh, golly on 2005-07-14
In Reply to: Quick question for you, please? - Ms. Emotion
You were worried about him and tried to help him. You sought help from others who care about him. There was NO betrayal there, only caring and concern. His accusation of betrayal is part and parcel of his abusive "you're the one at fault" behavior. He's trying to turn this into YOUR problem, make you the "bad guy". You're not. You are simply acting out of concern for him, and he doesn't deserve someone like you. His accusation of "betrayal" is just another effort to control you and your behavior. Don't fall for it. Please start thinking about yourself and your own health and happiness. This relationship must be very hard for you. You seem so caring and kind. He's abusive and controlling. You deserve better. Please consider getting out very soon.
Complete Discussion Below:  marks the location of current message within thread
The messages you are viewing
are archived/old.
To view latest messages and participate in discussions, select
the boards given in left menu
Other related messages found in our database
|
