If they don't have something to contribute, then (nm)
Posted By: I agree on 2006-06-29
In Reply to: why do you people have to be so mean? sm - anon
then they should stay out of it. I declare some people just respond to tear somebody down. The poster was asking for suggestions for a way to help now, not someone who can tell her what she should have done. Most people who find themselves in a jam regret it terribly and many found themselves in that predicament due to circumstaces out of their control. All sorts of unexpected things can wreak havoc on you financially. Believe me, I know. You have my sympathy.
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They want a retirement that they don't even contribute to, they already retire at 55.
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Because those who have someone else to contribute to the household have enough stress?
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I don't contribute crap around here, so I'm told...
My ungrateful, hateful 11-year-old (at the time) son told me that if I would get off my butt and get a job we'd have something (because I refused to buy him some game, or something). I sat him down and showed him my check stubs compared to his dad's, which are substantially more income for this family.
We MTs must be the most unappreciated workers in the world! Especially if we work at home, it's just not seen as 'serious' work! Not only do I get comments from my child, but my family thinks 'since I don't work' MY schedule is THEIR schedule...."give it to her, she can go do it."
I'm so disgusted.
read my message again. no one deserves to be murdered. but you contribute to your
victimhood by your actions and you are more likely to be a victim because of your actions than others. i live in a safe neighborhood. i still lock my doors. i don't want to be a victim. i don't drink and drive. i don't hang out in neighborhoods where there is a lot of crime. don't you get it. you can't go to a foreign country at the age of 18, drink too much and hook up with people you don't know. you increase your odds of victimization.
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