It's always something

You know what!  I have suffered from depression too, but this person, I will call her "H"... she is always either depressed, has fibromyalgia, is going to be crippled, has financial problems.  Okay for example... her coworker dropped dead at work.  H went to the funeral.  I asked H how was the funeral.  My question was to find out how the family was doing.... but H responded by telling me how SHE handled it, how SHE had trouble walking up to the coffin, how HER hands were shaking.  It's always about H.  I do think she has mental problems but it is mostly about manipulation.  When I have had depression, I do not sit and get angry until someone comes to see what is wrong with me.  Meanwhile.... the depression started due to money problems and H has just returned from a fancy cruise.  Hard to feel sorry for her.  I just want to know if I should ignore, try to be casual friends.... be angry back...any advice is appreciated.  I will NOT be calling to see how she is doing... i feel her anger directed at me and I never did a thing to this person. 

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