One controlling so-and-so

Posted By: Lillybelle on 2008-02-23
In Reply to: If IC, your time cannot be controlled by - supervisor. nm

Unless you are paid by time instead of production, or claiming that you work more than 40 hours per week, what right would anyone have to be monitoring this anyway? Sounds like someone who is controlling and needs to get a life. There are many in our industry who enjoy, and take advantage of, any power that they can get, which often is the result of great inner insecurity. It also sounds like it could be a symptom of OCD.

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What do you think of a supervisor - wonderingMT
- monitoring - hoosier
- monitoring staff - Jean
- The way I understand it is if you are an employee - SM
- I had a job before that would watch you - sm -
- If IC, your time cannot be controlled by - supervisor. nm
  - One controlling so-and-so - Lillybelle
    - Actually one situation was a hospital - wonderingMT
      - Of course MTSO will misuse MT. If they can get - by with it, why not? Only you can stop it. nm
    - Check out the MQ board - apparently - there are many reasons to do this!
      - ? - Lillybelle
        I thought we were discussing companies in - general. nm
        MT is co. business. Not about loyalty to MTs, - making things easy for MT or helping MT get $.
        True, we are just part of the machine, like PC, - copier, etc. Co. not out to help MT get ahead.
        Companies in general, true. ICs could be - wonderingMT
        Companies will do what they want, no matter - the fits the MTs throw. $ is all they care about.

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And anyone who is THAT controlling and suspicious
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It must be mind controlling or something, I have no idea.
and divorce has come to mind so many times. He has been playing this game nonstop since the end of last year. Spends hours on it a day. He loses sleep because of it too!

Water seeks its own level. Controlling men (and women)
seem to end up with a spineless jellyfish of a person. The wimpier person likes being told what to do because he/she has no confidence to make a decision, and the bossy one loves ruling with an iron fist.

Been there, done that.

Got rid of the bossy one too.

I agree. Sounds like a controlling attention-seeking parent so
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