You might want to reconsider
Posted By: njmt on 2006-06-29
In Reply to: Anyone have any GOOD experiences with a credit counseling service/ - Late payments out the ying-yang
check out Dave Ramsey's book (Total Money Makeover) and/or web site. He explains the good/bad about CC/debt reduction services.
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Maybe you need to reconsider this relationship.
What you have described has many elements of an abusive relationship. He blames you for everything. He becomes angry at you for no reason. He withdraws from you. He accuses you of lying. You're walking around on eggshells trying to cater to his "moods". He never takes any responsibility for problems. This cannot be a rewarding relationship for you. You are obviously a very loyal and caring person. You deserve to be treated better. You deserve a relationship with someone who will return your affection and will treat you with respect. You might at least want to consider getting out of this relationship for awhile, until your current boyfriend takes some initiative himself to get help. I don't think anything you say or do will have an effect; he will need to determine for himself that he needs to change. Otherwise, he'll just keep blaming you. Please take care of yourself.
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