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<<I lost my mom and sister over it, they thought I over reacted,>>

I'm sorry that they reacted that way.  You didn't over-react.  I've never understood why people tend to blame the victim for fighting back.  It is sad that they reacted that way, but you did the right thing.

• re: inappropriate stepfather - sm
  • Why do you let this man control you? (sm) - Be direct
    • I agree. - txmt
  • Give yourself a break (sm) - Read this one ~
    • I definitely think its best to avoid relatives this year. - I'm just not up to it.
      • To alone for the holidays - txmt
        • helping ... - Sara
          • Cool, I might do the same (sm) - Read this one ~
        • I was thinking of helping out with the homeless, - maybe serving food or something.
      • Alone on the holidays - Sara
  • I have not read the other posts (below) but... - sis
    • well.. - sm
    • Wow! Geez! do not listen to any negative posts... - sis
      • Yeh I have ignored the negative ones - sm
        • That is a coincidence!...... - sis
          • I can understand the guilt - sm
  • Inappropriate stepfather - MTness
    • You are very thoughtful - sm
      • Healing heart - MTness
  • I think you must tell your mother why you're pulling away from her. sm - just my 2 cents
  • First, cyber hugs. Next, you've done nothing wrong - Lindy
  • Here's how I'd handle the situation... - Abuse survivor...
  • My opinion... - Michelle
    • response - sm
      • God bless you! - MTPockets
  • so whats wrong with - no name
    • thank you for understanding... - sm
  • Inappropriate stepfather - Dano
    • wow - sm
      • Holidays - Patti
      • Okay, you answered my question. nm - Dano
        • inappropriate stepfather - my story
          • original poster - sm
          • sm - Michelle
          • Very sad - Dano
  • I agree with Patti, but I also need to add this. - don't avoid her
  • Good, but hopefully one day SM - another MT
  • Need to say something - Patti
    • re: innappropriate stepfather - sm
      • My short story - Patti

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