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Posted By: thunderstorms? He gets frightened and doesn't on 2008-08-03
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Well, VR is helping to pay
my bills so if I have to change mistakes that VR makes, so be it. Dictators make mistakes when dictating and guess what, you still have to change it....
LOL It went well. Thank you to everyone for helping!
I felt bad because none of the friends or extended family that she invited showed up. They all called to cancel.

We did not have leftover Turkey but plenty of desert and rolls. She bought 45 dinner rolls?! I think some of you are right that this is the beginning of sundowning for them. I will have to explain this to my husband because he just thinks they are losing their minds. I heard from another family member that MIL has a stash of a case candy bars in her closet and yesterday she went in the bedroom for cookie sheets to put the biscuits on. A little odd, especially being that they have extra storage area in the basement.

I think FIL took it as it was just that much less food that cost him money because he was so happy that I brought as much food as I did and kept saying how much he loved the veggie tray, etc. I think MIL was a little miffed when I got there because she didn't have room in her oven for the sides that I brought (or hers) because the single turkey breast was in the oven. There was enough room, she just didn't want to use the second rack in the oven for some reason. She didn't like my suggestion that if it was cooked to take it out of the oven and cover with foil and it would stay hot for 20 minutes while everything else finished. Luckily my BIL (who loves to cook) was there and he agreed with me and stepped in to help her out. You know I get the look like "stay the heck out of my kitchen and keep your opinion to your self" and afterwards he gets the look of "You have always been my favorite child, thank you" LOL But I understand things are different with moms and their own kids versus the spouse, especially with females.

So overall it turned out well and everyone had plenty to eat. We didn't have to run out for burgers or home for dinner.
You are a power of example by helping sm
When I was younger, I would not only cry, sometimes I would not attend or attend and not sleep for days. I think being in the MT business made me realize how short life is. I am amazed that now I look at death in a different way. I cannot believe how I have changed. Most of my friends were brought up to wear black, look sad, cry a lot. I was brought up to avoid it, stay away from wakes and funerals; so could not handle it. Thanks to transcribing so many autopsies, horrible situations, illnesses, educational seminars on death and dying, etc., I am finally able to celebrate life. I do have others now not understanding why I do not cry. It's a miracle to me that I don't have to act that way anymore. I think with age and experience, I have matured. I have a friend who barely worked outside the home. Her Mom died in July and she did not put up a tree, send cards, etc., this Christmas as she is still in mourning officially. I lost my younger sister, put an angel out front, white lights, etc. I did the same for my parents, lots of white lights. I do believe now in celebrating life. I spent the days before my father's funeral preparing a "program" for his funeral which was beautiful. I included my whole family in the funeral, chose the music, etc. This would not have been possible in my younger years. My SIL was confrontational when she saw me at work during the time we were awaiting the funeral (it was over a holiday). I told her I was t preparing for the funeral. There will be some whose family tradition is to cry, wear black, shut out the whole world for 30 days, that's their way. I am so happy that I now have a (what I consider) healthier attitude toward death. I cannot believe the change in my attitude. Perhaps we all celebrate life differently. I, for one, am happy I look at things differently. When people cry, mourn, carry on, it's probably their tradition and it will continue as this is what they are used to. They are not wrong to do so. My DIL's family all wear solid black and God forbid anyone even wear a white blouse to a funeral, it is considered disrespectful!  All I know is, I love the new me, I am much happier today now that I have a different attitude. I hope people celebrate my life, not stop living. I am writing my own obit, short and sweet and will probably plan my own funeral instead of leaving that task to my kids. I celebrate the life and spirt left behind, but do not disrespect those who continue to wear black and cry, as that's the only way they know how to mourn and it's not wrong. We're all different, it takes time and sometimes traditions will never change in some cultures, they are entitled to their actions and opinions, it took me a long time to change but I am much healthier and happier now. All of this is IMHO, of course. You are doing your best in your own way, good job, we need the "doers" in times of grief as well as the mourners. I would rather be a doer and feel better "doing."
Oh, thank you for helping those dogs
get home. I'm sure they had a wonderful romp, and I'm glad they didn't get hurt. They are really smart dogs. Mine got loose many times without somebody breaking into my house!

I now work at a perennial plant nursery. I am an inventory control specialist, and it involves a lot of physical labor, which I am loving. I feel so much better than when I was locked in a chair all day. So far this company is doing okay financially, but not great with the economy. Last year was tough because of drought, and this year there was plenty of rain, so we had hoped for a great year until the economy went in the toilet. Many companies like this are going bankrupt, but so far we are okay, but no raises this year.
Helping kids, see inside
I bought my daughter her first car, something old, sound, reliable and safe, nothing snazzy, she paid her own insurance as she was in college and worked parttime. When that car went, I helped her get her next, took her to my dealer, we picked out something reliable, nothing sporty, I gave her the down payment and co-signed and she made her payments and paid her own insurance. Her college was a commute, not roads I would want her biclying or skateboarding on. When she was older, done with school, still with the parttime job, but actively seeking fulltime, she found a sporty car she wanted and I told her this time, she was on her own. In 1999, she got brand new car (at a much younger than I did), she paid it off early, she is now married, 31, has a house, working a good job and also working on making a family. I think little help can go a long way. I for one, am pround of her.
My dream would be a weekend of him helping (sm)
When he and I and the kids all work on getting everything back in order. But he would be angry the whole time, as if he shouldn't have to be doing it. I may end up hiring someone. I have thought about it all day. It would be worth it!
Of course it is!!! Makeup is for helping people
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Glad yours are helping.....my computer
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If he starts by helping himself, I will jump in. He saw
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Agree, you need a helping hand

When my sister had her first baby, she became overwhelmed quickly. You sound similar to how she was feeling.  So my mom and I started helping her out here and there, going over and staying with my nephew so she could leave the house for a couple hours, even if it was to grocery shop or run errands, just so she could get out alone.  Or we'd go get him and take him to our house for a couple hours, with instructions to her to TAKE A NAP or read a book, or something relaxing.  If you have family or friends willing to help out, take them up on it.  They wouldn't volunteer if they didn't want to do it.  


My sister's husband was helping out too, but he worked a lot of hours, 6 days a week.  In my sister's case, she was very independent and used to doing what she wanted when she wanted before the baby and I think that was part of what overwhelmed her, the feeling that she couldn't just pick up her purse and go somewhere as easily as before.  Good luck.  This will pass, don't be so hard on yourself.


 


Agree, you need a helping hand

When my sister had her first baby, she became overwhelmed quickly. You sound similar to how she was feeling.  So my mom and I started helping her out here and there, going over and staying with my nephew so she could leave the house for a couple hours, even if it was to grocery shop or run errands, just so she could get out alone.  Or we'd go get him and take him to our house for a couple hours, with instructions to her to TAKE A NAP or read a book, or something relaxing.  If you have family or friends willing to help out, take them up on it.  They wouldn't volunteer if they didn't want to do it.  


My sister's husband was helping out too, but he worked a lot of hours, 6 days a week.  In my sister's case, she was very independent and used to doing what she wanted when she wanted before the baby and I think that was part of what overwhelmed her, the feeling that she couldn't just pick up her purse and go somewhere as easily as before.  Good luck.  This will pass, don't be so hard on yourself.


 


Agree, you need a helping hand

When my sister had her first baby, she became overwhelmed quickly. You sound similar to how she was feeling.  So my mom and I started helping her out here and there, going over and staying with my nephew so she could leave the house for a couple hours, even if it was to grocery shop or run errands, just so she could get out alone.  Or we'd go get him and take him to our house for a couple hours, with instructions to her to TAKE A NAP or read a book, or something relaxing.  If you have family or friends willing to help out, take them up on it.  They wouldn't volunteer if they didn't want to do it.  


My sister's husband was helping out too, but he worked a lot of hours, 6 days a week.  In my sister's case, she was very independent and used to doing what she wanted when she wanted before the baby and I think that was part of what overwhelmed her, the feeling that she couldn't just pick up her purse and go somewhere as easily as before.  Good luck.  This will pass, don't be so hard on yourself.


 


was wondering about you....glad you're helping yourself
nm
Well you are really not helping matters or having people side with you
when you keep bragging about how wonderful your kids are and family your family is, lol.. and assuming everyone else's is all screwed up. You know what they say.....usually one who accuses is the one with the problems. People who truly have a wonderful family life and great kids do not usually have a need to keep reaffirming and reassuring everyone of that fact ; )

I think maybe the boy sucked out some of your sanity...

:)
Prime example of "when helping harms".

Like the previous poster, as a dog lover, I am appalled that they would use this animal.  Are you positive the dog even had surgery and if so, what kind just out of curiosity.  Are you sure your money went to that.  I also find it odd that the dog would still be in so much pain several months later.  Are you sure the dude is not taking the meds himself?  It happens.  Desparate times call for desparate measures.  I would just explain to her either on the phone, email or write her that while you value your friendship with her, you feel that you have gone beyond the call of friendship here and that you can not longer provide funding for the dog's care (or her son's drug habit).  Technically, by not taking care of his responsibilities himself this is allowing him to take what money he should be using on the dog and spend this on drugs.  Therefore, yes, making you an enabler as well.  Just like they do on the show "Intervention".  You have to quit giving in.  Tell her that if she is not able to care for the dog that you will be glad to find or help her find a home for it, but that you no longer can afford financially and consciously to keep sending money.  Just validate your friendship.  If she is a true friend she will understand this.  She might need more encouragement to break away from enabling him.  It is hard to do.  Trust me I have siblings that are addicted and we have had to just cut them off, especially after loosing another sibling only 5mos. earlier for same reason.  This is one of those times "when helping harms".  Attached is a great site to give you a little reassurance.  Might send this to her as well.  Good luck.  Try to get the dog out if you can, that may be impossible though.  If you think that without your care it is being abused, please report it to thier local animal society or animal control.  This can be done anonymously.


your Trailer Park attitude is probably not helping
nm
My husband was doing me a "favor" by helping me hunt down
a new ergonomic keyboard a few years ago and he called our local Office Depot... Asked the person on the other end if they had any erogenous keyboards.

I was choking back the laughter and trying to get his attention to correct him but he's the kind of guy that HATES to be interrupted for ANYTHING so he held up his hand to me and gave me a dirty look, then repeated the question to the person on the other end who was no doubt having a fit of laughter themselves, transferred him to another department, where he repeated the question AGAIN.

By this time, I could not control myself any longer. I was laughing hysterically and he finally hung up the phone because he was mad at me. Then I explained to him what he was asking for and he was really mad.

I just said, aren't you glad they didn't say that they had some and you reserved one to be picked up later today?

I could just see him walking to the service counter to pick up the "erogenous keyboard" he had set aside! LOL
Medicare questions for helping my relative
I have a relative who wants to live alone although she really needs some basic care such as grocery buying, food prepared, light cleaning in her home, going to doctors appointments, the very basics of everyday life. I will be able to pay through her bank what she needs for lights, cable and things like that (she has gotten to where she cannot make out a check because of tremors in her hands). She went to live with another relative and it has not worked out at all. She has been on her own for years and wants to be that way again as much as possible. Is there anyone out there who knows what Medicare does to help out the elderly and give me any information you might have.
Puppy eating cat food, cats eating puppy food...
So I have three cats and a five month old puppy.

Cats eat Felidae, Puppy eats Canidae... or at least that is how it is supposed to be.

Both species eat mainly dry, but puppy gets wet at night when she is in "her room" (kitties do not go in puppy's room at night).

I cannot keep kitties out of Candiae and I cannot keep puppy out of Felidae

Can I relax or is this going to hurt either of them?

Advice very much appreciated!

TIA

I've decided to start a cookie business! Anyone up for helping me out with a name?
I know with the economy and all, it's probably not a good time to open a new business, but I've been thinking about this for years and just want to do it anyway and very happy and excited about it!

So, some words I've been playing around with are yummy, goodies, goodness, sweets, comfort, cookies ... but nothing is really grabbing me. I've even tried to think of ideas without those type of words above, such as "Big D's" or whatever.

If anyone has any good ideas, I'd love to hear them!
Puppy ... maybe
The plan was to have just one dog, our Sasha, the nice, healthy, solid white rescued Siberian husky. She has been enjoying being treated like a queen for the last week, even though one night she did start acting oddly, sniffing surfaces, as if searching the house for any sign of Misha. Though she knows perfectly well because I let her smell Misha's collar and told her she was gone. I could tell she knew what I meant.

But I couldn't help looking at rescues and SPCA and even a nearby breeder who has had Siberians who won best of breed at Westmister. It wasn't just me who was filling out applications ... DH did it too. And he heard from a Siberian rescuer in West Virginia who had a call from a lady who needs to rehome her 7-month-old Siberian puppy because she was forced to move into an apartment, and it's not good for the puppy. And she is beautiful! Her face is open and Kodiak-bear like, just like Misha's was. And if I get her I'm going to carry her everywhere as long as I can ... because she's still a little bit puppy at 7 months, and they grow up so fast.

your puppy
If you Google home-made dog foods, there are lots of recipes you can try that might be gentle on his stomach. Being a puppy, he is probably sensitive to a lot of additives. Good luck, I hope you find something gentle that he can digest until he gets a bit older.
We have a new puppy!! sm

We got the sweetest little puppy this weekend! We were going to just foster her until she got a little bigger and stronger, but she is doing so well in the first two days with us..and all the other dogs like her..so we decided to keep her. She is a baby basset hound. She was the runt out of 13 and only weighs 2 pounds at eight weeks old. All of her brothers and sisters got homes and she was left behind. She quit eating and drinking and just cried all the time. We brought her home and she has been eating and drinking and her little tail never quits wagging. Sure makes ya feel good to see her thriving now after just two days!! We now have a cat, a mutt, a cocker spaniel, a Cavalier King Charles spaniel, and now her. They are all doing well together and nobody is being mean to her..so keep your fingers crossed!  All of our animals are boys and this little one is a girl. The boys are fixed and she will have to get it to when she gets older, so hopefully they can all behave!


Thanks for listening...just had to share!


Got my new puppy!!!

I posted last week about a new puppy to replace my dog that was stolen.  Well, I got lucky enough to get a full-blooded pekingese for free!  She is 14 weeks old and so sweet...   We named her Remy (all our dogs are named after a brown liquor - my husband's insistence!!!).


She is not too happy with trying to crate break her  and she threw up last night 5 times in my car and twice after I got home (car sick or overate on the new food the lady fed her yesterday), but today things are going good!


Wish me luck with the training...


puppy
YEAH....

Poor Puppy--sm
Wow. I feel so bad for the puppy (I call all doggies puppies no matter what size or age they are). I did not realize that pets could get or have SLE. I wish you the best for finding something to control symptoms. give puppy a pet for me too.
Your sweet puppy
I'm so very sorry for your loss. It's so difficult to loose someone we love.  Have you ever heard of the site, I believe it's called Rainbow's Bridge, the place where our beloved pets pass after they've left us?  Please visit the site and register your baby....perhaps it will make you feel just a bit better after you do and be sure to read the poem...
update on my puppy

Thanks to all of you, who are concerned. Took her to vets, they gave her a treatment for Coccydia (spelling?) some kind of bacteria in intestinal tract. They squirted something in her mouth that looked like tooth paste. So hopefully this helps.  I'm taking her back in a week for a recheck. I'm keeping my fingers crossed. She is 4 months old, so she had her vaccinations for parvo already.


And thanks to everyone for posting the recalled pet food links. I did check out the food that I feed my animals when this first happened and I've been keeping up to date on this. So far none of the foods I feed are on the list. But I'm still a little leery about pet foods. I'm looking into cooking for the dogs. Got a doggie cookbook. Thanks everyone for being so caring!


Puppy mills

Just wanted to relay a story about my friend's dog, who came from a pupy mill. Her name is now Lisel, as my friend is German. She named her after the little girl in the Sound of Music.


Lisel was born in a puppy mill and fortunately for her she was finally adopted by my wonderful German friend, Ute. Ute and Joe are animal loving people and have had everything including many, many dogs, cats, horses, parrot, a goat, etc. Lisel had four homes before Ute adopted her from Daschund Rescue. She is a beautiful Wire-haired Daschund. Resue told Ute that this dog, who was initially named Zoie  was a real problem for people and terribly hard to handle. Each time she was adopted it in failure and her return to Rescue.


Ute learned the history of Lisel's birth and life before she ever had a home. She was born in a puppy mill, and even after four homes and then being loved at Daschund Rescue she would literally scream when you approached. her. She was afraid of Ute's legs when they walked, and she would not permit her to go near her ears, neck and head. Hang in there. There is a happy ending.


Ute investigated and learned some of the practices going on such as just yanking them out of their wire crates by the ears and neck, and when they spirit moved them to clean the cages at all the animals were often not removed. The operator of the puppy mill took hoses with much pressure and just sprayed the cage with the dogs still inside. The list goes on and on.


I am happy to say that after almost a year my friend said that Lisel is playing on their beautiful propery in the country, running with her little brother and sister, Willie and Ali (both short-haired Daschund) and chasing bunnies and all kinds of fun things. She said she actually looks like she is smiling. I cried when I met her because I wanted her to love me like Willie and Ali do. Ute and Joe said to be patient, that it would happen eventually. She is a beautiful, wonderful dog who found the pot of gold. Ute and Joe refer to her as their Forever Baby. They did not give up, even though many times Ute would email me and tell me she cried the whole morning after trying to deal with Lisel.


We need our elected officials to start addressing some of these issues when they are running for office. I know some progess is being made, but we need much more. Thanks for taking the time to read this. I cried for joy when I read the last email from my devoted wonderful friends.


God Bless Lisel, Ute and Joe.


Puppy Mills
Puppy mills need to be closed down. But as long as people impulse by from pet stores, puppy mills will flourish.

The AKC should not register any dog from a PM. You know this won't happen as there is money to be made from the mills and also back yard breeders.

Sad thing is, the only ones who get hurt are the dogs and their owners.
Puppy mills

I happened upon this very informative link:    http://www.stoppuppymills.org/


and found their videos to be educational and heartbreaking!  No animal, not even animals being raised for consumption, should have to live their entire lives in tiny cages producing babies.  This is the best reason out there not to buy cats or dogs from pet stores or online ads.  If you want a purebred pet, a rescue organization for that breed is the best way to go.  If you still want to purchase a pet from a breeder, find one that's registered with the USDA, or through the American Kennel Club or the Cat Fanciers Association. 


My cat acts like a puppy (sm)
He destroys toilet paper, paper towels. He goes into the cupboards and drawers and get into chips and bread and whatever else he can munch!

He will also stand in fron the fridge and MEOW!

I am surprised he doesn't bark........lol
puppy mills

A lot of people don't know about this.  I didn't know until I got my dogs 8 years ago.  I do see a lot of puppy mills getting shut down on Animal Planet, but why the rest of them get to continue is I guess no one reports them.  So if anyone knows of these places they should call their local animal control, which is not great, because sometimes they get put down, but to prevent these animals from living a life of horror, locked in a cage forever.  I missed the first half of the show, I wish I would have seen it just saw the previews which were horrible enough. 


Even the local animal shelters are full of purebreeds because some people just bring them there after the puppy or dog they just paid a lot of money for from the pet store doesn't do what they want or chews something up, etc.   Either adopt from the local shelter where the dogs have more than a 50% chance of getting put down, very few get adopted, and the luckier ones are the ones that the rescue groups have already rescued.  They have a better chance of staying alive becasue they were rescued.  So try the shelters first and then go to Petfinder.com to find the breed you want.  The more dogs that get adopted from the shelters,the more room they have to put another one up for adoption. 


Also if you have the time, space you can become a foster home for some of these dogs, all the rescue groups need volunteers to take in foster dogs until they can find them a permanent home and get them used to living with a family.  There are so many of them in need. 


Everybody that adopts an animal is making a difference, one by one, the more the better. 


 


I like the puppy singing . . .
there ain't no bugs on me. I also like the Avis car commercials, the ones where the car goes on about the owner renting a newer car, the car is all hurt and bitter.
me neither, and I'm no puppy (nm=no message)
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Puppy pads. sm
My puppy is now 8 months old but she was pad trained.  You can buy an accessory to hold a frame around the pads so the puppy won't chew them up.  I think they have a scent to encourage puppy to go there.  I have a chihuahua and that works for me; although I do take her out and she has learned it is perfectly fine to go outside too.
Where do you live? I am looking for a lab puppy and
my friend is also looking for a lab. Are they yellow, black, chocolate?

How many boys, girls?

another ... Puppy Pumpkin
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it's a puppy of COURSE it's destructive!
it makes me so sad when people adopt or buy dogs without knowing the responsibility that comes with them. even if she isn't in the "cute puppy stage" anymore. This puppy needs attention, needs exercise, needs play time, and even when those things occur she STILL might be destructive. The puppy needs training (like all dogs). she doesn't need to be on a "run leash" she needs to be taken on a run! i know this is probably better than a shelter, but not much... I have two dogs that i adopted, and they did all those things you mentioned. they are learning and exploring and curious! I did crate my dogs, that is what you have to do when you are not constantly watching them because you cannot discipline a dog AFTER the fact, they do not put two and two together. You have to CATCH them doing it, discipline, and CORRECt. For instance, you catch the pup chewing on the furniture you say NO or whatever to distract them, and then give her a toy she CAN chew on...

Crating is okay. i used to think it was awful, but now that is my dog's little bedrooms. of course you can't keep them in there all the time, please dont... but that is a suggestion for a couple of hours a day...



Puppy gifts
Training pads - and plenty of them!
Get a Poodle Mix Puppy
They don't shed and are so darn cute! I have a Malti-poo, part maltese/part poodle. Cutest, smartest little dog ever! And best of all, no shedding!!

You can't go wrong with a poodle mix. Good luck. I would be lost without my "babies" too.
puppy training

Start inching the pads closer and closer to the door, and eventually place the pads outside so she figures out that outside is where she really needs to be.


The piddling all the time when walking is marking territory - even in girl dogs.  She's finding other scents and peeing over them to leave her own scent on it. If you have her spayed I think you'll find that happens less often.


When she has accidents in the house, is there a pattern to the timing of it?  Her bladder is small enough that she needs to be either by a pad or taken outside every couple of hours.  Do you have an area in the house that you can sort of confine her with baby gates or some such so the carpets are not an issue?  Maybe keep her in the kitchen with lots of beds and cushions that are washable until she is old enough to have a little bit better control.


Good luck.  I know all about animals doing things where they're not supposed to do them.  Clorox Cleanup is my friend!


My new puppy is sick!!!

Okay, everybody, my new puppy that I love so much already has parvo and is in the hospital.  She went in yesterday morning.  So far, so good.  No vomiting and no diarrhea for 41 hours, but they are not wanting me to bring her home.


Can someone tell me if she is not vomiting and has no diarrhea and she is eating, what are they doing for her that I cannot do here at home?  I would rather her be here so that I can watch her.  If she got sick again, the vet's office is only 1/2 mile from my house - couldn't I run her back real quick (it is a 24-hour manned hospital)?


Anyway, everybody do what you do - say a prayer, send good vibes our way, whatever your choice is!  Just wish us back to good health!


New Puppy Woes
We got a new puppy a week ago and he is driving us crazy! This is the first time we have had a puppy. He is a 3-month-old chihuahua. We are pad training him because we live in an apartment. He is doing great with peeing but we can't seem to get him to poop on the pads. Also, he is still crying/whining at night. Last night he woke me up at 3:30 and again at 7:30 this morning, but not because he has to go to the bathroom. He just gets lonely. I try to ignore it in the middle of the night but when he gets loud, I worry about the neighbor's hearing him. He is also chewing on everything!! I know this is normal behavior so we give him lots of chew toys but he still wants to chew on everything else. A few days ago he chewed through the cord on my foot pedal. Any advise would be much appreciated I am ready to give up!
Puppy Woes
Wow. Been there, but did the outdoor training with our first pug. He was so stubborn about it (pugs are stubborn by nature). I'd take him out, give the command and after 15 minutes of him doing nothing, I brought him back in. He kept peeing and pooping in the house. One day, I did the usual, he did nothing, I brought him back in and he proceeded to go pee at my husband's feet. Well, Hubby isn't nearly the doormat I am and he took his head and rubbed his nose in it. He was trained from that point on.

With your dog, one thing is to keep an eye on him. Watch for him to start squatting and pooping, pick him up and take him to the puppy pad. Be consistent and he will get the idea. It is my opinion that if you find poo 20 minutes after the dog has done it and try to discipline him, he's not going to understand. Also, and I know this is going to sound gross, but keep an eye on his bum hole. When my 3 have to go, their bums are puckered out and/or dilating off and on as they decide where to go.

As far as chewing, firmly tell him "No!" and redirect to a toy. If he plays with toy, praise him to no end and even get down on the floor to pay tug-of-war.

As far as the crying, well, it could be he needs to potty but forgets about it when you come to rescue him. The general rule is a puppy can hold its bladder by age plus 1 month - A 2 month old puppy should be able to hold it for 3 hours, a 3 month old for 4 hours, etc. He could also very well be crying because he is lonely. You might lose some sleep, but bring him in your bedroom with the crate or dog bed and have him sleep on the floor by the bed. When he cries, comfort him and tell him it's time to go to sleep. Keep it up. I think he would feel a little more secure being in the same room.

Our first pug, Bumper, was a holy terror as a puppy and I wanted to return him something awful. He chewed things up, refused to be house trained for a long time and constantly bit our fingers, hands, feet and toes and would draw blood. I went to a pug forum site and discussed his issues. I got a lot of great advice. I was told that he would calm down around 18-24 months. At 20 months, he became a laid-back, lovey-dovey boy and has been that way ever since. Our second pug was only destructive to Bumper's face. He was so patient with her. However, I had to take him to the vet a few times because his face looked like ground beef from all of her chewing and biting and hanging off of his face wrinkles. He was on antibiotics a few times when Maggie was a puppy.

Our third pug is a rescue and he was pretty much housebroken but I've caught him marking in the house. He gets rewarded by having a belly band put around him.

Oh, one last thing - puppies generally have to poo within minutes of eating, so that's when to keep an eye on where he is. Once you get to know his pooping position (usually a hunched back), you can run him over to the puppy pad.

Let us know how you're doing. Here's a chihuahua forum you can check out:

http://www.chihuahua-people.com/

Good luck!
Cat foot vs. puppy food
I don't know anything about the Canidae or Felidae brands, but most of what I've read about cat care has said that cats need a lot more protein than dogs, and different nutrients. And cat food might be too rich for dogs. Especially for urinary health, and especially for male cats. I lost a lovely young male cat last year to urinary tract blockage and eventually complete renal failure. Although no one can be entirely sure if it was 100% food-related or not, I feel that it may have been, because my kitty ate ONLY dry food, which isn't good for cats, either. He just didn't like canned food and wouldn't touch it. I also had gotten lazy and occasionally let him eat cheap grocery-store dry cat food, which is too high in minerals that can make them more prone to feline lower urinary tract disorder (FLUTD). Unfortunately he didn't die quickly or inexpensively, either! It was quite an ordeal. So in order to hopefully prevent this tragedy from happening in the future, my new cat now eats ONLY a premium dry cat food (Royal Canin) and gets canned food twice a day, in addition to plenty of fresh water.

Anyway, that's my personal experience, but of course, your best bet is to talk to your veterinarian! :)
To the person with the sick puppy
Immediately check out this list.  The brands you have been giving the puppy are on this list.  Thousands of dogs and cats have died from renal failure. 
potty training puppy

Please do not and I will repeat that DO NOT potty train your puppy using the crate method unless you do not work at home and will not be home for 8-10 hours every single day.  I have had many dogs in my life and crate training is crate training and potty training is potty training.  Yes, you want the pup to  know that the crate is his safe place and yes if you cannot keep an eye on him you will want to put him there but first think about these questions....after he goes outside and pees do you let him have a drink?  Do you play with him thereby making hime excited?  Either of these things will cause  a pup to go pee again even though they just went.  It could also be submissive peeing and if you dont make a big deal about it, he should out grow it; however, if you check for drinking and playing and this does not seem to be submissive then the next time you go to the vet mention it to them.  My friend's pup did this until she was fixed and the vet had a reason why it happened(even did it in her sleep) and she did out grow it and is much better.


And there is no real time table for saying a pup should be totally housebroken and accident free.  I always say within the first six months, it is your fault and up until a year, an accident can happen.  Yes, btw, I have had pups that were trained within 6 weeks or less of coming home; however, I did have a boxer that honestly took six months before she really got the idea.  Also I suggest bells on a string/yarn etc and hung from the door knob and when we ask them if they have to go potty or you are taking them out, stop and jingle the bells and say something about going potty.  I and my friends have used this method and it seems to help them get the hint too about the door being the way to get to go potty.


 


Best of luck


potty training puppy
Of course not.  I guess I should have been more blunt about saying that you should not confine a pup to a crate and call it potty training or be foolish enough to say that by locking it in a crate that it is potty trained.
10 years? She looks like a puppy! Very cute! nm
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loved the puppy bowl...sm

Personal foul when one peed on the field.....Flag on the field...Unecessary ruffness!  Then they had kitty half-time...I was on the phone with a friend (we were both watching) and said " I hope there's no wardrobe malfunctions this time".    Cat