But like she said

Posted By: Margaret on 2007-05-25
In Reply to: I agree, not attacking the OP at all, but - Shannon

we don't know her DD or her issues. There could be any number of reasons why mom is helping her or why she needs help.

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Need to set up a budget for my 22-year-old DD. - Is there a formula for entertainment expenses-sm
- This is what I did with my 19yo dd. sm - Sheila
  - Sheila has it right and in addition...sm - Consumer guru
  - Thank you so much for you reply. That sounds - easy and I think it will work for my DD. OP
- Our kids got their own credit/debit cards when they hit 18 and got jobs. Their success or lack of - it with $$ is now up to them. Works! nm
- Yes. The formula is you say, "You have X amount for - entertainment" and don't give her more!
  - I didnt really want parenting advice. You dont know - me or my DD and her issues- I just
    - hey, don't go. SM - re formula
    - What I'm saying is the "formula" is what you make it. - No one knows your budget.
- Think it is a little late in the game - Jenna
  - I agree, not attacking the OP at all, but - Shannon
    - But like she said - Margaret
      - Thank you so much - some of us are quick to judge and offer - advice that wasnt asked for - OP-sm
        No, cannot figure it out - Jenna

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