I would confront him

Posted By: Margaret on 2007-06-15
In Reply to: I have a decision to make - Serious Question

and first of all determine whether it is computers only or if anything has gone further.

In the meantime I would find a counselor for yourself and I would demand that he seek counseling for himself as well go to couple's counseling with you if you are going to stay with him (but only if you want to stay with him- you may not want to).

If he refuses, then you need to get out of there. Without some kind of intervention this is a good prediction of your life with him.

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I have a decision to make - Serious Question
- Tell him what U said to us in this msg - nm - looftm
- I would confront him - Margaret
- RUN! - nana
- My DH looks at some sites now and then - sm - XXX
  - Thank you someone for having a little bit of security! - pdqtrans
    - It's not the fact that he goes on those sites - It's how she feels about it
- Definitely talk to him - Dreamweaver
- see msg. - sm
- Older than you and what I think - Karen
- What alarms me about this is - mt
- I'd have a conversation with hubby. - Misha
- If I were you I would get out now... - mttor
- seriously, go live your life, before he drags you down. - he sounds immature, at least - no message
- Do exactly what you said you feel like doing--sm - anon

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