In my defense & adding to my confusion (sm)
Posted By: startingover on 2007-05-28
In Reply to: Dating question-have things changed? (sm) - startingover
The few times I have waited a couple of days and not contacted him, I get a message from him saying, "what's wrong? Is everything ok? I've usually heard from you by now!" So at that point, I resumed my regular contacting him first. Should I have just shifted the lead over to him at that point? Just curious what you think. This is all very educational for me - thanks!
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I think the confusion is because they
split up this last season the way they did, half of it was on what seemed like a year ago and now the other half (so it almost seemed like 2 different and very short seasons).
sorry for confusion
i have no particular thoughts about accutane, but this and the antibiotics have not worked and they keep pumping antibiotics into her. i think she needs a doctor with something else to offer.
Fist anniversary confusion...sm
Me and my husband's 1st anniversary is coming up on December 15th. I want to do something special, i.e. mini-vacation, fancy dinner at home, dancing, etc. I can't decide on what we should do. Can any of you give me thoughts or ideas or even examples of what you did on your 1st anniversary? Any suggestions helpful and welcome!!! THANKS
guy in defense
Hey gals don't gang up on the poor guy, he was just trying to get a reaction. Guys don't like it when a chick who happens to be their spouse brings in more money than he does. Sure he is probably jealous of his wifey, but whatever you do, please don't have him listen to this stuff we do, it wouldn't matter at all. Instead do this - take a vacation honey and use his money!
Also in his defense, I read that......
The cause of death was "acute intoxication by the combined effects of oxycodone, hydrocodone, diazepam, temazepam, alprazolam and doxylamine." To me this sounds more like a problem with the combination drug therapy rather than an actual overdose.
I have a Persian, and the best defense is LOTS of - sm
grooming! I try to do a thorough comb-out DAILY. My former cats really loved the product, "Petromalt". It is a hairball remedy with a toothpaste-like consistency that they like to lick off a spoon or your finger, helps to "lube" their insides. My present cat doesn't like Petromalt, but LOVES the Whiskas "Temptations - Hairball-Control" cat-treats. She gets 6-8 of them as a treat every day after grooming, and it seems to do a pretty good job. Still barfs up an occasional hairball, but that doesn't happen very often... maybe twice (tiny ones) in the past 8-9 months. I feed a dry cat food formulated for Persians - "Royal Canin Persian 30" for her dry food, and lots of canned food as well to keep her hydration up. I have two water bowls for her in different parts of the house that I keep filled with clean water every day, to encourage her to drink a lot.
Before treating for acid reflux, I would address the hairball problem, because that is most likely what's making her regurgitate in the first place. The hair loss could be a symptom of something else, and it would probably be worth it to have a vet check her out, maybe do some blood tests to see if there is a thyroid problem, etc. If the cause of the hair loss can be resolved, that will also go a long way towards eliminating the hairball problem.
In her defense, it sounds like people she knows haven't been of any help. sm
She told people at church to no avail. She told her neighbor--a cop--who told her not to do anything. For whatever reason, the people she knows are idiots. I'm glad she has continued to look for someone to take her seriously, but now that someone needs to be a lawyer and a REAL police officer!
In his defense, on any of these meds, it's easy to forget if you've taken one yet that morning
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Have you ever tried adding just a little
color in subtle highlights to thicken up the strands and give you texture? You don't want to change the color so far it dries it out too much, but just enough to giv it some texture. Then let the front grow out and sweep it from a side part across the forhead or straight up and then to the side, in a retro 1920s look. Something to play with. Try a flat iron and get your stylist to show you how to do the whispy flips out in multiple layers. A lot of it is just experiementation and finding out what your hair wants to do that's interesting.
Adding to that.......
Clean up my language.
Stop talking to myself.
Stop talking to the computer.
Quit sleeping at my desk while waiting for jobs on each of my 4 accounts.
Adding to above
or were your brother's children listed as contingent beneficiaries on the policy?
adding to the sentence above
Short ones if a normal YEPP. If just short. Nah.
adding pix for dummies. sm
I click the insert image icon, but that dialog box is strange to me. Help!
And the need for adding the little angry icon is???
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adding the excitement back
I don't have any great advice - I'm no counselor - but, try reading "The Wedding" by Nicholas Sparks if you really want to make your marriage work. It's not great literature by any means, but it's a sweet little story about a man who realizes that his wife isn't in love with him anymore and they've fallen into that roomates routine and what he does for both of them to fall in love again. Falling in love is the exciting part. It's easy to miss that when you've been married a long time.
All of the above is good, but adding 2 cents
If you are constantly checking on the birds, it will make them nervous. Think about what birds do in the wild for protection. If they lay a clutch of eggs, then they notice a snake hanging around, they will eat the eggs and abandon the nest until the snake goes away for good.
I did not read your other post so I don't know what bedding material you are using, but for my finches, I would go outside and find tall grass and tear off several hand fulls. I put some in the nest and some on the cage floor for the birds to carry to the nest.
My first egg laying experience was from an Indian finch who laid 11 eggs, sat them just fine, but the instant the first one hatched, both parents clung to the opposite side of the cage like some monster had invaded their home! I had to hand feed that baby every 45 minutes for the first 3 days! Oy, was I tired!
One thing to add to their diet is a boiled egg - crush the complete egg, shell and all, into small pieces. They get the protein from the egg and calcium from the shell. Sprinkle some shavings from the tops of brocolli on top.
Depending on what type of finches you have, they may need live worms for the protein. You can buy meal worms (more than 20% protein) at your local pet store pretty cheaply, but if you want to grow your own for free, write me (some people think it's disgusting, but these worms are very clean). There are other worms that are over 35% protein, but they are impossible to breed and expensive to have shipped, but the more exotic finches require them.
I really do suggest that you don't check on them so much. I also don't know what kind of nest you are using, but I highly recommend a wooden box hinged onto the back corner or side of the cage. You can lift the lid when you see both out of the box and it will disturb them less. If the nest has nothing around it to conceal it from the rest of the room (like a cup-style canary nest), it will be hard for them to settle down.
Write if you think of anything else you would like to know. I was a certified avian breeder and there were several difficult finches I was able to breed successfully.
For some reason, the last 2 days I have been adding
an "l" to words ending in "y." No idea what is going on with my fingers.
Try adding some fatty acids to his food
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I'm glad you liked it!! To me there is not much that can't be made better by adding green chi
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Here’s to adding the zebra to the endangered species list!
Here’s to adding the zebra to the endangered species list!
Adding coconut oil for flax seed oil to your diet
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Reveling in adding a new bird to my life list
of birds I have seen - a red-breasted nuthatch - not common this far south - at my suet feeder when suddenly birds scattered and my resident Cooper's hawk almost hit the window in front of me. Don't think he scored this time.
I just keep checking my line count and adding up my money. Great job.
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and all of my -tion words come out as -tino, like I'm adding a latin flair to them. nm
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Don't know about cats. What about adding mayo or plain veggie oil to their food? Or butter? nm
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