MIL problems

I have a vent.  I have a MIL that likes to twist things I say around to make me look like a monster.  Yesterday we were at a restaurant and my 5 year-old was clinging to her and giving her a lot of affection.  Mil told her to stop.  Then she said to dd "you told me that only married people kissed, isn't that right mommy."  Looking at me.  I just tried to ignore it.  I don't know where she came up with that.  The only thing I know is that dd had a little friend here one day and she adn that little boy kissed under the covers.  Dh hit the roof and made me have a "talk" with dd.  I didn't know what to say except married people do that so I guess that is where it is coming from.  Or dh might have told MIL that he didn't like her kissing dd on the lips but of course It is my fault MIL and dd cannot show any affection at all to one another.   Such victims of my wrath.

Another thing, MIL is so nosy likes to tell me what to do and how to raise my kids.  I got angry about this one day and so MIL gets into her kill them with kindness mode.  I had mentioned that I had gave away my last wallet sized picture of my two dds together.  I had a large 8 x 10 and if I would have wanted a wallet one I would not have gave that last one away. Duh.  Well I get angry at her for her patronizing me and tell her off and when I leave she bawls and the I am only trying to help crap and gives the picture I gave her back...guilt tripping I believe.  This was months ago, well last Sunday she says she wants it back.  To me that just proves my point.  1) she likes to play victim.  2) she is a master at guilt tripping. 

What is worse than this, dh cannot see anything she does wrong. 

• MIL problems - arg
  • Sorry your MIL is a pain.. - MontanaMT
  • I'm sorry but I don't understand your post at all. - Me
    • Ditto, didn't get much here either.. - nm

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