No it is not (sm)
Posted By: AnnieM!AnnieM! on 2007-11-15
In Reply to: Is this an indicator I should divorce - listen to this (sm) - Vacation poster from yesterday
It should take a lot more to determine if you work on your marriage or bail out. I think it IS a strong indicator you and your husband need some help in working on saving your marriage. You have kids. A divorce will change them forever, sometimes for the worst, sometimes for the best, but nevertheless it WILL change them. You owe it to them to exhaust all avenues in keeping your family intact.
Get some counseling, whether together or alone. At the very least have a heart-to-heart with your husband outside of home away from distractions, away from your kids, when you are calm and have your thoughts collected. You loved him once, maybe you both can work on bringing that feeling back.
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