So, why would a man

even need to borrow money from a woman?  I can understand certain circumstances, but a little here, a little there, not paying it back before borrowing more... But that is what parents/grandparents/banks are for.   "I love you, I really do..."   Who is he trying to convince?  Single men are perfectly capable of paying their own way and most men I know of are embarrassed if they have to borrow from a buddy and from a woman..O!M!G! Humiliated!  My DH had a fire that destroyed his home 6 months before I married him.  Believe me, insurance doesn't help if there is an upside down figure from the value of the home and the amount left on the mortgage.  He did not come out ahead and he lost all the tools of his trade, uniforms, etc.  So, to add insult to injury, he not only had to find a new place to live, he had to replace everything just to maintain employment.  His pride still kept him from asking for money.  If there is something a man wants or needs, he will sacrifice or work to find a way.

As for the love notes, sounds like he is practiced on how to get onto a woman's romantic side.  How much practice do you think it takes to get that way?  1 woman before you? 20 woman? 100 women until he gets it just right? If you have become lovers, then it sounds as though whatever he had to go do get you emotionally strapped in for the ride, he has no problem doing.  sex is the easiest way to get a woman sucked in.  He may not even realize he is doing this.  The psychology on this one is basic but deep. 

• Would you think someone was lying if they said this? (sm) - Gullible?MT
  • You must be joking! He NEVER call should - sm
  • QUESTION.................... - anon
  • I think you get the picture of the posters - this guy is using you doll !!!! nm
  • ARE YOU SERIOUS????? - DUH
  • So, why would a man - Kyrie
  • If it's not happening, it's not happening. As for the money . . SM - CUT HIM LOOSE!
  • time for a reality check - - missMT
    • I like those words - very very wise - New Englander
    • Words of wisdom... - sm
    • Excellent point - love that !! nm - USAmt
  • Loaning him money? - Er uh... I think ya' need to cut that freeloade
  • Hate to break your heart - New Englander
  • Sounds strange to me - USAmt
  • I would email him, as this seems to be part of (sm) - giddy pc guru
  • Oy vey!!! - sm
  • I would tell him - Linda F
    • Oh, he still could be married. Never too rich or too thin! NM - show me the $$$!??!
    • HA HA HA - loved your comments - New Englander

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