| Thank youPosted By: drowning in sorrow on 2007-12-18In Reply to: Please help me! - drowning in sorrow
 
 Thank you everyone for your posts.  They have helped me a lot.  I know I need to talk to him but I am afraid to.  I am not ready for the truth yet.  I want to pretend that everything is okay.  I can't even read your posts without crying uncontrollably so how can I talk to him?  I am so scared it is true now because I have thought about some little signs.  Since we have been married, which has only been for 8 months, I have had to beg for sex.  I always thought that was strange.  And then about a month ago we had a fight over his son (my stepson) because the child has some big behavioral problems and my husband told me the only reason he even got married was for his son.  So now that sounds like he did only get married for his son's sake and to appear normal.  Do you know how bad that kills me inside?  I thought he married me because he loved me.  What do you guys think about that?  I know I need to work but I can't think about anything else right now.
 
 
 Complete Discussion Below:
  marks the location of current message within thread 
 
 The messages you are viewing 
are archived/old. To view latest messages and participate in discussions, select 
the boards given in left menu
 Other related messages found in our database
 
 
 |