Please help me!

I need major advice.  I got on the computer yesterday and have found where my husband is looking at gay porn!  He is also looking up gay escorts.  I don't know what to do.  I'm worried he is gay now and wants to cheat on me.  I just can't believe this.  I'm scared to death.  I then checked his phone and seen where he has also been calling phone sex lines and one of them was a gay one.  Please guys give me advice.  Have any of you experienced this?  What do I do?  I haven't confronted him yet.  I wanted to think about this first.  Any advice is great.  Thanks!

• Please help me! - drowning in sorrow
  • So OP, how are you today?? Are you ok? nm - NCMT
  • I wish you strength. - MTHubie
  • wow...what a shocker and a merry christmas to you huh? - mt-MQ
  • Realized something else - drowning in sorrow
    • You are doing the right thing to calm down and get more info before talking (sm) - NCMT
  • Thank you - drowning in sorrow
    • Did you date very long? - MslaMT
    • Your begging for sex is not a good idea! - Get a clue!
      • I do not know why this came out like this - Get a clue was not what I meant
        • Thank goodness! - MTPockets
        • Glad to know you didn't mean it like it sounded LOL (nm) - Me
      • You must have perfect gaydar then - most of us would not "knowingly" either -duh
      • "get a clue?" That was mean - Appalled!
      • For your information - drowning in sorrow
      • HOW DARE YOU! She said she DID before she knew this (sm) - Me
        • Talk about kicking someone when they're down.. - MTPockets
    • I'm so sorry...I know it must be so hard (sm) - NCMT
  • Shock - MTness
  • You have to confront him. Your health and well being are most important. - SM
  • If you love him, talk to him - radgirl
  • Maybe he is just curious, but has - type-it
  • First mine said he was gay - truth was worse - he was transgendered
  • People don't turn gay, they either are or they aren't - sm -
  • Somebody has to say it so I will - Do NOT have sex with him until you have - talled (if even then) and you know he has
    • I agree with this poster. For your own sake. - Heartbroken for you.
  • This will be hard, but there are things - pxmt
    • I just want to say what a kind-hearted post this was!! (sm) - NCMT
  • I had a boyfriend that was gay. - MslaMT
  • Time for a long, uninterrupted heart to heart. Sorry to hear - about this. No signs prior at all??? nm :(

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