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Posted By: mt35 on 2007-08-04
In Reply to: Actually I am new to this discussion and I admire - sm
It is really strange that I happened to come across this discussion!!
I am 38 and hubby is 55 but most of the time I think he is 5. I have 2 daughters, 1 mine from a previous marriage and we have a 6-year-old daughter together.
My daughter leaves for college in 2 weeks and then it will be just the 3 of us. My little girl is so IN LOVE with her daddy and he is a GREAT daddy. He is truly her best friend. BUT...
After 13 years of marriage, we have been in separate bedrooms for 8 months now. He is not a bad person but honestly, just another one of my kids. He does go to work and brings home a paycheck. I have no life with him. I am so lonely. Everything that is done in our adult life, he has no part of. He handles NOTHING. I even have to take the cars for an oil change or any maintenance/repairs. He will not pay any bills, that is also left up to me. He is totally oblivious to life and its responsibilities. I really have another child.
I am sooo lonely and miserable I just don't know what to do. It would really tear my little girl apart to leave her daddy and "break up her family."
I don't know what is the best for her. Is living in this house to keep her family together or leaving. Is it good for her to see the arguing and NO LOVE between her parents as well? Will she expect the same from her marriage/relationships??
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