ease off

Posted By: Snow Bunny on 2006-12-27
In Reply to: Need opinion on guy troubles - nl

You�re dating only two months but you want him to be exclusively yours, and you feel hurt if he�s not? I would expect this from high school kids, but not a woman in her 30s.

If you took your daughter out of the equation, would you still feel the same way? If you say you would, then you have insecurity issues that need to be resolved. If not, then it sounds like you�re looking for another Daddy for your daughter. Either way, don't bring that sort of baggage into the relationship.

You�re going to ruin what sounds like the start of a fantastic relationship if you put pressure on this guy.

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Need opinion on guy troubles - nl
- Just my opinion - nn
- ease off - Snow Bunny
- Married? - LuLu
- Back away now, and do it fast. Then you will find out. I think he is not the one, but you sm - back away
- Two months is quite a short amount of time.... - SM
- single-parent dating (sm) - btdt
  - Did the - losinit
  - When it doubt, toss it out (sm) - just my thoughts
  - Wish I had read this when I was younger! - Know better now
  - That was a very good post. I wish more people shared your opinion- - I sure do.(But of course I didnt in my 20s!!
- I personally know a guy who does that online dating stuff - sm
- guy troubles - aln
  - Jimminy Crickets! - see message
    - She didn't come with us. - nl
      - sorry, missed that, but use caution just the same - same message
- I think you do know. He gave you the answer. sm - You know
  - Cut your losses, keep it cordial, and move on. - nm

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okay guys, my mind is at ease for now...
I'm still COMPLETELY going to be careful and cautious and take someone with me... but finally after I asked, what is expected of me, she wrote me this in response

"Ha,
Basically it is a big house. We travel alot. We need someone trustworthy to be a caretaker of it. Eric owns a few businesses and needs help running errands every once in a while, nothing major. I bartend at night so my hours are crazy.
I'm sure you are wondering if we are weirdo's, so I will attach a pic of us for you .. lol.."

And they look like Barbie and Ken! so yea now im really like uh too good to be true

But definitely being skeptical. I asked where she works, if she tells me and I will go check it out and know it's pretty legit...

Thanks for everyone's advice and caring.