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the doctors overdosed him can't blame him if he

Posted By: van on 2009-02-20
In Reply to: My understanding from my attorney is that during the divorce process, - AnonMT

now refuses to take it!


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    I don't blame you (sm)
    One bit for being mad. I would be too. It definitely doesn't seem fair. I mean, if this is common practice, you could spill coffee on your carpet and get all new. It really doesn't make sense.

    By the way, I hope everything works out for you, and I'm very sorry about the trouble you are having. It sounds like a matter of insurance companies being bombarded with claims due to mass damage in your area, so they are getting stingy with their pay outs. Definitely not fair. Is the state isnurance commissioner doing anything to help?
    Please don't blame yourself. (sm)
    I do not know if this has anything to do with your situation, but I thought I would share.

    My mother experienced a similar situation in regards to my oldest sister (5 other siblings). The counselor told my parents that my sister was attention-seeking. She was in her 30s and married with children when they sought counselling together. She is now in her late 60s. Our mother is still living and in her late 80s, and my sister still has her moments.

    "Birth order effect" is very interesting:

    1st born must cope with the loss of attention to 2nd born.

    2nd born must constantly cope with the attention-seeking 1st born.

    3rd born must cope with a perfectionist 2nd born, and it keeps going on.

    Our 38-year-old daughter also has her moments, but overall we have a very good mother/daughter relationship.

    My opinion only, but I think a daughter's personality can be affected by the relationship with their dad. My husband was diagnosed with a passive-aggressive personality, and I do think our daughter was affected by his personality. But, instead of arguing with her, which is a trait of a PA personality seeking attention, I try to avoid conflict and praise her often, as she can be kind and loving, and God has been blessed her with many talents.

    May God bless you and your daughter to experience a more loving relationship is my prayer.
    I don't blame you
    I saw one of those in my flower bed one time and almost had a heart attack.
    I do not blame you.
    Maybe couples should fill out questionnaires before getting married that include questions about vacations as well as the usual concerns.

    Oh yeah, I guess they probably cover that if you use one of those on-line dating services like e-harmony.
    I don't blame you....

    With all of that happening...your daughter's safety is #1.  Even though she got suspended.  I would still have her carry something like the pepper spray again for her protection just in case, but tell her to be extremely discrete about it and not show or tell anyone about it, not even her friends.  You can never be too protective when it comes to your children, in my opinion.  I would ask the people you are meeting with if it was their daughter what would they do?  If your daughter is attacked, she may be scarred emotionally/mentally for the rest of her life.  I have 4 of my own, and I would do anything to protect them.  Your a good parent; I would have done the same thing.


    I don't blame the mom
    13 years old is too young to have a boyfriend. 
    I don't blame you for being really sm
    mad and I sure wouldn't have anything to do with her anymore, but not everybody has a work ethic like that. My hubby has been doing work for friends for probably close to 40 years and WOULD NEVER EVER do something like that. Actually he underbids himself alot and is happy to do it for people What goes around comes around and it has for us in many many instances when we were on the end needing help.

    Don't let this color your faith in people. You just had a bad experience like we all have had at one time or another for one reason or another. If it hadn't been this it would have been something else with the same people. It just took 7 years but it would have happened!
    I don't blame you~
    How aggravating that must be.. I hate dealing with people over the phone like that.. It stresses me to no end & I can't even work some days with that kind of junk.. hoping you are having a better day by now..
    Doctors don't always know
    Unless there is a close proximity to eating a new food or being exposed to something unusual and then developing a rash, a lot of times it is impossible to determine what the culprit is. It could be anything from a new brand of cereal to someone's cologne where he works. They will only send him for allergy testing if he continues to have repeated problems.
    Oh, but doctors are much
    too important to see people for ear infections and sore throats, especially for just a copay, LOL.

    For something routine yet urgent like that, I don't mind seeing an NP, but I don't like waiting 3 hours at an urgent care when I have strep throat with fever and chills.

    And I want my medical professional trained in this country and speak English I can understand.

    My current doctor is usually pretty good, but her office hours are short, closing at noon on Friday, but if I call her after that she will often call something in or advise after hours if she's on call.

    But what is it about skin problems? I don't care if it's a PCP or a dermatologist, if you have a problem with itching or nonhealing wounds, I can't get any respect or real help. What's the problem?

    I have many doctors who say is
    instead of are. One more I hate--"This is a patient that" instead of who. We should all know that patient's are people unless you transcribe for a vet.--an libary
    Why do doctors do this?

    First they make you wait out in the lobby and then they make you wait in the examining room. I don't mind a wait as long as I can be in the lobby and talk/see people. I despise having to wait for a long time in the exam room. I get lonely.


    I wish the nurses could time it so you only had to wait in the examination room 5-10 minutes.


    please don't blame his heritage...this could have--sm
    been anyone from anywhere. He was more american than he was korean and I really don't think his nationality had anything to do with his emotional state. I am not defending him or what he did, but please don't make more of it than what it is. There is going to be enough anger about all of this when the shock wears off and it just does not need to become a race thing, too. JMO
    I don't blame you for feeling that way at all...but (sm)
    I really think if you say anything it is just going to put a wedge between you and your dad and your new *relative*. It stinks though, I agree with you!
    Clearly to blame for what? In your mind. nm
    .
    well i always blame work!
    so they can't find out a lied because i work at home !! :)

    I do get what you are saying, but if they are my friends I ESPECIALLY wouldn't want to tell them i dont feel like hanging out! Maybe that's part of my immaturity and im on the road to working on that :)
    Really can't blame the govt on this one - sm
    We all take responsibility for ourselves.

    Let's talk about the decisions we make and advertising.

    Some people see an ad for some kind of "miracle" weight loss drug. We know it isn't going to work the way the ad says it will but... still, some people buy it, the company makes big money.

    Same thing with some of these shady lenders. They may be sitting on a lot of foreclosures at a time but they will STILL make a lot of money off of the rest of the people.

    Now lets talk credit cards.

    Same thing here. I have a Discover card that I had paid off about 2 years ago. I still had a sizable balance on another card but my plan was to close the Discover and keep the other and pay it off too.

    When I called Discover to close my account after I had paid it off, they wanted to keep me of course so they offered me a fixed rate of 3.99% for three years on any balance transfers, no transfer fees, etc.

    Okay. I kept the Discover, transferred the balance and closed the other card. I am now 2 months from having it paid off again but....... even though I have requested numerous times that they NOT raise my available credit, they keep doing it. My available credit is now up to $14,000.00.

    Excuse me but I am NOT that stupid as to charge that much on a credit card, no matter what the interest rate is but..... Some people do it and end up in big trouble.

    The trick of it is that people need to be smarter than that. It's OUR money, OUR risk. Card companies don't give a rip if they over extend credit to people. They will find a way to squeeze the money out of them.
    I don't blame the stores at all
    Its a vicious circle for everyone, and everyone is loosing money. The stores because people won't buy what they used to and the consumer because they have to pay so much more for what they do get!!!
    I'm sorry for your friend, but you can't blame the dr.

    My mother had the exact same ailments - diabetes that she did not control as well as she should that eventually led to kidney failure, liver failure and death.   Mom was always concerned about what other people thought, yet she never failed to ask questions of her physicians.  If she didn't get an answer that made sense to her, she continued to ask.  She was very stoic so sometimes the drs wouldn't take her as seriously as they needed to take her and there were several instances where something went on waaay too long because Mom wasn't kicking and screaming about it.


    Be that as it may, it is YOUR health.  If you don't understand something, it is YOUR responsibility to ask questions until you do.  It doesn't and shouldn't matter if the doctor is English speaking or not.  If you don't understand something, ask.  You are your own best advocate for your health.


    She needs to take someone with her to every appointment from now on.  I hope she gets the kidney she needs.


    I don't blame you, you did the right thing.
    If you're taking care of them, they're fine at their own house.  The owners should understand that.  If they can afford to take all of these trips, they can afford to board them.  It's not your responsibility to provide them with dogsitting service whenever they want to go somewhere.  My sister has two very big, very obnoxious German Shepherds.  They are bullies and their behavior isawful, one even flunked out of obedience school.  She has asked if they could come to my house when she has went on a trip and I've had to say no.  I have 2 Rottweilers, but they are quiet and calm in the house.  I also have a cat who co-exists with my dogs just fine.  My sister had the nerve to say "but they don't like cats, so you'd probably have to lock him up somwhere while they were here!" WHAT???  I don't feel bad about saying no and you shouldn't either.
    i refused to go out with doctors
    as i sure didn't want to be married to one...(didn't want that lifestyle) but wish you the best!
    I know and have worked with several doctors
    Actually as a Transcriptionist I was glad because so many times you'd get Dr. Smith (if they got married, then which one?)  Well, if they keep their maiden name or at least hyphenate it that made my life a lot easier.  I think it also may have something to do with the fact that if they are in practice, everything must be changed and imagine the expense?  Also if they are well known, they maybe do not want to jeopardize that.  As long as the couple is happy, and he is not offended, I think it is just fine.  Congratulations!  I would address the letter Drs. April Cox and Richard Grant.    JMO.  
    I know!! Aren't there any other doctors? - LOL (sm)
    It's our little half hour escape to fantasy land!
    I know doctors don't always have the answers

    I've been in the medical field since 1971.


    I was just venting a little - we were so relieved it wasn't bedbugs, and we were hopeful that we would find the real cause and be able to eliminate it. It was kind of a let-down when we didn't.


    As far as we know, my husband hasn't been exposed to anything unusual at home or on the job, and his food intake has been normal - nothing unusual.


    The only thing we can think of is we moved into this house late last summer, so he did mow the grass a couple of times, but of course different things grow and bloom in the spring than in late summer and fall. He does generally have the usual allergies involving itching eyes, runny nose, sinus congestion, etc., but he has never had a reaction like this. He was a Boy Scout and went camping and hiking all the time, so I know he knows what poison ivy looks like! And it doesn't look like poison ivy rash.


    Maybe somebody out there has had a similar experience and can help us - let me describe his symptoms. It usually starts out as a series of small red bumps that are in a fairly straight line. For example, in the crease of his right arm, there are about six little red bumps going straight down (proximal to distal) from the crease in a space of about 1.5 to 2 cm. There is another line, about 1 cm medial to that one, running up the arm (distal to proximal), about the same distance. When he scratches them (he tries not to, but sometimes you just gotta), they appear to turn into one big linear welt.


    Any ideas? TIA. And many thanks to those who have been following our "saga".


    I can't stand doctors like that who won't
    listen. At least a colonoscopy is good for about 10-15 years, LOL.


    The doctors told us our son was going to die.
    That was my worst Thanksgiving ever. It was in 1986.
    DEAR DOCTORS
    It has come to my attention that you all have a severe god complex disorder. While you may think that you are amazing and immortal, that does not mean that I hang on every burp, fart, yawn, snort, sniffle, gag and chewing noise that comes out of your body.

    I know you may not realize that there is a LIVING BREATHING person at the other end of your dictation, but there is. One who is extremely grossed out by your bodily functions.

    Also, if you don't understand already, time is money for us. Every minute you spend umming and hmming and shuffling papers, is money we lose. Every minute you spend flirting with the nurse who has just walked in the room is equal to about 11 lines of dictation for us. So please, say what you have to say and HANG UP.

    So lets review: before you come in to dictate from now on please eat, clear your throat, blow your nose, use the restroom, take some Bean-o, get your papers in order, close the door (preferably lock it so the nurse can't come in), and get your thoughts in order. Then pick up the phone.

    Thanks!

    Your MT
    As far as I know, doctors are allowed to do this
    in certain states, but they still need the approval of the nearest relatives.
    They do this if somebody is terminally ill and the patient himself expresses the wish that their life should be ended.

    She can always change doctors. You
    do not have to see the one they send to consult or whatever. It is the patient's right to choose their doctor (of course, as long as they are in their insurance plan).
    Doctors here are down playing it.

    They are telling us it is no worse than any other flu you get. They also say the worst is over. However, my daughters Girl Scout trip they were supposed to take tomorrow still got cancelled as with a lot of UIL events.


    Doctors do not always listen

    I needed bilateral ear surgery (typmanoplasty and mastoidectomy) not too long ago. The physician left it up to me which ear to do first, depending on my pain and hearing. I chose the left due to the amount of pain and drainage.


    I reported to the hospital (a very prestigious teaching hosptial - in US New and World Reports top 5) that morning and the OR consent form stated the wrong ear. It said the right, rather than the left.  I explained to the resident it was wrong and he proceeded to ARGUE with me, that I should just sign the consent form.  I finally asked to see my own surgeon prior to signing and he agreed with me and changed it and reversed the OR equipment etc.


    In my case it would not have made much difference since I needed 2 surgeries any way.


    But what about the older, scared, and confused patient with no family there?


    Maybe the patient did state the prima donna physician did not listen. 


    If it were me, I'd totally blame my husband.
    You mention in your post your BIL had a trailer stolen and a vehicle broken into at his house so that should have been reason enough to get a little energy up to take them off the trailer. A tough lesson learned, yes, but it's only 1700 dollars. Did you happen to see the other post above where a woman is in danger of losing her house?
    I don't blame you. Have you checked zillow.com
    or had an appraisal lately?  Not that it matters - but would be something to shove at them if they get pushy - unless of course it comes in lower than you want.  If you don't NEED to sell - hang on to it if at all possible.  We sold our land 5 years ago and wish we would have held onto it - it almost never depreciates!!  Best of luck to ya
    blame to person who put it out there and didn't keep an eye on it. can't sm
    blame the lady for buying it at the price the daughter stated whether she knew what it was or didn't know what it was. fancy cars mean nothing these days. i pay more for a nonfancy car than most pay for a fancy car because i don't have good credit so it cost me twice as much. why are you saying the person who bought it is a rotten person? she gave the price that was asked for it. why lay the blame on her? would you not have done the same thing. garage salers and buyers are out for deals period. why would she not high tail it out of the neighborhood to fly to more garage sales if that was what she was out shopping for that day? what would you had done had you caught up with her? asked her to give it back? that would be rotten in itself. she got a deal. get over it. geez! it isn't the poor lady's fault and doesn't make her rotten.
    I am asking in all honesty to not blame the stores
    My family is in the grocery business, and like jss said, everything is going up. I don't believe the stores are trying to make a profit off of the bad economy, but groceries have to be trucked in (paying the drivers, the gas, the workers that package the items, etc.). Outrageous prices are eveywhere. My father refused to order red peppers due to the cost and the fact that he knew his customers would not pay for them. It works both ways.
    Honestly I don't blame you for macing
    the dog if it's owner isn't going to be responsible enough to keep the dog on his/her property. Have you contacted the owner of the dog and complained? My husband is a K9 officer and he gets these calls ALOT and it ain't all pitbull calls, it is just dogs in general roaming around in other people's yard and not on their own property. The mace won't kill a dog, but it sure does hurt really bad and makes the dog think twice about approaching you.
    I would not blame granny. She tried to get daughter
    NM
    I don't blame you for not wanting a woman
    I am a massage therapist (not practicing right now), and I know how it can affect guys (when doing normal professional work ... nothing funky). - I doubt your hubby would be too keen on a male working on him though. : )

    Maybe you could do a bit of a strip tease for him or even just whisper in his ear about how hot he is.

    I'm just doing a simple, sweet card and a $5.00 scratch-off lottery ticket with a big heart on it ... and probably a bit of hanky-panky. Not to promote drinking, but if you are a bit inhibited, you could drink just a bit to take the edge off (a shot or so). We seem to have extra fun when I do that.
    easier to blame you than look in the mirror!
    .
    I don't blame you for being upset.. afterall..
    a vacation is to "get away" from it all, even if does mean your family.. but I am not the best person to give this kind of advice, I absolutely hate to be put in a position where I'm gonna have to "feel mean or bad" about telling them NO~ or I can't do something, etc.. will pray it all works out for you..
    Many people do this in this situation and I cannot blame them.............nm
    nm
    One of the main doctors I work for
    goes into a lot of detail about the patient's complaint and even what they think might be wrong wtih them. He also mentions personal things like if going to college, recently had a death in the family, etc. Hopefully you have typed a few of those and you can tell her that some doctors really do listen. Good Luck!
    Guns versus doctors

    Doctors


       (A) The number of physicians in the U.S. is 700,000.


       (B) Accidental deaths caused by Physicians per year are 120,000.


       (C) Accidental deaths per physician is 0.171.


    Statistics courtesy of U.S. Dept of Health Human Services



    Now think about this:



    Guns


      (A) The number of gun owners in the U.S. is 80,000,000. (Yes, that's 80 million)


      (B) The number of accidental gun deaths per year, all age groups, is 1,500.


      (C) The number of accidental deaths per gun owner .000188.



    Statistics courtesy of FBI



    So, statistically, doctors are approximately 9,000 times more dangerous than gun owners.


    Remember, 'Guns don't kill people, doctors do.'



    FACT: NOT EVERYONE HAS A GUN, BUT ALMOST EVERYONE HAS AT LEAST ONE DOCTOR.



    Please alert your friends to this alarming threat. We must ban doctors before this gets completely out of hand!!!!!


    Out of concern for the public at large, I withheld the statistics on lawyers for fear the shock would cause people to panic and seek medical attention!


    We'll have to swap doctors
    For unclear reasons, the accent that gives me trouble is a Hispanic one (and I lived in CA for 20 years, so it shouldn't!). When the family watched the movie Bend it Like Beckham, the kids had to get me to translate both the Britsh and Indian accents into American English so they could follow the story.
    Doctors with attitudes and other issues

    Just got back from the neurologist's office. This is a doctor I have seen now approximately 3 times. I try my best to furnish any and all reports I think necessary for a physician either prior to seeing them for a particular issue or when I see them such as recent MRIs, lab tests, office notes and the like from another physician's office that I think might be pertinent to why I am seeing the present doctor. 


    Have foot issues (along with a couple other things) but 2 weeks ago I called 2 different podiatrists offices where I have recently been asking that they fax (given number) office notes to the neurologist. Both offices I had visited for the same exact foot issues, no diagnosis and no help. The neurologist did not have the information requested from the 2 other offices this morning, 2 weeks later. When I told him had lots to talk about he said well start. I did and then he told me I was supposed to have told all that information to the person who took my blood pressure, checked my reflexes and so on. Well, not a mind reader here and I told him had the other offices done as requested, then maybe he would have some information before him to go by.


    Why, why are people not doing their jobs? It has nothing to do with the economy (this was happening at least 5 years ago when the economy better) but people are so slack now days it just ticks me off. Blowing smoke out ears as I write this.


    I did NOT blame his culture-reading problem?

    I gave the freshest stats at the time this a.m. - that he was a 23 y/o Korean boy....


    only thing i stated about Korea and their culture was that in the schools they teach antiamericanism and I'm not blaming the culture, I'M STATING A FACT.


    Geesh........


    Even if the poster is dead wrong and clearly to blame? nm
    trudat
    Most doctors I know prefer women that are open....sm
    and not trying to act like someone they aren't. Just treat him like a regular person and hopefully you'll have a great time.
    Doctors who spell out simple words,

    and leave you hang out to dry on the most obscure term or referring physician spelling if it is an odd name.  I'll be darn though, they will spell out "the" t-h-e, p-a-t-i-e-n-t, but never the hard stuff... . ?????  I wonder why?  People using cell phones when they are driving and not paying attention.  People that pull out in front of you, and then go 5 mph.  I hate it when the grocery bagger puts all the soap products in with my meat or food goods!  Great, now the roast smells like Dove Cucumber and Melon bar soap?  Hubby is going to think this is delicious!!!!!  UUGGHH! 


    Seek another opinion - alot of doctors are
    hysterectomy-happy.  I've typed many reports where women had hysterectomies "just in case."  Seek another opinion or even two more opinions. 
    We need DOCTORS in charge of our health care,
    !