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Posted By: jlynn on 2007-12-25
In Reply to: I know its human nature to discuss things such as - Brittney and her sister, but on a more serious not

They found this girl, dead, and are investigating it as a homicide.


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Thanks for the update. I'm sorry about
your brother and his family. What a shame. I'm glad Sasha had a good day. It must be really hard for you, because you probably want to pour your heart out to your brother about Misha, but you probably don't feel comfortable doing that with his loss, too. Well, I'll be thinking about you and sending up prayers, now for your whole family. I hope tomorrow is a better day, and so on, and so on.
Thanks for the update
Hi Stephanie. Glad to hear that your trip to the doctor was helpful. I know I really need to
get into the exercise too. Never was that big on exercise before, but now with the pain and fatigue, it is really hard to get motivated. I will just have to force myself. Yuck!!!

Update
I should add that I already get weekly massages and have for the last 4 years. My therapist has been advising me to try chiro for about 3 of those years. Of course, I waited until I really hurt before I went! I asked a friend of mine where she was going and she said that she really trusted him, so I decided to try where she goes. He took a detailed history and 2 x-rays. He also gave me a little adjustment, which has helped a little. It was just gentle pressure. I go back tomorrow to see about a treatment plan.

Thank you very much to everyone who offered suggestions of what to look for. Your back is really nothing to mess around with!
Update on dog from below sm
The poor thing died. I'm so heartsick. The police want an official statement from all of us who saw this morning (there were 4 of us). The owner said her dog was "poisoned."  I'm going up to the station in a while to talk with the chief.  I'll have more information later.
Update on my vet job
So I started out just cleaning nights and giving the animals fluids/meds on the weekends and cleaning more.  One of the day girls fell down some stairs so the vet asked me to fill in for her.  I got a crash course in doing anesthesia!  I really like it but have had a couple animals stop breathing a few times and one his heart actually stopped.  I almost peed my pants when that happened.  I also got to do x-rays and an EKG on a dog Monday.  If only this job paid better than transcription 
Update......

Well, I just checked my account again and the $2420 is back in the account due to non-sufficient funds.  There is, however, a $34 non-sufficient funds fee that will be refunded back to me after the dispute is over.  I know that in the big picture of things this does not sound like a lot of money, but it's my money I worked for and intend to get back.  I also called the bank back and made sure that PayPal could not try to take out the money again since it was reversed due to NSF.  After the dispute and we know more information, I can totally freeze PayPal from ever taking any money out of my account again.  Right now it can only be done for the exact amount they tried to take out yesterday.  I also told PayPal to take every bit of information they had on me out of their system, that I would never be needing their services again. 


The scammers just didn't count on me being a poor working girl with little money left at the end of the month.  Maybe they should give working a try instead of trying to steal other people's hard-earned money. 


Thank you all for your replies.  This just makes me all the more aware of what I am doing on-line.  I have bought many items on-line, and this is the first time anything like this has happened to me.  If they hadn't been so greedy, I probably would have had to wait out the whole ten days. 


 


 


 


Thank you for the update sm
I started to ask yesterday but didn't send my post through because I thought it might be to painful. Please know that many here are thinking about you. Prayers.
Thanks for the update. That was
enjoyable to read.

Sounds like the birds appreciate each other already.

Yesterday I had a great time watching several cardinals bathing in my sprinkler. It is so hot that they stayed in the water for hours. My impatiens appreciated the extra-long shower they received because the cardinals were so cute. It's not my day to water today, but the cardinals show up now and then, hoping.

They ignore the shallow birdbath.
Thank you for the update

At least the police know about the situation. Maybe they can have a talk with the owners when they return.


If you know anyone who doesn't live in your neighborhood who would like to have a sheltie - you know, if it were me, I would give it to them. The neighbors have been gone so long, if the dog disappears one night, who is to say what happened, right? They don't deserve to have a dog if they are going to treat it this way.


JMHO


thanks for update

Hi Trose,


Glad you called your brother and went to your doc today....ERs on the wknd are rough.  Hope you get feeling better soon.   Keep us all updated.   Cat  


Update...
First of all, thanks to everyone for their thoughts.

I went to the hospital myself and began asking questions of the charge nurse. She was very helpful and reviewed the chart and also got on the phone to the various doctors to answer my questions.

The problem is not what I thought it was. He WAS evaluated by a doctor and even had a CT scan in the first 30 minutes after he was admitted. None of the family knew this as no one had made it to the hospital at this point. Apparently, FIL just did not remember this. I guess the moral to this is do not let a patient out of your sight even for a short period of time.

He is being kept n.p.o. due to the head injury and in case they needed to operate (which by the way they are doing tomorrow to relieve compression on the spinal cord.) He was not given dextrose through his IV because of its potential to cause swelling, which is not a desired effect in a patient with a head injury. He did get food trays today, but will not receive anything else until after his surgery first thing in the morning.

Thanks again for everyone's recommendations.
An update...

Well, I had a heart to heart with my daughter yesterday.  I broke down in tears and just told her how disappointed I was in her decision to become sexually active and how my heart was broken for her.  She cried and said she didn't want to do it again, so I hope she was being honest with me.  I found out more disturbing information on her loser boyfriend having to do with some legal trouble he's been in.  We are giving her a chance to break up with him (she doesn't know that we know about the probation, arrests, etc.), but if she doesn't, we may press charges against him, just to get rid of the loser. 


Backtracking a bit, our son works for the sheriff's department, along with a lot of his buddies, who did some checking on this guy, and dug up a laundry list of trouble he's been in.  Our son is talking to our daughter today, telling her what he knows, and giving her til tonight to break it off completely with this guy, or he's telling her he'll file charges himself against this boy.  He's already checked it all out and there are things we can get him on, but we really, REALLY don't want to go this route.  It would be so hard on our daughter.  I just want the boyfriend to disappear, go away, and leave her alone.  So now, it's not so much about s-e-x anymore, but about her getting herself into some legal trouble by association with this idiot. 


AND...his mother told my DD's best friend and my DD that she would LIE TO US about the whole situation if need be.  How can a mother allow a girl to hang out with her loser, ex-con son??? It is beyond me...if it were my son, I'd tell the girl to run, not walk, away from him, he's nothing but trouble. 


Anyway, thanks y'all so much for the support and advice.  I think I handled it ok.  I think she was shocked and surprised at how upset I was.  I just admitted to her that I didn't expect this so soon, that I really didn't know how to handle it, and that I was disappointed in her actions, BUT that her father and I both love her very, very much and we will always be here for her, no matter what happens. 


It was really emotional, but good I think for the both of us.  Her 2 best friends came in in the middle of it all, and they too spilled their guts to her, so that helped also. We all cried and laughed, and talked.  BTW, I don't mention her father much, but he's here...we're married and living together...all 3 of my kids have the same father.  We've been married over 20 years now.  He's mad, upset, disappointed, and just chomping at the bit to get his hands around this kid's throat, of course...that's how men handle things, right? But overall, he's been great. 


Thanks again, y'all!


Thanks for the update...sm

Hi Deb,


I'll check in with his mom's web page to see what kinda hats he prefers (baseball caps, knit caps, perhaps something felt, really funky like they wear at ski resorts, doo rags or those little wrap caps with flames that bikers sport) and what states he's already gotten hats from....Don't want to duplicate or bore him.    Cat    


Update
She came home from school today in a much better state of mind with regards to physics class. She spoke to her teacher who explained things a lot better not only to her, but to the whole class (she isn't the only one who was having problems). She had homework tonight that she did with just one question for her father. For now I'm going to let her stay in the class, but I'm going to keep checking up on her, and see what happens after her first test. Thank you all for all your help and advice.
update....sm
My husband does not know it yet, but we have a meeting tonight with the other parties involved. I have to see this woman's face so that I know what she looks like so I will know if she is anywhere we are. Both sides have agreed to no fighting or arguing. We, meaning me and the other husband, are interested in seeing the other person because we have both been thinking when we walk down the street, is that her/him??

I have booked an appointment for marriage counseling but we can't get in until Jan. 8th, and I have myself on the cancellation list to get in sooner if possible to talk to someone earlier if they have an opening.

Thanks again for all the support. I really appreciate it and thanks to all who have cared enough to e-mail as well.
oh and BTW --- update
Since her surgery probably 4 years ago, she's had a breast reduction and whatever that is that gets rid of all the loose skin on the belly. And she did some eye stuff too. Her husband is happy and she looks fabulous!!
update on above...sm
I did a search for this item. It is called *Mighty Putty* and it is for sale at 24.95, although I am sure you could possibly get it cheaper.
Update
Well we finally talked about it yesterday. Lately he's been picking these fights with me and he did yesterday. Like he got mad at me because I by mistake kicked him in the bed. I was asleep! I don't even remember it but anyways...he left mad and so I left and went to my parents. So he calls me and we talk and he tells me he has something he wants to talk about when i get home...i tell him i already know about it. he says the reason he called those numbers was to get back at me. I was like, to get back at me for what?! B/c about 3 months ago, he nosed into my yahoo messenger archives and seen where i had been chatting with my guy friends. big deal! it's just as friends. but he acts like i can't talk to anyone. and i told him well you ran up 150.00 on the cell phone and all he would say is yep all smug sounding. i wanted to punch him right through the phone. but he swears he didn't talk to anyone...he just listened to the little personal introductory messages and that he would never cheat on me. i don't see why he would have to call 30 different numbers to get back at me but whatever. i feel that it's childish and juvenile of him to do that and i also don't really believe that reason. but he is my husband and i love him and i want to trust him. so i told him to never do it again. we'll see how it goes.
Thanks for the update. . . sm
I'm sorry he is being so childish. It still sounds hard to believe. If my husband caught me chatting with male friends, he would probably get angry and have the internet turned off. I don't think it would ever occur to him to call a sex chat line (especially a male sex chatline!) to get back at me. Hopefully, this is the end of his childish behavior and you can move on. Good luck!
just an update.....sm
I posted back in December about finding out my husband was having an emotional affair.

I just wanted to post again and let you all know that we are in counseling and it is really helping us. We are communicating better than we have in years. My husband is realizing just how much he hurt me by his actions and I believe he is truly remorseful. We still have a long way to go. I still am having trust issues but he is doing pretty good at keeping in touch and letting me know where he is and what he is doing.

Thanks again for all the advice and e-mails.

Have a great weekend.
Here is an update
It seems like it is looking more and more like he was playing the "strangulation game" and died accidentally.

This happened on a Thursday night and he had made plans to go out with friends on Friday night just a short time earlier.

There was no note, nothing on his myspace page, or any other reason to suspect it was suicide.

Either way it is a terrible tragedy.

Can anyone explain to me how a person can "play the strangulation game" (the way it is worded really creeps me out) by themseleves. I asked my 17yr old and my 15yr old and neither could tell me. I hope that is good thing.
UPDATE
he does have the flu. that swab put tears in his eyes. Thanks for the advice.
thanks for the update sm
I do not watch Oprah since I am usually working when her show goes on.  I felt bad for the family that was promised the money. I am sure the guy (cannot remember his name) felt bad also.   I am glad it all turned out great at the end. 
Update on son

Once again I thank all of you for your responses.  We (DH and I, with son) went to the therapist today.  We did not tell our son about the appointment.  We just checked him out of school. I really thought there would be a lot of drama but he went very willingly.  My biggest fear after reading the post on his myspace was suicide.  I myself have a history of deep depression and at 18 tried to commit suicide.  Anyway, I liked the therapist immediately. 


After a bit of discussion with my son he asked me why I thought he needed to be here.  I told him about what I read on myspace but since making the appointment I found out a few other things.  I talked with each of his 3 closest friends separatley and they all told me very similar things.  My son is 5Ǝ and weighs about 125lbs.  In my opinion this kid is an incredibly healthy eater for the most part, but take him to a Chinese buffet and he eats 2 to 4 plates full.  Same thing with lasagna, he can't get enough.  He has never said a word to us when we are together as a family about eating too much, but when he is with his friends eating out, which is at least once a week or more, he always talks about how fat he is and even sometimes says oh I ate so much I have to go throw up now.  They also talked about his moodiness but just sort of thought, we all go through those days, which I agree.


When I told this to the therapist in front of my son he kept saying it was a joke.  Well, 2 of his friends are very overweight.  I asked him how he could joke about this in front of them.  He just kept saying, just like about the myspace post, it is just a joke.  Obviously there is more going on here. 


He then talked with the therapist alone for about 30 minutes.  We took him to lunch afterwards and I asked him if there was anything he wanted to talk about and he shrugged his shoulders and acted like what in particular should we talk about, so I let it drop.  We took him back to school and he did tell me he loved me before he got out of the car (I said it first and it is something we say in our family all the time).  After school he seemed fine but only had a few minutes because he had to get to tennis. 


I think possibly I over reacted to the threat of suicide, but I am now afraid of an eating disorder.  His bedroom and bathroom are in the basement so if he is thowing up I am definitely not aware of it. 


Yes I will definitely be more aware of his actions after we eat together and it really sucks that I have no idea what he and the therapist talked about, but I do feel better for having followed through with the appointment.  We go back in about 10 days so I feel the doc does not think he is about to harm himself.  As a matter of fact he told my son in front of us that everything they discussed he could not tell me unless he thought there was a possibility of him harming himself. 


Gosh guys, this is soooo long again.  If I didn't have you I don't know who I would talk to.  Thanks!


Update sm

I just talked to my daughter's teacher.  She is really nice.  I told her about the situation and that I was concerned, especially since the mom hung up on me.  She told me she kept an eye on them in class and at lunch the girls sat together, and there were no problems as far as she could see.


She felt I did the right thing by attempting to talk to the mother and also contacting her to let her know what was going on.  She seemed to think that the "friend" has a problem sharing my daughter with the other girls and that she is a one friend type of girl. 


The teacher said she won't contact the "friend's" mom at this time because it could escalate things and I agreed with that. 


The "friend" may be going to another school next year (they're currently in private school).  She also said she was going to make a note that they not be in the same class next year in case she comes back next year.


I'm definitely happy about that!


Update

Some of you may recall a few weeks ago when I posted about getting into a verbal altercation with the mother of a child on the opposing team.  I just wanted to give those of you who commented an update.  We played that team again yesterday and the mother was there standing where I normally stand.  I chose this time to stand on the opposite side of the field, even though my view was a little obstructed.  I said nothing to her the entire game and didn't even look her way when I passed her on my way to the concession stand.  I took your advice and kept my mouth shut.  We lost the game, but that's okay because I had the chance firsthand to see the embarrassment a child suffers when parents get out of control


Earlier this week, it was team picture night.  The mother of the child on the opposing team was there, as was her husband who is one of the assistant coaches for their team.  He made a nasty comment about the manager of his own team (using 4-letter words in front of the team) because the manager didn't realize he would be in the team pictures (he just thought they were individual) and the manager of his team "fired" him from his assistant coaching position.  So instead of just his mom standing in my usual spot, his dad was there, too.  I can only imagine the embarrassment their child must have felt because his dad was not on the field. 


I know now that my actions could have caused me to be suspended from even watching a game or 2.  I wouldn't want to hurt my kids like that.  So thanks to all for your good advice.  I have spent the last several weeks videotaping my kids rather than worrying about who's winning and who's losing. 


UPDATE ON MY CAR sm

i took my car to my mechanic today and he said it's a bad sensor on one of my tires and that sensor is also making my abs light come.  it's going to cost $300 to get that fixed.  it's something that is not dangerous, but it is annoying.  just thought i'd pass this along in case any of ya's come across this problem.


 


UPDATE.....sm

After discussing the subject with my husband and coming up with the right words to say, I have spoken with my MIL and there will be NO MORE 4-wheeler rides.  What a relief!  And talking to her about it wasn't as bad as I thought it would be.  I just hope she sticks to it.  I told her I would bring the stroller along from now on, and she can my daughter around the yard in that instead.  I feel much better for now, but I'm sure there will be more battles like this in the future.  I will just have to remind her that I am the mother, and when it comes to my daughter, it's my way or no way.  :)


update

Well, 4 hours was probably too harsh to expect an 8-year-old to sit on a chair.  He sat for about 1/2 hour.  Then I went out and talked to him.  My husband is not physical in any way.  He has never laid a finger on me and he rarely even argues back with me.  If anything, I'm the one with the temper.  However, I don't walk around smacking my kids or anything like that.  I've always tried to remain calm when correcting my kids, but lately, this kid really pushes my buttons.  We have spanked our kids when younger, nothing more than a tap or 2 on the bottom.  It probably hurt their pride more anything.  However, we've come to the realization that spankings just don't work, especially as they get older.  My other 2 kids don't have this problem with controlling their tempers.


I seriously think he just is impulsive.  He's always been that way.  I basically told him that we all have to be in control of our own bodies and that sometimes it's hard to control, but we have to learn how.  I also told him that I know that he knows how because he does it in school.  He's never been in any real trouble at school.  I also told him that I loved him but that his behavior upsets the whole house.  He has to learn to get in control of it and to get used to people telling him what to do.  He resists authority; he likes to think he's in charge.  In the end, I left him off the chair after about 40 minutes total and gave him a hug.  I told him I loved him and asked him to apologize to his brother, which he did.  He's been fine ever since and that was 2 hours ago.  I know it's never over, but at least this one is.


Thanks for the support. 


thanks for the update
I have been thinking of you and of course wish you the best.
Update...
Just got an e-mail response back from the lawyer regarding why the CDs and/or life insurance policies had not been changed and I quote: "When I met with your grandfather, we changed his will and I explained to him that the will would only deal with assets that passed through the probate court. That assets such as CDs and life insurance policies that had direct beneficiaries would pass to whomever was listed. Apparently he did not change the payable on death CD beneficiaries or the beneficiaries on his life insurance polices. Those decisions were left up to him." So sounds to me like someone dropped the ball (i.e., aunt as she was taking care of my grandfather's finances) and he was having trouble with his memory in the last few years.

Update ---
I finally got disconnected after 48 minutes of nothing. I finally just decided I was going to keep her on the line forever if I had to just to aggravate her. At one point, when she was telling me that noone was available other than her, I even asked her to put a janitor on. Her response? I am so sorry, but if the janitor were to talk he would tell you there is nothing to be done... I promise she said that to me. At that point, I asked her where she was and she told me the Phillipines.

I immediately called back upon being disconnected and got an American on the line this time (can you believe it) and guess what? Her supervisor was on the line with me in 5 minutes, called my bank, got the information she needed to provide so that they could release the holds and called back with a confirmation number shortly after that.

Now where is the problem with that? I fully intend to change my phone service before my next billing cycle. When are these companies going to learn?
Update....
My Mom found out today that she has a blood clot causing her enlarged spleen. She is on Coumadin now to see if that helps, and if not then Heparin shots. I guess this runs in her family as my uncle has masses of them and a filter only in his 40s. I'm a little worried because I'm on birth control pills, maybe I should go back to Depo-Provera but I'm not sure if that also causes them. I didn't like Depo because it does cause bone loss :S I know blood clots can be serious, but I am actually relieved that it wasn't cancer.
Thanks for the update!
Praise the Lord! I've been praying for them all weekend!

UPDATE!! He is getting braver!
He/she wasn't there last night so I thought, "Darn, he left again!" but tonight, after we walked around the park once, there he was "hiding" behind a branch on the ground on OUR side of the fence. :) He saw us and was staring intently and so I said, "Hi Kitty! Food!!" and he mewed really loudly at me but then headed under the fence, BUT he did stay close enough to stick his head under and mew at me until I got there. He backs away if I try to get too close but he was actually comfortable enough tonight to sit about 8 inches away from me to eat and mew occasionally at me. We let him eat without hovering over him while we walked around some more and then came back after he was done and he actually would come to me from his spot way back in the bushes and get just close enough to me that he was out of reach but I could still see him really well. I figured if I tried to make a grab for him it would just scare him to death and reverse everything I've tried to do. He even watched a stick I would drag around in front of him without running away and act like he might remember how to play a bit but still a bit too timid for it. Progress seems to be being made though! :) Thanks for all the advice so far!
Venting update sm

Thanks for all the support and input.


I'm happy to say my husband is no longer upset about us switching cars.  In fact, he told me I can drive his car as long as I want.  I don't think he realized how unsafe it was for me to drive the Explorer. 


He's really a good husband/father, but we just had a problem with this car issue. 


Thanks again!  I love this board!


Nothing to update really, still no coat - sm
Called several parents, they don't have it, one has not called me back yet and I still need to track down 3 other parents that did not leave their home phone info with the teacher. Teacher did not have it either. I plan on leaving my signs up for at least a month and hope it turns up somehow. Many know I am on the lookout so I hope they spread the word or see it somewhere.
Update to my post below

First of all, thanks to you who took the time to respond.  I think the verification of my thoughts makes me feel better knowing that others would handle it the way I thought it should be handled.


 


Yesterday, my sister and I exchanged e-mails and I finally had to block her e-mail address as I couldn’t take anymore (and my work was really suffering).  Next thing I know she shows up at my door and wouldn’t leave.  I tried not answering and hid in my daughter’s room hoping she would leave.  I gave up after five or more minutes and answered the door.  Let me start off saying that this is not a normal occurrence in my family and anything like this has never happened before (except when we were kids).  We were standing at my front door having a screaming match when she reached over pulled my hair and pushed me.  I couldn’t believe it.  I put my hands up to protect myself and said “I’m calling the cops” and I did.  She left at that point.  During my 911 conversation, I realized with the business my sister is in if she has any record at all she will lose her business and I tried changing my mind and hanging up, but they wouldn’t let me.  When the officers arrived, they described it was a domestic violence call because we are family and they have to figure out what happened.  I explained to them everything and that my first instinct was to call 911, but I shouldn’t have but it was my first instinct.  She didn’t hurt me at all.  Unfortunately, there was nothing they could do.  But because I didn’t have any marks they wouldn’t arrest her, but it would be up to the prosecutor’s office.  Of course, I know how wrong it was and because of that it was the right thing to call 911.  I love her kid and don’t want him to suffer because of what a potential police record could do to her business.


 


I’m devastated.  You only have one family in life and mine is pretty much gone now.  My sister (and BIL) have always been the type of person who screws everyone around her.  I tried so hard to tell my husband how they are, but up until this point he didn’t understand what I meant.  She thinks I’m wrong and it is 100% our fault.  I do take blame for my husband’s actions in this whole affair and believe me he knows how upset I am because he didn’t listen to me about them.  It’s said and done, but a life lesson for all.  Think twice about storing something at someone else’s house (even family).  This was only supposed to be very temporary until my husband could finish cleaning out our garage so the quads could go in there.


 


I’m so glad today is a new today.


Update since the last posting...sm
We saw the doctor yesterday and he wasn't concerned about the ultrasound results. The beta HCG drawn on Monday came back as being strong and consistent with a 6-8 week pregnancy. We'll know the results of today's tests tomorrow but it looks like we're ok. Whew!
Clarification and update

I looked again at some of the stuff.  It is all recent as the computer website history only goes back 5 days.  Some of it is male on male, transvestite, S&M also, kinky sex forums.  Now I am really worried. 


As far as looking at his private computer.....he's been acting suspiciously for about the past year.  I felt that if he was behaving suspiciously in a way that could compromise my well-being it was worth checking out.  I would give the same advice to anyone.  If I found nothing I could have put my mind at rest, and if I did find something it would confirm what I already knew in my heart perhaps.


Everyone - thanks for the advice so far.


Thanks for the update! Prayers were sent up for you! nm

:)


Well update on your post
The previous writer now says possible cheating (if you feel it, is probably happening) and physical abuse. I guess she should try to stick it out though, huh- for the sake of the children? Yeh, right.
UPDATE. Mom is at the church
I guess she heard me. LOL.

Get ready for the next battle over the baby. I would love to raise that baby myself. She is adorable.
Update. I called the CPS

It is so hard to do that to your own family but the way she treated those kids is disgraceful.  The lady that took the call said that they probably won't remove the kids from the home but they will check out the situtation and give the parents an alternative route to childcare and not to use the grandmother. 


Pet Food Update

Just saw this on my internet start page and would like to share: 


By ANDREW BRIDGES - Associated Press Writer


WASHINGTON(AP) Recalled pet foods contained a chemical used to make plastics, but government tests failed to confirm the presence of rat poison, federal officials said Friday.


The Food and Drug Administration said it found melamine in samples of the Menu Foods pet food, as well as in wheat gluten used as an ingredient. Cornell University scientists also have found the chemical, also used as a fertilizer, in the urine of sick cats, as well as in the kidney of one cat that died after eating the company's wet food.


Menu Foods recalled 60 million containers of cat and dog food earlier this month after animals died of kidney failure after eating the Canadian company's products. It is not clear how many pets may have been poisoned by the apparently contaminated food, although anecdotal reports suggest hundreds if not thousands have died. The FDA alone has received more than 8,000 complaints.


The new finding comes a week after scientists at the New York State Food Laboratory identified a rat poison and cancer drug called aminopterin as the likely culprit. The FDA said it could not confirm that finding.


New York officials have detected melamine as well, though it's not clear how that chemical would have poisoned pets. It's typically used to produce plastic kitchen wares, though it's apparently used as a fertilizer in Asia, said Stephen F. Sundlof, director of the FDA's Center for Veterinary Medicine.


The recall involved nearly 100 brands of "cuts and gravy" style dog and cat food made by Menu Foods. The recall covered products carrying names of major brand-name and private-label products sold throughout North America.


The apparently melamine-contaminated wheat gluten also was shipped to an unnamed company that manufactures dry pet food. The FDA is attempting to determine if that product, imported from China, was used to make any pet food, Sundlof said.


update on my puppy

Thanks to all of you, who are concerned. Took her to vets, they gave her a treatment for Coccydia (spelling?) some kind of bacteria in intestinal tract. They squirted something in her mouth that looked like tooth paste. So hopefully this helps.  I'm taking her back in a week for a recheck. I'm keeping my fingers crossed. She is 4 months old, so she had her vaccinations for parvo already.


And thanks to everyone for posting the recalled pet food links. I did check out the food that I feed my animals when this first happened and I've been keeping up to date on this. So far none of the foods I feed are on the list. But I'm still a little leery about pet foods. I'm looking into cooking for the dogs. Got a doggie cookbook. Thanks everyone for being so caring!


The View Update
Well, they were both on today and they're still together. She's moving to Hawaii and they are still engaged, but they basically said they had to fall in love all over again away from the cameras so there's no wedding date.
Update on daughter sm
The problem is there is not a constant rash so when she saw the doctor about 2 hours ago she couldn't find anything. Actucally the only time you see anything is right after she has scratched and then when she stops scratching it disappears. Doctor gave her a stronger antihistamine, stopped her minocycline, and we are keeping a diet diary. The doctor said I could try the Selsum Blue shampoo as someone on here suggested so we picked some of that up. It really seems less today so maybe it could have been stress as someone else suggested. Hopefully time will tell. Thanks guys for all your help.
Another KSMT, thank you for the update.

Not a day goes by lately I don't think of what you're going through. 


My old man, Arf, is 15 this year and in the last few months he's dropped all of his weight.  Nothing but skin and bones.  I'd take him to the vet but I know what the diagnosis at this age would be, so we're just riding it out.  Getting him to eat has been a challenge, just like with all seniors.  He really loves this stuff by Whiskas that comes in small pouches...select fish or something like that.  It's gelatinous with little chunks of fish and he inhales it, which makes me very happy.  He still actively hunts, sitting right under the bird feeders and I occasionally see him FLYING up in the air or running full speed ahead into the field after a chippy...and I know his teeth are good because a few times a week he leaves me a present of a decapitated chipmunk. 


I always make sure he's in at night though...even if I have to go looking for him for hours on end, usually to find him sound asleep in the hay safe and sound.   Yep, we do love our children and man, it sucks when life takes it course.


 


Some of you asked for an update (sm)
Well, I have thought and prayed a lot about everything and my situation and I decided that the heck if I am going to take the blame for everything around here.  Someone mentioned Dr. Phil in one of their posts as having said that when you have turned over every possible stone and you cannot fix it, you know you are ready for divorce.  I thought of one more stone I could turn over and I told my husband that this was a "last ditch effort" to give him a chance to keep our marriage together.  I told him that everything in our house is not my responsibility and I told him the things that he needs to be doing and made it clear that contrary to his beliefs, I was the one who HAD been pulling my share of the load  around here and he has not.  I told him a list of things that we need to do around our house to make it more comfortable and happy to live in and what his part of that should be.  I told him he has to limit how much he is gone and actually stay home on the weekends more and get things done around our house. He also agreed to have someone come in once a week to clean, for which we will share the expense, but I told him that doesn't let him off the hook, that he still has to work too.  I told him that this was no guarantee that our marriage would stay together, we still might get a divorce, but at least for the time that we live here, our home will be in better condition, and will probably appraise higher as well.  He got all excited and thanked me for giving him a chance.  So we will see what happens.  I am aware that it may go right back to the old way, but I will at least be able to say I turned over every stone I possibly could and if I leave it will be with no regrets.
Sheltie update
I am so sorry I didn't post this sooner.  Been swamped at work and haven't looked at the board in awhile.  Well the neighbors have not come home yet (I used a word to describe them but the filter would not allow me to use that word in this post :-o)  The dog is supplied with food and water and a place to sleep (a bed in an open  large cage on the back porch area so she can get in and out anytime she wants).  Anyway...the other night the dog was barking (howling and howling).  I was crying for it.  Hubby went over to pet it and play with it (he usually does around 11 or so when everyone is asleep and no lights are on (except a dim streetlight down the road), so the other night it was crying and he went outside and a police guy pulled up.  Evidently they received a few calls from the neighbors about the dog.  So hubby explained the situation to him.  He said he was going to put the dog in the garage to calm it down a bit and the next day was going to call animal control to come and pick her up.  HOORAY!  That was night before last.  Today hubby went out and dog is there, so don't know what's going on.  We re not confrontrational and just moved to the area.  We do not even know what the neighbors look like.  They have two pickup trucks with a bunch of redneck stickers all over it, so we aren't saying anything to them.  Still hoping animal control will come and get the dog.