A lot to consider
Posted By: Maria on 2008-03-25
In Reply to: Re:re: men - MT4ME
I believe in keeping one's marriage vows, but NOT if it is at the expense of you mental well being - - -he is in his own messed up little world of wanting to remain a perpetual adolescent as well as, because of he is 500+ lbs. expecting others around him to enable him by picking up the slack for his responsibilities. Setting boundaries does not work with him - he just turns the tables on me and plays mind games. I can see his many repeated attempts at wanted to drag me down with him and it has caused my work to suffer, isolated me from friends and family etc. I have known for quite some time that I was going to have to make steps to get myself out of this situation, but have been putting it off, and putting it off.
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