There Ya Go!
Posted By: I Can't Go For That on 2008-03-24
In Reply to: Losing 500 lbs - Maria
That's what I really hoped to hear. Naturally, I feel badly for your situation, but you must remember that you chose him, and you are the only one who can "unchoose" him. It may not happen overnight, but keep your aim in the positive direction.
I thought I married a wonderful man as well, but realized afterwards that he has a porn addiction. Long story, but there was no way I knew it beforehand. If he could've at least admitted his problem I would've been more sympathetic, but since he didn't (and won't, ever), I have no pity for one who won't help himself. So he'll just have to live with the bad choices he made. Incidentally, it was very difficult for me as well. But fast-foward through the "crappy stuff," and all I can do is thank heavens I didn't stay in that mess. This one was sneaky, too. On all other fronts he really had it going on. In the end, I've learned that no man is worth my time if he doesn't treat me like a princess.
I hope you'll keep coming back here for positive reinforcement. You deserve the same, "princess!"
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