exactly! thanks.

• poll: Would you forgive your husband if he cheated? - MT58
  • Depends... - D
  • cheating/infidelity - JPF
  • Absolutely not. It's the one thing that is unforgiveable. - sm
  • No I would not. That is the 1 thing I can not forgive. - ExpMT24
  • Forgive--SM - none
    • do you mind if I ask is he still with the other person? - MT58
      • I don't mind your asking--sm - none
    • That's a very mature way of looking at it, I think. - sm
      • exactly! thanks. - none
  • yes, married 25 yr now - sm
  • I did. It happened 25 years ago and - Wannie
  • They always seem remorseful. - Sue
    • The once a cheater-thing just is not - true...sm
      • That's why I asked if it was a one-time thing or a pattern - Sue
  • I guess it depends on if it was a long-term affair or a one-nighter sm - allit
  • No, I tend to hold grudges though I have become - nm - XXX
  • Go to counseling and get guidance and structure. - nance
    • Please do not simply give up, kids or no kids! - rainbow
  • Been there.. - as a young wife
  • It would be the end of it for me. Not something I would want as an example for the kids, either. - No
    • kids have no business even knowing about this!! - klp
  • Yes, if he was rich and good-looking. - MoneyTalks
  • Absolutely not. nm - me
  • shoe on other foot - Patti
    • I agree w/you Patti... - sm
    • Where are those pictures or you house and area? - I, for one, still want to see
      • I want to see them too....nm - casey
    • I think I could forgive..but not forget. - OP4me
  • Married almost 20 years - FT MT
  • Absolutely NOT! nm - Married for 18 years
  • No...if it looks like a - Carly d
  • Probably would depend on a lot of variables. - Not sure...

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