Here, Here

Posted By: marilyn on 2007-12-18
In Reply to: I never met - Siren

I could have written your post. As far as OP goes, my DH used to be "best friends" with at least 2 women. Took some time, but he finally realized he needed to be "best friends" with men. Made me nuts years ago. They all swear there was no sex involved (I was/am friends with one of them). I still don't know for sure, but have to believe them. Of course, he is much older now, so not quite the problem it could be. I NEVER leave them alone together, ever!!!

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What would y'all do??.....sm - Help me please...
- update....sm - Help me please...
  - counselor - txcatgirl
  - Yikes. - MslaMT
  - Please wait - DW
    - I never met - Siren
      - Here, Here - marilyn
- Don't jump... - sm
- Get help. You can't get through this on - your own.
- Definitely try counselling; then at least you know - sm -
- like a cow, he does what the guy in front of him does; sees it in the media, thinks it's real - he needs to be snapped into reality; NM
- My thoughts - see inside - anon
- how did you find out? did he volunteer this info? - n/m
  - I see your answer in post below me; so he did not tell you, and he would not have; he got caught - that should tell you something -n/m
- thank you all for the advice and caring.....sm - Help me please...
  - I know where you are at and I have been there, too sm - BTDT
  - Wishing you strength..sm - Kathleen
- My advice is... - OldiebutgoodieMT
  - Call Me Princess - just an MT
- Definitely go to counseling! - anon
- talk a lot, - sm
- Just want to tell you I'm sorry - annabanana
  - What is there to think about? Marriage... - he's a jerk
    - Marriage is a vow. - annabanana
      - marriage is also an institution.....no msg - never did like to be institutionalized..LOL
      - Marriage may be a vow, but if OPs spouse was unfaithful then she has - every right to divorce him. nm
        Of course she does. She has a right - annabanana
- I definitely wouldn't stick around! Once a cheater, always a cheater. - ERMT
  - Can, but might not. I know from personal experience. nm - Wannie
    - how do you know? - - n/m
      - Because my husband did it once many years ago and has - Wannie
    - Yeah...might not if you use blunt scissors to "take care of business" LOL - AnonMT123
      - I should add this.. - AnonMT123
- If he won't agree to counseling, then I say get rid of him, - too. No sex YET?!!! Hmmm...nm
- Leave the lying, cheatin dirtbag. - Who needs em!
  - My personal thoughts - Siren

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