I don't think it's possible to 'love' someone - sm

Posted By: San Francisco on 2007-10-24
In Reply to: Need advice/please don't judge me - sadgirl

in the real sense of the word whom you've never met and spent LOTS of time with in person. You might have a crush, or mild infatuation or fantasies about him, but I don't think it's love. If he has a wife that he admits is a 'good woman', he is telling you in a kind and subtle manner that he's NOT available. I'd say it's time to move on.

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Need advice/please don't judge me - sadgirl
- Sad - Lilly
- LIVE YOUR LIFE - girlheart
- Here's a compassionate but honest answer - Scribbles
- Been there too - Lee
- My 2 cents (sm) - Been on both sides
- I think you need to get out of the house and meet people in real life. - MslaMT
- How can you be so infatuated with someone you have never even met????? - ER MT
  - Sm - ER MT
- If he were to leave his wife for you, then at some time in the - future he'd probably leave you for yet another.
- You think you hurt now but you have no idea how bad it can get - sm
- I'm not going to judge you. I've been there in the sense that sm - Dear Abby
- Oprah just had a special on the other woman.... - ILMT
- You state below that you done know if you can make it - sm -
- Before I even read the other posts - DW
- You are fooling yourself - He will not leave his wife
- I don't think it's possible to 'love' someone - sm - San Francisco
- Not one reply as of 5 pm has made(sm) - AnnieM!AnnieM!
- I don't usually reply to things like this, but I have to - say that don't you think if he's cheating on
  - You won't like my blunt advice... - kitkat
- Fantasy World - AnnieM!AnnieM!
- It's not healthy to base your happiness on another person - Why do women do this??
- IMO, he has served his purpose according to your own statement . - No judging you at all.
- No, it sounds more like infatuation with - the thought of this guy.........sm
- I think you need to realize - tatteredheart
- Please get over this guy and move on. You need to end - it.
  - thank you all for your advice - sadgirl
    - He never was yours to let go in the first place. Make the - mentally healthy decision to cut it off and do it.
    - I feel so much for you right now. In some ways SM - Upsets me just to hear it
- I made a terrible mistake with a man I thought I loved SM - Upsets me just to hear it
  - That wife you wrote about sounds like me! LOL! SM - GH
    - Thanks so much for that. I was sitting here feeling SM - Upsets me just to hear it
- I admire your honesty about the situation. - annabanana
- my thoughts... - sm
- stop it while you are not completely devastated; if later things change for him... - then you may have a chance - n/m
- from what I have read this is an - not trying to judge

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