No, no...
Posted By: you ladies...sm on 2007-10-09
In Reply to: you did not tell her she turns your stomach, right? - maybe just say you do not approve. NM
SHE doesn't turn my stomach...knowing what she did does. I guess the thing is is that she and I are very close. She talks to me about this friend or that friend doing *it* (as she would put it) and always gave the impression that she wanted to wait. I don't tell her that I loathe her loser boyfriend. I do say I wish he wouldn't smoke around you or that I wish he had a job...cause I know telling her that I don't like him will make her like him more. Her father and I (which is also my husband...) are planning on having a talk with both of them this week. I just hope I can keep my cool and not strangle him...I have made her an appointment to see the doctor this week, which is something she is dreading with a passion, but oh well...we're going to get the works too...blood, Pap, everything. And, I am going to insist he do the same so I can see some test results. I am just praying that he will *go away* somehow. But, I know that if it's not him, it'll eventually be somebody else. I was not prepared for this so early in her life, cause we've talked about sex openly and (I thought) honestly and she never gave me the indication that she was ready. The BCPs were my idea, for her heavy periods, cramps, and unbearable PMS...at least I have that little peace of mind. Thanks to you all for your advice...keep it coming please!
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