What I do

• How do you deal with people who always return gifts or sm - Anon me
  • Next time, YOU select gift. After that, it's up to them what - they do with it. Please don't sweat it.
  • Why do that have to be expensive?? (nm) - JR
    • **they have to be expensive????? (nm) - jr
  • I handled it by quit allowing myself to be taken advantage of -sm - mellee
  • Case closed on gifts - sm - anonme
    • Are you sister of poster with tax-welfare issues? - You have similar posting styles. nm
    • Sorry, but I have never been dictated to as - Lynn
    • Then just keep doing what you are doing and quit - DR
    • You ask for opinions and then you say should know better? - Gifts
    • Someone putting that many demands on a gift is taking advantage of you, and you are letting them. nm - whatever it is
  • Stop with the expensive gifts. - If you feel they don't appreciate it anyway.
  • Gifts given from love. Not for your pleasure of seeing - gift used or thanks you think you deserve. nm
    • And yes, you should be thanked but shouldnt - expect gushing or groveling in expressing thanks.n
      • I didn't read anything in the original post - trose
  • What I do - Gifting
  • Gift Cards or Money...sm - KS
    • You can get Visa, MC gift cards at banks. Then no - lilmit on where they can be used. nm
      • Yes, but--sm - KS
        • Agree can be hidden fees no matter where bought. - That is something to check before buying. nm
  • You cannot put conditions on a gift. If you do, it - becomes a bribe or pay-off, etc, no longer a gift.
  • Who are you buying for, your kids or relatives? If you - RS
    • I agree with the gift card idea! - ERMT
      • No more gifts! - sickofit

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