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What a great topic! I just received an invitation that

Posted By: Kokopoo on 2007-04-08
In Reply to: When an invite says RSVP - sm.

stated "Regrets - and the phone number," so I assumed I did not have to call if I was coming. Thanks to all for putting me in my proper place and I will call tomorrow (because it is Easter today) and just confirm that I am attending. I had never received an invitation like that, so I am so happy I have you all to make sure my manners are in the right place!!!

Thanks and hugs!


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Thanks for the invitation!
Wish I could be there!
I would tell her the invitation is there and - sm
The choice to attend or not is HERS and that you will miss her, but your plans are going forward.  Hope it works out for you. 
Just because you receive an invitation
does not mean you have to go to the event. All you had to do was decline.
This is an invitation to get crushed between cars when
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Sent and received sm
I thought about not sending any but glad I did. I was also going to wait to see who sent to me and immediately write one to them. Then I realized how foolish this was, got out last year's list and sent to everyone, bought the extra stamps and don't care whether I get one in return. No newsletter, hate them! Just feel better that I did it and freed up from it! Merry Christmas!
Received none, but instead of giving one (sm)
which I planned on doing, after seeing something on the news about them, I just decided to give cold, hard cash (no complaints, btw). Anyhow, the news story said that stores profit greatly from them since people lose or forget about them, or buy more than the value of the gift card. So, I decided to just buy 50 one-dollar bills for my son's GF for a better effect LOL.
Not sure about check that he/she received
Did say that it was $1,200 which is what the person would have gotten from the IRS as the stimulus payment, so I'm not sure how it was received earlier than everyone else.
How many of you received gift cards....sm
and if you got them, were they to places you like to shop?  (As for me, I got 4 of them, 1 of which is a Visa debit card that I REALLY love since it can be used anywhere!).
I just read a letter I received from the SM

ASPCA thanking me for my membership and devotion.  The letter describes a gift they will be sending in appreciation.


They indicate a gift from "Miss Bea" will be comiing. They tell the story of this darling little dog who was locked in a closet with atrophied muscles from no exercise, etc. This dog was living with pounds of matter fur and living in urine and feces. 


The letter went on to say that every time they go into the field to rescue an aminal people like me are with them. 


I just needed to share this with you, and to urge you to donate to either the ASPCA or your local animal shelter in behalf of these defneseless animals. The level of cruelty and ignorance is apauling.


I am reduced to tears with emotion at this story, and the fact that I am so appreciated. Thanks for listening.


 


 


I recently received info
on ViaCord from registering at Babys R Us. I have heard of them before but not participated in such a thing myself. I'm sure they have information online or you could drop by any store and pick up a brochure. I have received it from other places too and this is the only one that I receive.
Best gifts given and/or received in the past? sm

I'd say my best gift I have ever given would have to be my DH's custom made leather wallet with his initials on it about 20 years ago.  He is still using it to this day!!  Cannot for the life of me remember how expensive or inexpensive it was then though but surely has tripled by now anyways, LOL!


Best gift I received wasn't actually Christmas gift.  I would say it was gifts for MT week several years ago. We got a package from our MTSO with a gift to open for each day of the week.  Small stuff but was a very nice gesture and tickled to have a new gift each day!  Oh those were the good times...........


 


I received the vaccination for swine flu in the 70s
as I had two small children to care for and I got SO sick from the vaccine I thought I was going to die. Won't take a vaccination for it again. Would rather take my chances in not getting the flu.
Does anybody know the details of when this will be received for us receiving SS?

Know it will be paid in the same manner, i.e., direct deposit, as you receive normal SS check.  But the timing is what I am asking about.


When deposited.  Know it is to be done before end of May, but just wondering what order or whatever they are paying this $250.00.


I am so sad today, can't even work. I received an email sm

this morning from my son's father (we share custoday with him having physical custody) that my son will not be coming home for the summer. I can't argue with him or take him to court because he is my son's soul provider right now. I can't go into why, when, where, etc. Long story...


My son is still very young. We've waited all year for him to come home for the summer. He lives 1,000 miles away. He has 2 other siblings here.


He is just being spiteful. I spoke with my son a few nights ago and he was so excited about coming here. He wants to live here full time, but his dad won't let him. Now, his dad is keeping him from even coming down for the summer because he's so afraid that my son won't want to go back home.


So, because of one selfish person, we all have to suffer - me, my son, his siblings, his stepdad.  It's the most difficult situation ever to have to be in.  And there isn't anything I can do about it but pray that he change his mind!



If you were in my family, you wouldnt' have received a dime from me. nm
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Go to eBay help and type in item not received
it will then give you an option to file a claim.
I received this from one of my interns...Merry Christmas!
’Twas the night before Christmas
And in MT town
Tired MTs were longing
To lay their keys down.

Their earphones were hung
On their skull caps with care
In hopes that new words
Wouldn’t bring them despair.

Some in their sweatpants
And some in their tights
Had just settled down
For a long evening’s type.

When over their headsets
The sounds were so jumbled
They couldn’t quite make out
The words that were mumbled.

They hit the fast forward
Reverse, stop and slow
Trying to make out
The message below.

They checked in their Dorland’s,
Drug books and spellers,
Some called class buddies
Or even asked their fellers.
If they had an inkling
Of what the tape said

Or why someone was trying
To mess with their head.

When no one could answer
They listened less quick
And suddenly knew
The "doc" was St. Nick.

Now he spoke very plainly
Since they needed to hear
For his message was urgent
As Christmas drew near.

It was quite simple
No long words to spell
Dictated but heartfelt
And clear as a bell.

Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays
Best wishes and cheer
And thanks from Doc Santa
For your hard work all year

 

So cute. Received this email about kids and the sea. sm
Subject: Kids thoughts on the Ocean-cute




 




CHILDREN'S THOUGHTS ON THE SEA


This is a picture of an octopus. It has eight testicles. (Kelly age 6)


 If you are surrounded by sea you are an island. If you don't have sea all round you, you are incontinent. (Wayne age 7)


 Sharks are ugly and mean, and have big teeth, just like Emily Richardson. She's not my friend no more. (Kylie age 6) 


 A dolphin breaths through a butthole on the top of its head. (Billy age 8)


 When ships had sails, they used to use the trade winds to cross the ocean. Sometimes, when the wind didn't blow, the sailors would whistle to make the wind come. My brother said they would have been better off eating beans. (William age 7)


 I'm not going to write about the sea. My baby brother is always screaming and being sick, my Dad keeps shouting at my Mom, and my big sister has just got pregnant, so I can't think what to write. (Amy age 6)


 Some fish are dangerous. Jellyfish can sting. Electric eels can give you a shock. They have to live in caves under the sea where I think they have to plug themselves into chargers. (Christopher age 7)


When you go swimming in the sea, it is very cold, and it makes my willy small. (Kevin age 8)


 


She received a 160K disability payment sm
Something about a back injury that didn't allow her to work (but did allow her to carry 8 babies? Strong back....?) and she also gets some money for a couple of the first 6 kids who are disabled in one way or another (not sure of the details).
Received this today. If you want a good laugh, please read....sm
Why God made moms answers given by elementary school age children
>>>   to the following questions:
>>>
>>>    Why did God make mothers?
>>>    1. She's the only one who knows where the scotch tape is.
>>>    2. Mostly to clean the house.
>>>    3. To help us out of there when we were getting born.
>>>
>>>    How did God make mothers?
>>>    1. He used dirt, just like for the rest of us.
>>>    2. Magic plus super powers and a lot of stirring.
>>>    3. God made my Mom just the same like he made me. He just
>>>   used bigger parts.
>>>
>>>    What ingredients are mothers made of?
>>>    1. God makes mothers out of clouds and angel hair and
>>>   everything nice in the world and one dab of mean.
>>>    2. They had to get their start from men's bones. Then they
>>>   mostly use string, I think.
>>>
>>>    Why did God give you your mother and not some other Mom?
>>>    1. We're related.
>>>    2. God knew she likes me a lot more than other people's
>>>   moms like me.
>>>
>>>    What kind of little girl was your Mom?
>>>    1. My M om has always been my Mom and none of that other stuff.
>>>    2. I don't know because I wasn't there, but my guess would be  pretty
>>>     bossy.
>>>    3. They say she used to be nice.
>>>
>>>    What did Mom need to know about dad before she married him?
>>>    1. His last name.
>>>    2. She had to know his background. Like is he a crook?
>>>        Does he get drunk on beer?
>>>    3. Does he make at least $800 a year? Did he say NO to drugs and YES
>>> to chores?
>>>
>>>    Why did your Mom marry your dad?
>>>    1. My dad makes the best spaghetti in the world. And my Mom eats a
>>> lot.
>>>    2. She got too old to do anything else with him.
>>>    3. My grandma says that Mom didn't have her thinking cap on.
>>>
>>>   Who's the boss at your house?
>>>    1. Mom doesn't want to be boss, but she has to because
>>>   dad's such a goof ball.
>>>    2. Mom. You can tell by room inspection. She sees the stuff
>>>   under the bed.
>>>    3. I guess Mom is, but only because she has a lot more to
>>>   do than dad.
>>>
>>>    What's the difference between moms and dads?
>>>    1. Moms work at work & work at home, & dads just go to work at work.
>>>    2. Moms know how to talk to teachers without scaring them.
>>>    3. Dads are taller & stronger, but moms have all the real
>>>   power 'cause that's who you got to ask if you want to sleep over at
>>>   your friend's. Moms have magic, they make you feel better without
>>>   medicine.
>>>
>>>    What does your Mom do in her spare time?
>>>    1. Mothers don't do spare time.
>>>    2. To hear her tell it, she pays bills all day long.
>>>
>>>    What would it take to make your Mom perfect?
>>>    1. On the inside she's already perfect. Outside, I think some kind of
>>> plastic surgery.
>>>    2. Diet. You know, her hair. I'd diet, maybe blue.
>>>
>>>    If you could change one thing about your Mom, what would it be?
>>>    1. She has this weird thing about me keeping my room clean.  I'd get
>>> rid of that.
>>>    2. I'd make my Mom smarter. Then she would know it was my
>>>   sister who did it and not me.
>>>    3. I would like for her to get rid of those invisible eyes on her
>>> back.

I just received a 1099 today, please see message, i have a question

This company sends my 1099 today and sent it in a BLACK envelope so you can't see the date it was stamped unless you put a flashlight behind the envelope and then you can barely see it.  Obviously this is late and is only for $310.  Do I have to show this to my tax guy?  Or is there someone I can get a hold of (BBB) about this?  This company was a joke.  I only worked three days for them (not going into the details).  Anyway, I think they were being very sneaky by sending it in a black envelope. 


Thanks


Okay, a bit off topic but here goes
So many women talk about the bonding that happens when you breast feed that does not happen if you don't. Now it seem to be okay to let someone else breastfeed your child if for some reason you can't. Where does the bonding come in? Who is the child bonding with? For me I breast fed the first child but did not the second. Who am I closer to? Couldn't tell you!
A little off topic, but
I was out to lunch one day with my DH and on my way home I came upon a crash that had just happened at an intersection...one of the drivers was a young girl (she happened to go to the same HS as my DD). The other driver was a 30-something mother of 2 or 3.  The young girl had run a red light and T-boned the other car.  The mother was instantly killed in the crash, with 2 of her children in the car with her. When the teen girl got out of her car...yep, she was on the phone...! And obviously she was not calling 911! So sad...my DD said this girl went off the wall after this accident.
Received this email and made me laugh out loud! Hope it does you too! sm
On a Septic Tank Truck in Oregon :
>   Yesterday's Meals on Wheels

>

>   ************ **************

>

>   On another Septic Tank Truck:

>   "We're #1 in the #2 business"

>

>   **************************

>

>   At a Proctologist's door:

>   "To expedite your visit please back in."

>

>   **************************

>

>   On a Plumber's truck:

>   "We repair what your husband fixed."

>

>   **************************

>

>   On another Plumber's truck:

>   "Don't sleep with a drip. Call your plumber.."

>

>   ******************************

>

>   At a Tire Shop in Milwaukee:

>   "Invite us to your next blowout."

>

>   **************************

>

>   On a Plastic Surgeon's Office door:

>   "Hello. Can we pick your nose?"

>

>

>   **************************

>

>   At a Towing company:

>   "We don't charge an arm and a leg.

>   We want tows."

>

>   **************************

>

>   On an Electrician's truck:

>   "Let us remove your shorts."

>

>   **************************

>

>   In a Nonsmoking Area:

>   "If we see smoke, we will assume you are on fire and take appropriate

> action."

>

>   *************************

>

>   On a Maternity Room door:

>   "Push. Push. Push."

>

>   **************************

>

>   At an Optometrist's Office :

>     "If you don't see what you're looking for, you've come to the right

> place."

>

>   ***********************************

>

>   On a Taxidermist's window:

>   "We really know our stuff."

>

>

>   *************************************

>

>   On a Fence:

>   "Salesmen welcome! Dog food is expensive!"

>

>   *******************************************

>

>   At a Car Dealership:

>   "The best way to get back on your feet - miss a car payment."

>

>   ***********************************

>

>   Outside a Muffler Shop:

>   "No appointment necessary. We hear you coming."

>

>   **************************

>

>   In a Veterinarian's waiting room:

>   "Be back in 5 minutes. Sit! Stay!"

>

>   **************************

>

>   At the Electric Company :

>   "We would be delighted if you send in your payment.

>   However, if you don't, you will be."

>

>   ******************************************

>

>

>   In the front yard of a Funeral Home :

>   "Drive carefully. We'll wait. "

>

>   ************************************

>

>

>   At a Propane Filling Station ,

>   "Thank heaven for little grills."

>   *******************************

>

>   at a Chicago Radiator Shop:

>    "Best place in town to take a leak ."

>

I need advice. Daughter received a frantic call from a friend, sm

Her friend is at a local sleepaway camp at a local university this week.  My daughter is 18, her friend is 17.  Anyway, the friend called my daughter telling her she had unprotected sex over the weekend (once) with her 17-year-old boyfriend (they claim it was the first time for each).  Anyway, the friend wanted my daughter to pick her up so that she could get a morning after pill.  I looked it up on line and anyone under 17 needs a prescription.  My daughter had come to me, asking me not to tell anyone.  I told her that she should have her friend call her mom.  She said her friend thought her mom would freak out if she found out.  We found a local clinic, but it is only open certain days of the week, and was closed yesterday, so she's going to try again tomorrow.  I've tried to get my daughter to convince her friend to call her mother, that she may freak in the beginning, but parents usually get over it and would want to know. 


My dilemma is that my daughter told me this in confidence, and I want her to continue to be able to come to me with anything, yet I wonder if I should call the girl's mother and tell her that her daughter needs help.  Or, just wait until she goes to the clinic and pray that she isn't pregnant.


Does anyone have some advice?


 


For anyone who has received a stimulus check by mail, have you all gotten a letter about a week
before the check stating when it would be arriving.
Not a funny topic at all.
I agree, i hadn't been reading all the posts (although i did now) and i think that it isn't a funny topic at all. My son is 6 and by this age they have discovered what their private parts are and they get aroused and i just think it's sick. Have you ever heard of Oedipus complexes? It's where the children become attracted to their parent! This can happen and it's not healthy and i just think (VERY PERSONAL OPINION AND NOTHING MORE!) that you're putting your child at the risk of developing some sort of issues. I 100% agree with Breastfeeding, i did for a little over a year. But at some point you have to disattach yourself from your child and let them grow up on their own in some areas and by treating them like a baby does not help them mature and go out on their own any. This was my 2 cents as well and nothing more, i just found it disturbing.
This is very interesting on this topic
http://www.jugglezine.com/CDA/juggle/0,1516,30,00.html
ongoing topic

I live in Florida and this is an ongoing topic on forums of local newspapers.  We have a large Hispanic population here and while many of them speak English, many of them do not.  If you go to Wal-Mart here, all of the signs are in English and Spanish.  Many of the food products are in both languages.  I actually know a couple through a family member who moved here from Cuba, must have been 35 years ago now, when Castro took their farm.  The wife speaks virtually no English.  She worked for Disney in housekeeping or something and retired from there.  Even Disney didn't seem to care if their staff learns English. 


I worked at a bank prior to becoming an MT.  I had about 4 bilingual coworkers and we needed them.  We had numerous customers who came in to cash checks or even had accounts there and didn't speak any English.  I taught myself enough Spanish independently on the Internet and through books to be able to serve their needs.  Now let me ask you, if I can manage that why can't they? 


I don't think it's being racist or having a bad day.  We all have to listen to ESL doctors who are practically incomprehensible.  I wonder sometimes how in the world they passed the equivalency exams.  I also know as doctors they can certainly afford a few diction classes but they don't bother.  Meanwhile, we can't understand them, I don't know how their colleagues understand them, nurses probably have a hard time understanding them and many of these doctors are administering to elderly patients who don't hear as well.  God only knows how they understand them. 


English is the accepted universal language in the business world which is why people in other countries learn English.  If you are going to do business in a predominantly English-speaking country then learn the language.


Good topic...
I am making my shopping list around coupons, buying more store brand items, cooking at home a lot more, and just generally hanging out at the house on the weekends cause we can't afford to do anything else.  I cringe when I have to go somewhere in my car cause I don't wanna burn my gas. Thank goodness I can work at home, my son rides the bus to school, and my daughter drives but it's only less than a mile away. 
Good topic- sm
In my lifetime I have had a Pembroke Welsh Corgi (best cow dog EVER), purebred ChowChow (real sweetie) two giant mutts (brothers), they were some kind of lab/shepherd mix. Both of them were with us for almost 17 years.

Also had an Irish Setter and this dog was a nut.

When my son was very small and we lived out in the country, he would todder down our long driveway. The dog would follow him and keep a watchful eye.

If the dog thought my son was getting too far from the house, he would gently knock him over and bark at us.

Pretty soon, baby boy would get up and head further down the driveway. After a few feet, the dog would again knock him over and bark at us.

This would go on a few more times until finally the dog would knock him over and just lay on top of my son and start howling like crazy... "COME GET THE KID!"

We had it on video but I don't know what ever happened to it.
That is a topic to just get me going today.
Ex-Idiot#1:

He got remarried to Satan's daughter (actually she is 12 years older, she might be Satan's sister). She beat my children and he allowed it so they deserve eachother.

Ex-Idiot#2:

He used to beat me. He took my son from me at 5 months old to travel the country in an 18-wheeler so that I couldn't find him. I did find him and got him back. Now he remarried. Thing is, the woman grew a brain cell. She booted him with nothing. He deserved what he got for what he has done to so many women over the years. I haven't heard from him in years, which is probably a good thing.

I told Satan's daughter to say hello for me when she visits Idiot#2 at her "brother's house".
Let's get back on topic, please.
This isn't a discussion about statistics.
Ahh a tricky topic...let me tell you the one about.....

Hex nut in the urethra man.  Yeppir, AND he was a repeat offender, having been brought in for numerous urethral extractions..... his hex nut being his best.  


Then there was toothbrush swallowing guy. (really!)  You would think the curve of the toothbrush would prohibit swallowing. This guy was also a repeat offender. Lightbulbs, toothbrushes, razor blades, whatever ya got!


I love these guys. 


 


 


Off topic - mac and cheese
I must be living under a rock, but I was watching the Food Network, and they were talking about restaurants that serve mac and cheese pizza.  I might have to try it, it sounded pretty good, but I can't think of anything more fattening - unless you add bacon to it.
Topic of conversation here lately
I was talking about the wages being offered now for MTers and no raises, pay going down and the like just the other night. I said pretty soon looks like the MTSOs will be charging just to have the people working. I am so very glad that most of my working in years past because like the previous person said, I also did around 60,000 years ago and now more in the 20,000. My husband said this can only happen if MTers allowed it to happen. I am not caught up in this hot mess like I would have been years ago but I understand what it is like to try to raise a family and yet the money might not be there. I don’t know what it will take but the workers here 1 day will have to do something about how this profession is heading
A beautiful silk scarf - received one once from a doc, loved it! Plain and simple goes w/anything.
light enough to ship from a fancy dancy boutique.
On the topic of consumer reviews :)

I generally have had very little luck finding a really comfortable bra.  I am big busted and use underwires (yuck).  Anybody care to share what their favorite brand of bra is as far as comfort for us more well-endowed women? 


coming in late on this topic
I'm the grandma who has custody of grandchild. My custody papers allow 2 visits a months with the parents and more "as agreed to by both parties," but all are supervised and no overnight visits. I will not allow either parent into my home, so we were meeting at a fast food place with an indoor playground.

Because of suspected (and now admitted) drug use, I suspended visits until a clean drug test could be produced. In a few weeks, it will be a year. I talked to my lawyer about this before I suspended visits. I could not withhold visits due to failure to pay CS. I could be held in contempt of court and go to jail. However, since no judge is going to say it's okay for a parent on drugs to visit with the child, that is a different matter. In only 6 months, the parents are behind by $6k...I'll never see any of it.

My attorney told me the only way to withhold visits is if there is a situation that would place the child at risk - child abuse, parental drug abuse, sexual abuse, etc., otherwise you have to follow the court order or go back to court and ask the judge to revise the order with documentation of the reason for the request.

The noncustodial party can always go to court and ask for a revision of vistation as well to get more liberal visits.
OK. This is weird and maybe should be under the Confessions topic.
But I love the Godfather. I mean, I really LOVE that movie and Godfather II. I've watched those two movies a zillion times, director's cut, saga, DVD extras, you name it. (Not so fond of part III.) I'm not sure why I love it so much. Maybe my upbringing? I wasn't raised by mobsters, but I was surely raised in an Italian household. (I don't need the subtitles to know what's being said in Sicilian/Italian.) I like the complex theme, seeing Michael Corleone go from a righteous good guy to a powerful mob boss, twisting the admirable quality of protecting family into the distorted mess that brings him to his ultimate realization of his own guilt.
When I have I have the time, I get out some nice primitivo, some good cheese, lovely chewy bread and roasted peppers and watch those movies.
I wanted more info as well on this topic (sm)

so I Googled "delawing pros and cons" and then also tried "declawing video".  I must say, after looking at both sides and hearing about postop complications, if I were in your shoes I would find an alternative to it, especially if its an older cat.   Apparently the practice has been banned in California.  Very enlightening stuff out there on the net about it. 


This is a hard topic for me - I see both sides (sm)
I have had prayers answered, but I have seen such suffering too and I know those people have cried out for help. You can always ask, but you never know if it is going to be God's will to solve the problem for you or not. I don't see how you can have blind faith that your problem will be solved when not all problems that are prayed about are solved.
hey gourdpainter, i know this is off the topic of your post but
i think gourds and painting them are so cool. My husband has a big garden, and he usually plants some gourds. The only thing I've done with them is let them dry and keep them around for a while. It would be so cool to be able to paint them if I had the time and talent.
Discussion topic today
How on earth did you get custody of your deceased ex's cremated remains? Did you divorce him after he died? LOL
A twist off topic, but that's the opposite of my MIL
She wouldn't return anything, and expects no one else to, EVER. She cuts all the tags off and then claims to have forgotten where she bought things. She has even gone so far as to cut the size tags out of gifts. She once whispered to my husband, "I had to buy her an extra large, so I cut the tag out. I didn't want to embarrass her." That was for a robe she bought me when I was pregnant. Believe me, I knew what size I was! I hate to have her spend money that goes to waste on things that just don't fit, for example. Those could be simple returns, but she won't give gift receipts or even say which store she bought the gift at. I've given up. I appreciate the thought of the gift, but if something doesn't fit, I just donate it to the next clothing drive that passes by. Someone will use it.
Probably because it was a valid discussion topic below.nm
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Relationships - new type of topic
I'm reading through all the posts below (where did you meet your spouse, what was your first meal, etc). I'm wondering how many of you out there would be perfectly happy living by yourself. I absolutely hate those dating commercials (eharmony, etc). Why does society try to make us feel that we have to have that "someone special" in our lives or we are nothing. A lot of times that "someone special" turns out to be "nobody special" but you don't find that out until your married and its too late. HA HA

I have always believed that before planning your life with someone you should first be true to yourself. Get to know yourself. What is is you want out of life. Can you achieve that goal on your own. I always have felt I did not enter with world with a man attached to my side and I won't be leaving this world with one attached to my side either. I'm am me, I'm a whole person. I have interests, thoughts, and beliefs, that are not always the same as my "other halfs". I am married right now, but to tell the truth I would be perfectly happy living on my own also. I've got lots of family and friends to do activities with, so there is not an issue of ever being lonely. You can be alone without being lonely.

Just wonder how many people are so attached to their spouse they feel life would not be worth anything if they were without them and if so why.
it was about her shoes - not a political topic
I would just ignore it. Started off about fashion. You can't control what people are going to write about a certain topic. Sometimes the two can blend together. Since we're not talking bout the O I would just ignore it and write another post about something else.
hydrogen peroxide tips - received via email and thought i'd pass on. see inside.
*   This was written by Becky Ransey of Indiana (a doctor's wife), and I
want to share it with you. She was over recently for coffee and smelled
the
bleach I was using to clean my toilet and counter tops. This is what she
told me.. I would like to tell you of the benefits of that plain little
ole
bottle of 3% peroxide you can get for under $1.00 at any drug store.
What
does bleach cost? My husband has been in the medical field for over 36
years, and most doctors don't tell you about peroxide. Have you ever
smelled
bleach in a doctor's office? NO!!! Why? Because it smells, and it is not
healthy! Ask the nurses who work in the doctor's offices, and ask them
if
they use bleach at home. They are wiser and know better! *
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*Did you also know bleach was invented in the late 40's? It's chlorine,
Folks! And it was used to kill our troops. Peroxide was invented during
WWI
in the 20's. It was used to save and help cleanse the needs of our
troops
and hospitals. Please think about this. *
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*1. Take one capful (the little white cap that comes with the bottle)
and
hold in your mouth for 10 minutes daily, then spit it out. (I do it when
I
bathe.) No more canker sores, and your teeth will be whiter without
expensive pastes. Use it instead of mouthwash. *
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*2. Let your toothbrushes soak in a cup of peroxide to keep them free of
germs. *
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*3. Clean your counters and table tops with peroxide to kill germs and
leave
a fresh smell. Simply put a little on your dishrag when you wipe, or
spray
it on the counters. *
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*4. After rinsing off your wooden cutting board, pour peroxide on it to
kill
salmonella and other bacteria. *
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*5. I had fungus on my feet for years until I sprayed a 50/50 mixture of
peroxide and water on them (especially the toes) every night and let
dry. *
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*6. Soak any infections or cuts in 3% peroxide for five to ten minutes
several times a day. My husband has seen gangrene that would not heal
with
any medicine but was healed by soaking in peroxide. *
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*7. Fill a spray bottle with a 50/50 mixture of peroxide and water and
keep
it in every bathroom to disinfect without harming your septic system
like
bleach or most other disinfectants will. *
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*8. Tilt your head back and spray into nostrils with your 50/50 mixture
whenever you have a cold, plugged sinus. It will bubble and help to kill
the
bacteria. Hold for a few minutes, and then blow your nose into a tissue.
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*9. If you have a terrible toothache and cannot get to a dentist right
away,
put a capful of 3% peroxide into your mouth and hold it for ten minutes
several times a day. The pain will lessen greatly. *
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*10. And of course, if you like a natural look to your hair, spray the
50/50
solution on your wet hair after a shower and comb it through. You will
not
have the peroxide-burnt blonde hair like the hair dye packages but more
natural highlights if your hair is a light brown, faddish, or dirty
blonde.
It also lightens gradually, so it's not a drastic change. *
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*11. Put half a bottle of peroxide in your bath to help rid boils,
fungus,
or other skin infections. *
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*12. You can also add a cup of peroxide instead of bleach to a load of
whites in your laundry to whiten them. If there is blood on clothing,
pour
it directly on the soiled spot. Let it sit for a minute, then rub it and
rinse with cold water. Repeat if necessary. *
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*13. I use peroxide to clean my mirrors. There is no smearing, which is
why
I love it so much for this. *
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*I could go on and on. It is a little brown bottle no home should be
without!  With prices of most necessities rising, I'm glad there's a way
to
save tons of money in such a simple, healthy manner! *
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*This information really woke me up. I hope you gain something from it,
too.
Pass it on!        *

Travel Agent... off original topic
Always looking for a new career away from MT...Since your DH is travel agent, would you recommend it? Can you make a good living at it? How to get started? Have thought of this in the past, but never really knew how to go about it. My DH and I love to travel and he will be retired in a few years, so a career change may do us both good. Thanks for any info.
Dr. Phil DID cover this very topic a few months ago...
and there was a guy who supposedly went to Africa and needed all this money to eat, get out of prison, get home to see this woman he was chatting with and told he loved so much.  She fell for the whole thing until Dr. Phil exposed the whole story on his show and had other women there who had also fallen for this guy and sent him money.  I don't know if you can get a DVD of the show or not, but it might be worth it to try.