| You say she is an enabler?? And just what do you thinkPosted By: you are??? nm on 2007-06-16In Reply to: What would you do about this situation regarding ole friend? - Suri
 
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 You are an enabler
 Sorry, but you are contributing to the situation.  Two young adults should be working to feed any kids they brought into the world.  If they can't afford to feed them, they need to be sterilized or to abstain from the occasions of conception.
 
 There are plenty of programs in this country to feed hungry kids  - if you son and his female friend are too lazy to even make the effort to get free food for their kids, that's their problem, not yours.
 
 You need to butt out and let them take the consequences for their actions.
 At this point, you are as much an enabler as the mom.
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 Good mother and enabler do not belong in same
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