You are an enabler

Posted By: mt65sha on 2007-11-07
In Reply to: I am not your dear. - OP

Sorry, but you are contributing to the situation. Two young adults should be working to feed any kids they brought into the world. If they can't afford to feed them, they need to be sterilized or to abstain from the occasions of conception.

There are plenty of programs in this country to feed hungry kids - if you son and his female friend are too lazy to even make the effort to get free food for their kids, that's their problem, not yours.

You need to butt out and let them take the consequences for their actions.

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She is pregnant again. - Getarzanne
- People can get pregnant on an IUD. I have two relatives who did. - stranger things have happened
- If she has 10y. IUD, how did he get 2 kids with her? - nm
- maybe she collects welfare and does not tell you. - start checking - N/M
- I have a friend who called me to say her 34 year old son dying - In your shoes
  - This is truly sickening. I had an uncle who lived with his mother sm - I know what you mean
- You lost him years ago - help where you can when you wish - sm
- You, my dear, are the reason they are able to not work and - Would not fuss
  - I am not your dear. - OP
    - You are an enabler - mt65sha
      - OP should get custody of kids if things so bad. - Unless she just wants to gripe but not really help
    - hungry - marilyn
      - That's right!! When children are hungry (sm) - Lisa
        So you just continue to give money to grown folks - Hungry folks
      - Marilyn...you are a big-hearted - tinkerbell
    - You are talking about grown-a.. folks - Would not fuss
- Why doesn't your son work? (sm) - NC-MT
- Why aren't they working? - sm
- oh my... - tinkerbell
  - Sounds like a real sucker to me - Reallly?
    - I may be looney, but IMO - tinkerbell
      - Good mother and enabler do not belong in same - sentence. nm
        Everyone has a right to voice their opinion - (sm) - NC-MT
        I DID state my opinion. Where do you see a - debate? Above "good mother" poster.
        You can state yours w/o criticizing someone else's though (nm) - NC-MT
        I did not raise a debate, criticize the OP, or anything - else, I stated my opinion. Period. nm "Good Mom
        Thanks for clearing that up for me. - tinkerbell
        Such a juevenile post. - nm
        If you insult someone of course they are gonig to react defensively (sm) - NC-MT
        Dont know who you are referring to, but I never - insulted OP. Are you OP? nm
        I am the other poster who you insulted - tinkerbell
        I am "juvenile post" poster. "Looney" poster is some - one different. You cant always tell who is who. n
        So I will apologize to both posters - tinkerbell
        You don't owe them an apology (sm) - Bored MT
        Thank you bored MT..... - tinkerbell
        Yes, I think she needs to apologize - Trying to help

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