the problem is . . . SM

Posted By: maam on 2006-12-13
In Reply to: Wow, he is very self-destructive. - Me

Men don't DEAL with their feelings or emotions. I don't have a problem with my husband being hurt or upset, but he cannot yell at the me and the kids for it. He KNOWS that, he just has to learn how to STOP it. It doesn't happen a lot, but he has been taking a lot of junk off his mother lately also, I think he snapped . . in the wrong way. Yea, men can be difficult. And of course, we overanalyze!!!!

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christmas stress . . . - maam
- you'll never believe what happened LAST night . . sm - maam
- The advice below is not dealing with the issue at - Coal
- my take on things - Snow Bunny
  - Great post, snow bunny. I just wanted to add that - Coal
- I'm high-strung myself, but your husband needs SM - Lyrica
- Hubby obviously has issues - clhmt
- Remind him that this is his own children's time now. - Me
  - oh yea, we've been through that one . . SM - maam
    - Wow, he is very self-destructive. - Me
      - the problem is . . . SM - maam
- This is all about forgiveness and letting go - ER MT
  - I beg to differ. Forgiveness, even Biblical terms, can - Coal
- I would tell them not to visit unannounced any longer. - And tell DH if he yells anymore, he can stay with
- Cut 'em off.....!!! - luv2type
- i would say something along teh lines of how you are sorry for the things that has happened to him w - me
  - it cut off the first thing is said. - me
    - sm - maam

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