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Don't know what your illness is, but

Posted By: trose on 2008-03-25
In Reply to: I venting as a patient! No doctor cares if I live or die--could care less in my eyes!!! - discouraged

wish you could see some of the doctors I work for. My brother and his wife are both doctors and they are both increcible caring. My uncle goes to Africa every year (on his on dime) to do cleft lip and palate surgeries. Maybe you just need to vent but I don't think it is fair to generalize all.


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