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I get fight or flight feeling socially whenever I am around incredibly dumb people and I don't wa

Posted By: Help! on 2005-08-02
In Reply to: I've developed a bit of social phobia, now I avoid - people, in therapy though...

Am I sick? I don't want to socialize with idiots. What's wrong with me. I hate small talk. Should I see a doctor?


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    refuse to work for companies like this. I've said it many times before. I have worked at two hospitals as an at-home employee. Many accounts for other hospitals, fill-in stuff, doctors' offices.


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    We do have account specifics. But somehow, some way, the MTSO has always kept our "welfare" first and foremost, except for some niggling problems with turnaround time that *I* don't agree with. They are fairly minor, I just get aggravated over the hospital thinking they own us.


    We are assigned a certain number of minutes a day...whatever we've asked to get. If we do that in 15 minutes, wonderful. We just made a jillion dollars an hour. If it takes us 10 hours, well, we made less.


    We can plan our lives. We make decent money. She absolutely does NOT let anybody pull the above crappola on us. There's somebody else on this board who works for the same person. I imagine she feels pretty much the way I do, but I can't swear to that.


    SAME fight again with DH....

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    to educate the public in general, on a population-wide basis, that their private medical information is being sent halfway around the world.  As with any big business abuses here in the U.S (banks, credit card companies, etc, etc) it happens because the government allows it.  If there are strict privacy laws re. patient medical information, how then does it extend to giving the whole world carte blanche to it, even sell the info to insurance companies and the like??  The PUBLIC has to be made aware of it... the media is best... but I wouldn't be above passing out fliers in doc's waiting rooms or hospital lobbies. A lot of wheels have to squeak first before this one gets any grease!!  
    I'm not starting a fight.
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    He stated he is going to fight that.

    Said he is going to fight against that medical records thing.  Didn't mean offshoring, does not sound like he has any idea about that happening to our medical records.


    if you live among trashy people, low income people, people w/o goals or direction,
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    Fight with the insurance company.

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    I'm fighting a bill for several thousand dollars that has been denied three times now in the past 18 months.  However, I legitimately had dual insurance coverage at the time, so I shouldn't have had to pay anything out of pocket.


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    seeing one of those earlier Star Wars movies, maybe the first one, and some guy next to me had a little about 2-1/2 to 3 with him.  That kids are TERRIFIED, keping asking "what's that Daddy, why's he doing that Daddy, DADDY DADDY!"


    Have people lost their brains?  Kids can't process all this stuff.  Let them watch Thomas the Train or Little Bear and let them be kids.


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    You will lose this fight. No company is listening

    to whiney MTs in their quest for the bottom line profits.  There are too many other people who will happy to work for less just for the opportunity to work at home and then again there are those offshore who will work for even less for the opportunity to simply work, any where, any time, any place.


    And as far as battles go, who you going after and how do you prove you were wronged. 


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    How can you post so ignorantly? You just want to fight, don't you? If you could read, and maybe
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    Another thing that's hard to fight these days...
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    i don't deal with anyone without references when it comes to work. i learned my lesson and have moved on. i leave you to fight the battles of the downtrodden.
    which makes it nicer. either way, not a fight site anymore. sm
    as it should be. Should have been all along.