Thank you! sm

Thank you for your post.  I am actually surprised at some of the responses I got.... I didn't mean to stir up a can of worms... in case anyone is curious... I am 33 and I am not the problem.... my DH has an issue that requires us to use IVF as the only chance at a child... I have 2 children (11 and 13) whom I love dearly, and I am a great mother... he has no children, and I think he deserves to have one biological child... he is an honest, hard-working, tax-paying citizen... unfortunately, his insurance doesn't cover IVF, and he has an excellent job... there is no way I would make him switch.. it is easier for me to do what I have to get covered... and if I can't.. we will still find a way... but I really think that infertility should be covered more.... because like you said... there are a lot of people out there having babies that they don't want and don't take care of... people who would love the chance to be parents should be able to...

I would be willing to take an insurance that covers ANY part of it... any little bit would help...

thanks again :)

• Do any companies offer insurance that covers IVF? sm - WI-QA-QA
  • insurance paid for 90% - Transolutions
    • thanks so much! - WI-QA-QA
  • I have a friend who had that twice. sm - mlstoo
  • This was 7 years ago, but - Been there
    • Thank you! sm - WI-QA-QA
      • I wouldn't even explain - Been there
  • You probably already have this info - Hope this link helps
  • I can't imagine anyone paying for that, it's elective. sm - Confetti
    • To state that an infertility procedure is "completely unnecessary" is 110% OPINION... sm - InfertileMT
      • Why don't we care for the ones already here? - Glory1863
        • How many foster children are living with you? - Been there, done that have you?
          • adoption - country MT
            • Someone stole my name!!! Hehe - Country MT
            • Adopting--being there twice - Terri
      • YES, I WOULD tell them that, and here's why. sm - Confetti
        • The above post is the most inconsiderate, cold-hearted, not to mention ignorant piece of work I' - Been there, done that have you?
    • If state insurance laws mandate it - Glory1863
    • Well, if you were going through infertility - KS MT
      • Medical insurance isn't about feelings. It's business. nm - good grief
    • People are scared to ask questions - McFingers
    • my insurance does - mg
      • More information please.. :) sm - WI-QA-QA
      • So what company do you work for? - That was the question so she can switch jobs NM
    • Insurance companies pay out 10s of thousands - of dollars daily on surgeries sm
      • That is so NOT the purpose of medical insurance. nm - for real
      • I would like to have Lasik so I could actually see, but that is still sm - LTMT
        • Eyesight isn't option, LASIK is. You can wear corrective lenses and see. nm - wrench
          • If vision is an option, can you answer this? sm - Post LASIK
          • No everyone can see with glasses and/or contacts - I speak from experience
            • I am about at that point too. Seems like after I hit 40 and went sm - LTMT
              • One of the best things I ever did was to have the - I speak from experience
      • I am a mother and I want my - I want!
        • Ugh, I have typed face lifts before. sm - mlstoo
          • I would bet my bottom dollar you are - Really?
            • Not hardly, I'm 53. - mlstoo
              • Guess you won, sending bottom dollar - Really?
        • No. Face lifts are purely cosmetic. Go see your shrink - for your mental well being. nm
        • Wow! People never cease to amaze here. - Unbelievable!
          • Both are 100% elective, that's how. - easy
          • My wants are just as valid as anyone - I want
            • I don't even know what to say to that... - Flabbergasted.
              • I love my children but having a child does not mean - I want
            • Just be sure to also get therapy for your cold and thoughtless nature. nm - Unreal.
    • sad that you think wanting a baby is - ss
      • There's no guarantee it works, hence a crapshoot. nm - .
      • Yes, that is sad and mine - Been there
    • Aside from the fact that you are right, was it necessary to be so cold? - Why am I so surprised?
      • I wasn't being cold, simply matter-of-fact. sm - Confetti
      • I don't know of any but wish you the best - :) observer (NM)
        • Good grief! - McFingers

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