Think if he were my son I would take him aside and

Posted By: sm on 2006-12-20
In Reply to: EX in-law problems - need advice

remind him how fortunate he is to be living with this woman and doing the sport he so enjoys. That it has been a sacrifice for you as you believe this woman is not a real good influence on him but you know he is mature and can see her shortcomings. I would ask him to stop repeating things she says. If you make a big to-do about it with her it will only flame the fire IMO and she wins and will continue to win as she has him 24/7. Sorry and best of luck!

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EX in-law problems - need advice
- In my opinion - your first mistake is letting your son live with her sm - IC-MT
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- Think if he were my son I would take him aside and - sm
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- This is a joke, right? Your son LIVES with her, - HUH?
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