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Would you be worried

Posted By: Frazzledmom on 2008-11-26
In Reply to: Hanging around your house (as long as - sm

Would you be worried if at 13 your daughter had a lot of friends who are boys?  My daughter also has a couple female friends but not around this area.  I am working so I can't take her someplace... all she wants to do today is hang out with boys.  She is downstairs in the kitchen now making lunch for the 2 neighbor boys because I told her she couldn't go out for pizza with them.  These kids are driving me crazy today!  What would you do?


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I was worried as well...
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I would be worried about illness.
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After actually listing these things, I feel a little more at ease, however the red flags are pretty strong and are very apparent on a day to day basis, especially his speech.  I'm thinking he is somewhere on that spectrum at least.  Thanks for listening as this has been the cause of some tears lately. 


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Only idiots who can't read need to be worried

It clearly says you shouldn't take them with high-fat meals.


I've been taking them for 2 weeks now and have not had any such effects.  I'm not on a super low-fat diet, I just use common sense.


 


Gotta admit -- I was a little worried

Not because I doubted their abilities, but because it seemed like in the first rotation or 2, they were showing some serious bias to the Chinese.  Shawn Johnson's balance beam was way better than Ying Yilan's and yet her score was ranked higher (not talking about the difficulty value, just the execution score) Even the commentators last night were talking about it.  Nastia's uneven bars got a lower score than it deserved as well.  I'm glad to see the judges got their heads out of their you-know-whats for the last 2 rotations and gave these girls the scores they deserved. 


I do feel somewhat bad for the Chinese girl, though.  I hope she doesn't lose a few fingers or toes over this.  Of course as young as she is, I'm sure she'd recover quickly.     That's something else that seemed strange to me, the American girls seemed very emotional and yet the Chinese - nothing (at least not last nice).  Could that be because our girls have a few more hormones running through them, like any normal 16-year-old would? Hmmmm


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Are you the Anon who was worried abt possibly violence or hubby taking your kids? m
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